How to understand the title of the article "Children stay away from the troubles and injuries of depression"?

Recently, the topic # Mom stopped taking antidepressants for her daughter and replaced it with vitamin # was posted on a hot search, which triggered netizens' concern: her daughter's grades plummeted because she didn't adapt at the beginning of her junior high school. Hangzhou Xueba's mother stopped taking antidepressants and replaced them with vitamins.

A junior high school girl is suicidal and needs to take antidepressants regularly. Despite this, the children's emotional changes have not attracted enough attention from parents, and they are even considered as "doing" and "not wanting to go to school". It is reported that the girl's parents both graduated from top universities in China. A common mistake made by parents is to educate or even reprimand their children in the tone of "experienced people", regardless of their actual situation and psychological needs. From the parents' point of view, the children's performance is just "making a mountain out of a molehill", but from the psychological teacher's point of view, "this undoubtedly pushes the children to another abyss."

Children also have their own anxieties and troubles, and they also need to listen and understand. The crux of the problem lies in whether parents sneer at "teenagers don't know the taste of worry" or even criticize and ruthlessly suppress it in the name of "emphasizing worry for adding new words"

According to the National Blue Book of Depression in 2022, 65,438+30% of patients with depression are under the age of 08. 50% of patients with depression are students at school. The prevalence of adolescent depression has reached 15~20%, which is close to the adult level. Some studies believe that adult depression develops in adolescence. This is a shocking number, but it is also a sad reality: it is urgent to care about children's mental health problems and keep them away from depression.

Although there is only one word difference between depression and depression, they correspond to completely different reactions: depression is a normal emotion, while depression is a complex disease. More importantly, mental illness is usually more difficult to find and cure than physical illness. Stress will inevitably lead to depression, and long-term stress can easily accumulate emotions that have nowhere to release and form symptoms. In this process, if the individual's voice is not heard, it is difficult for people with depression to open their hearts. With the growing gap between them and the world, it is inevitable that they will have a series of negative emotions such as excessive inferiority and self-blame, and even go to extremes.

Recently, Zheng, a 24-year-old girl from Hangzhou, caused a large-scale internet storm because of her pink hair, and eventually died of depression. While feeling sad about the fall of teenagers in the flower season, many netizens are also asking: Why are there more and more depression patients? Maybe we should ask: What should families and society do for this?

In the realistic context of people holding microphones, the influence of public opinion on individuals is deepening. Out of fear of being isolated, many people tend to believe the voice of the majority, even blindly standing in line, shouting and killing. With the help of the network megaphone, the lethality of cyber violence is often amplified instantly, and indiscriminate attacks may target anyone at any time. Sudden cyber violence can easily become the last straw to crush camels. Only by cracking down on cyber violence and guarding the civilization at the fingertips can we safeguard the public interest and ensure the healthy development of the Internet industry.

From the perspective of caring for teenagers' mental health, parents should pay more attention to their children's psychological needs and improve their emotional immunity through a harmonious family atmosphere. In real life, groups or situations will have a direct impact on individuals. Everyone is the "receiver" and "amplifier" of emotions. Parents want their children to have a bright future, but if they can't respect their children's psychological needs and solve their growing troubles, they may "lose in the present"-on the long road of life, children's mental health is more important than anything else.