In the face of natural and man-made disasters, do you choose to surrender?

Not long ago, Typhoon Sudillo invaded Taiwan. The powerful typhoon caused the loss of the roadbed of Hualien's seaside road, and a stone tablet that said "Man can conquer nature" was swept away by strong waves.

When I saw the news, the first thing that flashed through my mind was "It turns out Taiwan also has this". The subtext is actually - after all, the cultures are of the same origin. People of our generation have seen many slogans and slogans about "man can conquer nature" since we were young. "Man can conquer nature" reflects the Chinese people's long-standing desire to defeat nature, but are unwilling to live in harmony with nature. For example, in myths and stories, "Pangu opened the sky, Kuafu chased the sun, Jingwei filled the sea..." etc., such as Foolish Old Man moved the mountains, aren't they all examples of "victory over heaven and nature"? Lin Yutang seems to have written, "China is a country of patches. Even the sky was patched up by Nuwa." Isn't "Nuwa patching up the sky" an example of man's victory over nature? !

When I was a child, the most common rumor I heard from the elders in the countryside was "I heard that I don't know when the river will be straightened." The so-called straight river means to make a crooked river straight. When asked why the river is straight, even the old people can't explain why. What is certain is that if the superiors had issued a notice to "straight river", it is estimated that the river would have been a scene of bustling labor, with noisy gongs and drums, colorful flags, and hunting. The slogan that is not there is "Man can conquer nature"... because people believe in "fighting against heaven, fighting against earth, fighting against people, it is endless fun!"

While attending the NLP course of teacher Li Zhongying a few years ago, what happened in Japan caused a major earthquake and triggered a tsunami. When asking questions in class, some students said that after reading reports about the earthquake, they felt completely out of sorts and felt extremely powerless in the face of such a natural disaster. They asked the teacher what to do. The teacher was silent for a moment and uttered two words:

Submit! I don’t remember much of what the teacher said later. Maybe I was trying to understand and digest the word “surrender” in my own way, or maybe my mind wandered. But remember that "there is no way to resist the things of God, you can only obey and surrender."

Our generation has experienced the Tangshan Earthquake. We lived in earthquake shelters for a long time when we were children. We have almost experienced the feeling of "every tree and grass are in danger". At that time, village cadres patrolled the night every night and did not allow villagers to go home to sleep. When patrolling, the militiamen had to use flashlights to check whether there were any abnormalities in the wells, whether there were groups of rats crossing the street, whether there were signs of turmoil in the livestock, etc. Later, when they arrived in the city, they no longer A simple earthquake-proof shelter was used to sleep in the open air, and the wooden bed in the room was just propped up to sleep under the bed. One day my dad took me to watch a movie at Gangshan Cinema. In those days, a documentary (also called an "encore") was played before the official start of the movie. It was similar to today's commercials. The scene played that day was exactly the scene after the earthquake. I When I saw the horrific scene in the movie, I felt my stomach churning. I couldn't watch it any longer. Because I was still afraid of my father, I told him that my stomach hurt badly, so I stopped watching and wanted to leave the cinema.

I have always thought that when I was less than 10 years old, I lied to my father about my stomachache because I didn’t want to see the tragic images in the documentary. Until yesterday, that feeling returned to my body. When I was little, I couldn't tell the difference between my stomach and my stomach. All the pain I felt could be called stomachache. In fact, it was the inner depression that made my stomach uncomfortable.

Propaganda posters of the 1970s/Internet

Yesterday, the Tanggu explosion incident swept the screen. I followed a lot of news. I almost never watch TV. I started watching the news broadcast and WeChat public There are also all kinds of texts from various perspectives on accounts and Moments that impact the eyeballs... The firefighter's son's last WeChat message, retrograde figure, etc., moved (and saddened) his eyes to tears; a former colleague said that he missed it very much. After crying so hard, I commented on WeChat, "Cry if you want to"...

At night, I was alone at home, and suddenly I felt uncomfortable in my stomach. The faint pain suddenly reminded me of When I was a kid, I watched the earthquake documentary at Gangshan Cinema.

I probably know where my problem lies. After a catastrophic event occurs, communication is now convenient, and people can learn about the progress of the event through the WeChat and Weibo news networks in minutes, and whether the news is true or false. Focus on the number of casualties and losses and spend as much time as possible on disaster relief. If you read too much, it will inevitably have a psychological impact on some people. The term in psychology is vicarious psychological trauma.

I once saw a case. There was an old man in Taiwan. After the earthquake, he watched earthquake disaster reports almost 24 hours a day. As a result, he couldn't eat, couldn't sleep, and cried. His whole life was affected. In the end, he had to go to the hospital for treatment because of depression.

People are different. I feel that I cannot bear to pay attention to disasters, whether natural or man-made. Paying too much attention to "negative" news will directly result in "the whole person is not good."

When I was a child, my father took me away from the cinema. I was the only one at home last night. Because I also learned some NLP knowledge, I did the "surrender" action before going to bed——

< p>Wash your body with salt and bathe, dress neatly, stand on the balcony facing north, bend down deeply, deeply, bow...

And resolve not to pay too much attention to relevant news, for us It is said that taking care of one's own life and working well are more important than anything else.

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