Why are the post-9s not willing to have babies? Five popular words, endless reasons and bitterness

Wen | Lucky pregnant sister (senior mother and baby nurse practitioner, original is not easy, please don't copy)

How many babies do you have each? How to bring a baby? And how to get pregnant? Under the topic, there are always a group of post-9 s young people who will express their reluctance to have children, and even resist having children.

People in other times are a little confused about this. Nowadays, young people grow up under the care of their parents, and when they raise their children in the future, they will also be helped by their parents. Why don't they want to have a baby?

1) Jiwa

How much parents in China are willing to pay for their children's education? Nowadays, netizens have also seen that it is only the most basic thing for mothers to quit their jobs and become full-time wives.

Parents of children attending classes can't be idle. At the very least, they should accompany them to various cram schools.

Many young people are afraid that after giving birth to a baby, they will also become the parents of a "chicken baby", and they will fall into the anxiety that their children are not as good as others and may fall behind others every day.

And the cost of education is very expensive, and few parents can afford it.

2) Having fewer children and having better children

Having fewer children and having better children has been a popular slogan for decades. Nowadays, some towns and villages have not erased it, and people born after 199 grew up listening to such slogans and propaganda.

Therefore, under the topic of whether to have a baby or not, some young people said, "The education of having fewer and better children is deeply rooted in people's hearts when I was a child. I think this is right and I don't want to change it."

3) 996,7

Nowadays, many companies require their employees to work about 12 hours a day, six or seven days a week, which leads them to have no time to deal with family affairs after work, let alone educate their children.

So they feel that instead of leaving their children without good companionship and education, they can only be a small clerk like themselves in the future, and it is better not to be born at the beginning.

4) Delayed retirement

Some young people say that at the current rate of delayed retirement, they may not live to leave their jobs in the future, and no one needs to take care of them. In this case, there is no need to have a baby.

Some people even joked that after having a baby, they might have to work with their wife to raise a large family.

5) involution

Nowadays, involution is more serious in all walks of life. Young people spend more time working and earn less money. Children need to master more and more knowledge in order not to fall behind others.

If this goes on, everyone in the family may be unhappy. In order to be happy and free, young people have to stop having children.

whenever a post-9s generation expresses their reluctance to have a baby, someone will always say, "Why are you so selfish? I don't care about the feelings of my parents holding grandchildren and don't consider the development of the country. "

But sometimes, the older generation chooses to have more children, just like the young people choose not to have children now, they are all thinking for themselves.

The reason why most of the older generation have babies:

The reason why most young people don't have babies:

Moreover, compared with the older generation, young people have at least thought about their children:

Many people have never been able to resist the pressure of the outside world or want to find a person to care for themselves, but they rarely consider the education of their children. When they have no time to take care of their babies, they will give them full power to their grandparents or leave them alone.

This causes them to have various psychological problems.

Psychology says that all the problems that people have in adulthood can be answered when they are -6 years old.

Therefore, for the sake of children's future, it is better to get ready for regeneration.