Record: After being brainwashed by Durban, I became a slave banned by my husband's circle. what do you think?

The complexity of social structure is an inevitable driving force, which gives women more choices rather than opportunities for indulgence. It is natural that men always have great opportunities to indulge themselves. When women receive the education of female virtues, they must ask men to accept male virtues. Men should also be loyal and self-loving, and assume family responsibilities from beginning to end.

There is too much nonsense in Durban, and feudal content is unnecessary. As for changing boyfriends' hands and feet, frankly speaking, promiscuity before marriage will lead to AIDS. Love yourself from beginning to end is the right way, and it is wise to keep pace with the times.

It can be said that both men and women are at fault in today's marriage and love issues, but relatively speaking, China's current marriage and love issues are completely dominated by women, from the satisfaction of men in love to the satisfaction of women who meet the standards, to the satisfaction of the material needs of bride price wedding rooms, and then to the new era marriage concept of being a nanny and a hegemon. It is these problems that make today's marriage and love smoggy.

Maybe Yu is right. Women's own problems are serious, but in my opinion, women's faults only account for three points, and the other seven points come from society.

The whole exchange structure of social interests and needs is complex, and it is the problems here that give women the opportunity to indulge. There is no need to blame women here. When a man is given such an opportunity, he won't have much self-discipline!

Therefore, the existence of female Durban is necessary, but the symptoms are not permanent. If women want to be chaste, love themselves and be a good wife and mother, they must have the protection of corresponding interests.

For example, in Japan, there are family courses from primary school, and women have learned the ultimate in caring for their husbands and educating their children. Marry a chicken with a chicken, don't give a bride price, the job is all-inclusive, and the society recognizes it. Even if they are old and divorced, they can get most of the property.

Not just moral rhetoric and praise, after all, morality is not too binding now. If we want morality to be binding, we must reshape morality, which is a long and arduous task.

The real female Durban is at best only a small part of remolding morality.