What should women do when faced with sexual harassment? How can women prevent sexual harassment?

Women do not want to encounter sexual harassment, but sometimes it is still difficult to avoid it. When facing sexual harassment, women must know how to protect themselves and not let the bad guys succeed. In many cases, sexual harassment can be avoided. , the main thing is to improve your vigilance, so what should women do when faced with sexual harassment? How can women prevent sexual harassment?

1. Sexual harassment prevention skills

1. When approached by a strange man: give a direct warning. Receiving an ambiguous phone call: Do not use harsh words. Receiving pornographic gifts: Do not swallow your anger.

my country's first survival education textbook for primary and secondary school students - "Survival Education in China" has been released in Shenzhen. The book introduces fourteen "secret tips" for primary and secondary school students to prevent sexual harassment. According to the reporter's understanding, Beijing's primary and secondary schools currently do not have a textbook specifically targeting sexual harassment. In recent years, adolescent girls have participated in various social activities and have been exposed to increasingly complex environments. If they lack the awareness of self-protection, they may encounter sexual harassment. The reporter interviewed the Beijing police for this purpose, and the police provided several preventive measures based on practice.

2. Harassment in public places: direct warning

Harassment method: being looked up and down with ambiguous eyes or making sexual comments.

How to deal with it: If a strange man strikes up a conversation, ignore it, avoid it immediately, change positions, and leave immediately if possible; for those who intend to sexually harass, first express your dissatisfaction with your eyes ; If the other party does not restrain himself, you can give a direct warning with words, express your refusal clearly and firmly, and tell the other party that you are very tired of his words and deeds; if he insists on having his own way, you can call the police and ask the police for assistance.

3. When faced with phone harassment: Do not use harsh words

Harassment methods: By calling, "How come you forgot me?", "How come you don't know me?" The other person will think of all kinds of reasons to chat with you. He will most likely call again and again.

How to deal with it: When encountering the above situation, it is best not to use fierce words to retort, because this may arouse the other party's excitement. You should say in a serious tone: "You made the wrong call!" If the other party is a If a stranger who frequently harasses you calls, you should hang up immediately and ignore him; or tell him that the phone is equipped with a tracker or recording device. Also, remember to tell your parents what happened. If the other party comes to your home, call the police immediately.

4. Receiving obscene materials: express your attitude positively

Methods of harassment: giving sexually related gifts or displaying pornographic publications.

How to deal with it: Don’t flinch or deal with it secretly, but say to the other party in a firm tone: "Your behavior is really boring. If you don’t take it back, I will complain." And tell others about the matter. With people you know, leave items as evidence; eliminate the mentality of being greedy for petty gains, and do not easily accept invitations and gifts from the opposite sex.

5. If you encounter harassment in a vehicle: reprimand loudly

Method of harassment: encounter deliberate touching or rubbing.

How to deal with it: For men who engage in sexual harassment, do not shrink back or be embarrassed. You can rebuke loudly: "Please take your hands away!"; you can slap his hands hard, and you can also inform your peers. partners, attracting public attention and causing the offender to retreat.

If the situation is serious, you can call the police; in addition, if you are wearing high heels, you can step on his feet without mercy.

6. Being harassed by teachers: Do not go to the teacher's dormitory alone

Methods of harassment: Some male teachers with bad conduct use their positions to pretend to "care" and "take care" of female classmates.

How to deal with it: It is best not to go to the teacher's home alone. It is safer to be accompanied by a reliable companion; if you encounter harassment, you should make it clear that you don't like his words and deeds and issue a warning. If things do not improve, or the other party threatens, you should seek help from your parents and school, or report the case to the public security department or judicial department. Minors can apply for legal aid and be represented in court by their parents and lawyers.

2. Suggestions for women

1. Female students should avoid wearing topless, backless or miniskirts in crowded or secluded places.

2. When going out, especially in unfamiliar environments, pay attention to those who are following you with ill intentions and take avoidance measures when necessary.

3. People who engage in sexual harassment should avoid and call the police as soon as possible without any hesitation.

4. If you encounter sexual harassment, especially sexual violence, you should call for help.

5. When encountering sexual harassment, you can deal with it tactfully. You should also try to preserve evidence and seek help and report to the relevant departments as soon as possible.

6. After being injured, you should go to the hospital for testing in time to prevent internal injuries, pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases, etc., and conduct psychological questioning, psychological treatment, and mental trauma as soon as possible. Parents and teachers should educate female students to learn to protect themselves.

3. How to eliminate sexual harassment from the opposite sex

When eliminating sexual harassment from the opposite sex, it must be reasonable, beneficial, and measured, differentiate between different situations, and adopt a hard-and-soft attitude and a carrot-and-stick approach, both to protect You must also be responsible for yourself and others.

You must adopt a "cold treatment" attitude towards the excessive care and attention given to someone suspected of harassment by the opposite sex, showing that you are not concerned, uninterested, or even bored by his (her) words and deeds. attitude. It is very important to deal with it in this way. It will give the other party a psychological hint, making him or her feel that they are asking for trouble and restrain themselves. At the same time, you can also deliberately tell your spouse (or lover) that you have a good relationship with your spouse (or lover), a deep relationship, a happy family life, and that you are very satisfied, to make him or her feel disappointed and think that your intention is whimsical. The road is dead, so you should give up. You can also simply introduce him to your spouse or lover. When he sees that you are indeed a loving couple or lovers, he may also take the initiative to stop harassing you. On the contrary, if you express a good impression of him, are willing to accept his care and concern for you, and even hold an ambiguous attitude towards his intentional harassment, then this kind of person will feel that there is an opportunity to take advantage of him, and he will become more entangled and step by step. If you force it, you will start to use your hands and feet, and it may develop to the point of being out of control.

If you are serious and have taken the correct approach, but the person who harasses you not only retreats but intensifies the harassment to you, then you need to think of further solutions. You can make it clear to him/her frankly that it is inappropriate and even immoral for him/her to do this. You hope that he/she will respect himself/herself and not have any inappropriate thoughts. And you can tell him (her) that you can only have a normal heterosexual relationship with each other. When necessary, you should truthfully tell your spouse or lover about these situations in order to seek understanding and help. Only in this way can you be protected, enhance the relationship between husband and wife, and eliminate unnecessary misunderstandings and suspicions. . Of course, we must not show mercy to those who insist on having their own way, being reckless and coercive. They should report it to their immediate superiors or superiors without hesitation, so that the harassers can be educated and warned. If conditions permit, after this kind of thing happens, it is best for one party to transfer the work unit (if both parties are in the same work unit). This can not only avoid the embarrassment when meeting every day, but also help both parties recover quickly. on balance and eliminate surrounding influences.

To eliminate harassment from the opposite sex, it is very important to show confidence and stability, to behave appropriately, generously, and discreetly, and not to be provocative. This is especially important for young, beautiful women. If you are upright, then no one you meet by chance, no matter your colleagues or acquaintances, no matter your boss or leader, will dare to express any evil in front of you, or even have any inappropriate thoughts. . Once there is harassment by the opposite sex or hear gossip about oneself, in addition to taking the measures mentioned above, the person concerned must also look for the reasons from himself, especially from deep within his heart. Because as long as you have a little evil thought in your mind, it is likely to be expressed in words, actions or facial expressions. Only then will the person who wants to harass you find an opportunity and dare to act boldly.