If you don't talk, someone really treats you as a mute.

You say nothing, even if you are excellent.

So what?

1.

A few days ago, the club recruited new students and became a senior. I also participated in the interview assessment of the department.

Before the exchange meeting, I became familiar with one of my school girls and developed into friends who knew each other and cherished each other. In other words, if she decides to come to my department, there is absolutely no problem.

But she told me in advance, sister, I'm going to the morning reading department and I'll go in by myself.

I said yes, you come.

During the interview, she briefly introduced herself, and then told her the advantages of morning reading: you don't have to stay in bed every day, you can read books on time in the morning.

As for her familiarity with China classics such as Mencius and The Book of Songs, she didn't say anything about what she helped the community publicize in the sun in the morning or what she knew about me.

Because she thinks the benefits of morning reading have already been said, and she doesn't need other acquaintances or more reading: practical.

Unexpectedly, however, other students interviewed not only explained their advantages in detail, but also brushed aside any skills related to Chinese studies in recent years, such as reading, painting, Hanfu and dancing.

As a result, after the interview, everyone only remembered those who were the most active and talked the most, even if it was exaggerated.

Junior is very sad, so am I.

Obviously, for those who talk a lot, some of their contents are indeed fictional and exaggerated.

But then both of us reflected on this result: should we show all our so-called advantages and relationships in detail?

Even if it's a little fake

2.

The result of reflection is: say it.

People are really sensory animals.

When we go to the mall to buy clothes, we will choose the right one according to our personal aesthetics.

I couldn't help but stop when my favorite music came from the stereo in the street.

This is also the reason why many companies set up campaign interviews: without much understanding, we can judge whether a person is suitable for this job through his short-term speech and behavior.

Actually, there's nothing wrong with it.

For the interviewer, the information you can expose is nothing more than the manuscript prepared in those few minutes, and they will give you a suitable answer based on this unique evidence.

It can't be said to be completely correct, but in many cases, due to the lack of information and its unique reliability, this judgment is relatively accurate (not including the back door here).

Vulnerabilities are inevitable, and some people always take this opportunity to add drama to themselves. However, a good opportunity must be won by yourself, because the existence of the interview itself must be reasonable.

I heard a sentence that I agree with: most of the established rules in this world, no matter the degree of right or wrong and reasonable standards, have their inevitability.

We can't change it.

Just like this world, some people have been allowed to exist.

3.

I didn't understand the importance of expression when I was very young, and I suffered a lot.

In the third grade of primary school, an incredible thing happened, and it hurts to think of it so far.

One afternoon, I came to the classroom to prepare for a Chinese class. Suddenly, the fat girl at the front desk shouted, I can't find my Chinese textbook!

The teacher immediately stopped and ordered the whole class to rummage through drawers at the same table in case of omission.

Then, the fat girl's textbook was turned out by my deskmate and put in my drawer.

At that moment, you will know what it feels like.

But unfortunately, I didn't have the courage to defend myself at that time. I just stared at everyone's eyes and cried.

After returning, I cried for more than an hour. My mother was very angry and yelled at me. Are you stupid? You didn't take the book. Won't you tell the teacher? !

I felt very wronged, but at that time I just didn't understand why someone was so bad, but I didn't even have the courage to refute it.

Since then, I have not become very brave, but expressed all my grievances and thoughts in words.

But at the same time, I deeply realize that if you don't talk, someone will treat you as a mute.

Who cares if you don't say it yourself anyway?

4.

We don't have many audiences. We are all actors walking around alone in the spotlight.

But once someone comes to the theater, they must cheer up. Even if they are obviously tired, even if their fingertips are dripping with blood, they should smile and dance to the music.

Many times we can't be ourselves, let alone show ourselves with injuries.

Because I don't know when the next audience will come.

We must try our best to show ourselves in front of everyone, even if it is not true.

It may be cruel, but there is no choice.

Fate is cruel. If you don't want to bear anything, it will take away your love letter. If you don't want to fight for it, it will never be given.

Especially ordinary people like you and me.

No wealth, no beauty and no capital to be proud of.

If you don't fight for it yourself, you will be ignored as a mute.

You say nothing, even if you are excellent.

But so what?

5.

My junior wondered at that time: I did a good job, and they all added fuel to the fire.

Yes, you did a good job, but dear, everyone ignored it more or less selectively except you and me.

I told her at that time that if you told her about your performance in the morning and the books you read, you would get more points.

The premise of luminescence is that someone needs to see it or know it from your mouth.

Just like those students who talk nonsense, everyone heard them anyway.

In the world of adults, there are too many rules and people are lazy. Few people want to be bole and seek good horses. Most maxima still need to cross the world by themselves to get good reviews.

Again, most opportunities need to be won by yourself; Your Excellence needs your own interpretation.

The era of pride and independence has long passed.

Even if you have a dazzling pearl hidden in a jar, it will only fade.

You are so excellent, so impeccable, so pure and moving.

Take the initiative and be generous, okay?

A person who is treated in some way: dividend | reverend

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