My boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago, and Lahei deleted all contact information. What kind of psychology is it?

For this question, it depends on what caused the breakup. In my opinion, there are two kinds of psychology in most cases. One is that you love too much and want to stay in your heart, the other is that you don't love enough and don't want to be disturbed.

First of all, let's take a look at the first one. I love it so much. Why does a relationship end? Just because of lovelorn, incompatible personality and external factors, it is impossible to be together. Then when you love too much to be together, the only way is to delete all contacts, stop contact, stop memories, and let you slowly forget the past two people or bury this feeling in your heart without any connection. If two people who love each other keep in touch after breaking up for various reasons, then they will never forget that feeling in their hearts, so both of them are more painful, but they can't be together when they are in love. What a painful torture. It is said that time is the best medicine to cure everything. When two people who love each other are separated, it takes time to dilute their previous feelings, heal their wounds and let go of everything. So the only way is to delete all the contact information and bury everything in your heart.

Secondly, let's look at the second one: not loving enough and not wanting to be disturbed. In the love between two people, some love each other, some boys love girls more, and some girls love boys more. In this case, the girl loves the boy more, and the boy said that he broke up and deleted all contacts, indicating that the boy does not want to be disturbed by you. In our life, two people broke up and wanted to contact each other, but there was still hope. Why else would they contact? So when this boy or girl doesn't love you enough, they don't want to be disturbed when they break up.

In short, two people in love broke up, and not contacting is the best way to let go. I think those who can still be friends after breaking up are either deeply in love or one of them doesn't love the other at all. Just like Xing Yun and Nan Chu in the TV series "The World owes me a first love", in fact, they both have people they love or like, so they are still friends after breaking up.

Well, this guy is tough enough to wave his hand without taking away a cloud. I don't know why you did it or how you recruited him. As for what psychology? Let me try to solve it and see if I can open the puzzle in your heart.

First, why did you delete all the contact information, because I was afraid that he couldn't help looking for you and contacting you again. If so, it means that he still has you in his heart, and you are not sure that you are really angry with him, so you are confused and deleted it at once; But I think since he still has you in his heart, it is possible to add you back, depending on how long he can endure and how long he can live. This boy is very good. Give him more time, maybe he will understand that people will come back.

Secondly, this is a rude performance, and we will never meet again. If so, it is estimated that you have been deeply hurt by this relationship and your heart is dead. Why do you still have your contact information? At the same time, this decisive performance is also a formal notice to you, "We are finished, please don't bother me to contact me again."

Third, the third is to pretend to scare you with prevarication, "see if you dare to come with me in the future." If so, it means that he is serious, and he knows your temper better, knowing that you will go to him when you are in a hurry, and he will take the initiative when you get better, so if you miss him, go to him, give him a step, coax him, and everything will disappear.

What do you think of the three situations I mentioned? After all, you two have been together for a long time You should get to know each other. Try to sit in the right position.

No matter why you broke up, such as disagreement, different opinions and different tastes. At this time, reason and experience will tell you that separation and integration will not only help, but also make the previous mistakes infinitely magnified and repeated, and maybe even the last remaining goodwill will be exhausted. Therefore, blacking out is actually a road of self-destruction, at least better than paying attention to each other's dynamics and doing meaningless struggles every day knowing that there is no result. When hacked, there will be many thoughts and ideas, because the first reaction of hacked people is finished. Whenever you encounter problems, you should find the reasons from yourself and think about it. Mind your own business. Another point is very important. We are all adults. We must stick to our decision and never go back on our word, so we should think twice before making a decision, otherwise it will be even harder. It is inevitable to meet each other on the road of feelings. I hope you can make yourself more mature through setbacks, so these setbacks are your stepping stones.

Come on, life is beautiful, don't live in memories, time will heal everything, and everything that has settled in time was once beautiful. Be a kind person. He may have hatred or helplessness. Maybe I don't hate you, but I just hate not being together. Helpless, I don't want to move the mouse to your avatar every time, and I want to know your news. If there is no result, I have to pay attention to it silently. Turning black may just be a helpless escape.

Because there are two reasons for this power outage. The first one is that I care too much about seeing heartache, so I might as well cut it off earlier, or I want you to care about him and give me some instructions. The second kind is too annoying, but the second kind is rare. After breaking up, I was very happy at first and felt very free, like a bird out of the cage. Almost two weeks later, I began to wonder why you didn't contact him. At this time, there will be a little commotion, and some small moves will attract your attention, such as sending a circle of friends or hacking your WeChat and adding it back. If you really can't let go, just wait and see, his circle of friends may have a result, whether he has another one, or he is glad that he is single, or maybe he can't enter you. Who can say? I hope I can help you!

