Let harmonious parent-child communication give children positive motivation.

Let harmonious parent-child communication give children positive motivation;

1, the correct concept of family education is the key to children's growth. Parent-child mutual trust * * * melts * * * encourages * * *.

2. Create a harmonious parent-child relationship and let the children know that we heard his voice.

The communication between parents and children is not a day or two, but a daily communication, which can not only keep abreast of the growth and development of children, but also enhance the feelings between parents and children.

Parents should prepare a notebook to record what happened with their children, or the problems found and the confusion caused. The process of frequent recording is actually a simple self-reflection process.

Matters needing attention when communicating with children:

1, parents should not be impatient and should not make accusations. When children quarrel, they are bound to be loud and have a bad attitude. Parents must calm down and listen to what they are arguing about. Don't blame until they know the reason, because such a simple and rude treatment will make children feel resistant.

2. Respect him. The most basic thing in interpersonal communication is mutual respect, especially for adolescent children. At this time, there will be many little secrets hidden in their hearts. Don't rummage through their personal belongings, don't try to peek at their secrets, and respect the fact that he has almost no secrets.

3. empathy. Parents are also coming from the rebellious period of youth, but their children are not obvious, so in the face of their inexplicable behavior, they might as well put themselves in their own shoes and think about why their children are like this. With * * *, you will understand children and find the crux of the problem.

4. Allow children to make mistakes. This stage is a critical period for children to form their own opinions, and small mistakes are inevitable. Therefore, parents should allow their children to make some mistakes and suffer losses, and don't tie their hands and feet too much. At the same time, parents are the best role models for children, and children have strong imitation ability. Good words and deeds of parents will exert a subtle influence on children.