I occasionally send text messages to chat with him, joking and so on, but his wife misunderstood me. Should I explain to his wife? Don't miss them

You can explain it, but you should also see what kind of person his wife is. If she is a bitch and scolds the street, she is stingy, suspicious and unreasonable. If she is such a woman, you'd better not go. At that time, you will make things worse and worse, complicating things. Even you are involved. Are you angry that the hostess came to the door?

If you are a lively, cheerful, enthusiastic and generous lady without suspicion, it is good to have dinner with your husband, which is easy to explain. Maybe we can be best friends again.

Whether you go or not to explain, don't go around by yourself, you have to see what her husband, that is, your colleague thinks. If you have a husband, the two families will be very happy together.