What does it mean to delete contact information after breaking up? On the one hand, he is still deeply in love. People who love him will get out of control when they see the past chat records, and they will send you messages, but sending you messages after breaking up is harassment. Only by deleting all contact information can you control yourself. On the one hand, it is true, because since we are separated, there is no real connection, so cutting off all contact information will avoid future troubles.

Nowadays, there are many ways of social interaction. As long as there is love, there is always a way to connect.

Men and women break up in different ways in love, and girls are more inclined to delete black. As the party who broke up, many boys can accept that their predecessors stay in WeChat friends. However, it is not excluded that your boyfriend will have different ideas. Since two people broke up, it's no use keeping WeChat, because we won't contact again in the future. It might as well be completely broken.

Another possibility is that after breaking up, you pestered each other or the other party felt uncomfortable leaving you in WeChat friends, so I deleted you.

No matter what the other person's psychology is. Don't bother, leave love to those who deserve it, not those who give up on themselves.

This is a question that people love and hate. Because I have loved and paid, I am together, because I have lost, been sad, bitter and tangled, so I am black. It's not you, it's him who can't stop. He can't be so helpless and sadistic. He figured it out, but if he couldn't let it go, it would be black, and the rest would be left to time and fate. Just like a woman likes a piece of jewelry, but it's too expensive. A woman is very ... so she collects first. If she's okay, she'll sneak a look and watch again. I admire the woman who brought it home at last [rose], but people are a little different from jewelry. If she doesn't love each other, she must learn to let go. He loved you, at least he is happy. You should find a way to love someone who loves your life. [Ross]

It may be helpful for you to say my opinion.

Let's see if we can confirm whether he has any ulterior secrets (such as illness, major family changes, etc.). ) that has a greater impact on him.

Second, if the above situation doesn't happen, it's because you broke up. Delete all your contact information and think about why you broke up. If you want to be satisfied, you can start from this aspect.

Third, as a man, you can simply and decisively break up with your girlfriend without leaving all your contact information. It can be seen that attitude is decisive. China people talk about feelings. Either you hurt him, or he has put it down.

Finally, I wish you get out of the shadow of lovelorn at an early date. Laugh positively at life! Can I help you?

For this question, it can be said that you are either a college student or a girl who has just stepped out of social work. It can be inferred that you are a naive girl who has no love experience and cherishes feelings. Girls are always more considerate and mature than boys. For boys, before they get married, they always like to play around. For girlfriends, they are just passers-by and will not manage this relationship with heart. Once they break up, you will be his victory. He never loved you at all, and you are only his temporary "companion". Delete your contact information, that is, don't let your next girlfriend know that you are an "ex", and he doesn't want to contact you at all, so it will be more difficult for his next girlfriend to appear with you. Your contact information means nothing to him.

That depends on whose problem it is. From your analysis, neither of you should have much problem (such as cheating).

Either you think you are married, and your boyfriend thinks you can't meet the requirements of your family (bride price, house, car, etc.). Because your marriage requirements are very high, your friends think that your relationship is built with money and is not worth it, so they will pull you out after breaking up.

Either you are too good, even if you are willing to suffer with your boyfriend, but his boyfriend still feels that he can't give you a better life, so it is better to break up and leave each other alone.

Also, your boyfriend thinks he is too kind to you, so you are afraid that you will disturb his good life.

To answer this question, you need to answer from the following age groups:

1: college students and young people

Girls' IQ is not high enough when they are in love. For love, I am naive, inexperienced, devoted and cherished to feelings. What I think is always more thoughtful and mature than what boys think in the long run. For boys, before they get married, they feel that they are still young anyway, so they should go to play instead of running this relationship with their heart. They will think that the harder it is for girls to pursue, the more they cherish, and vice versa, and once he proposes to break up, you will become his victory. Of course, this is only a phenomenon of a few people.

2. Middle-aged people

Middle-aged people are relatively mature, either have experienced a relationship or are cynical women. For a middle-aged man, if this woman hadn't broken his heart, he wouldn't have proposed an extreme way to hack all contact information after breaking up.

These are just my personal thoughts.