How to distinguish between true feelings and feelings of shouting slogans?

I think people who have true feelings will pay for it, while those who can only shout slogans will just talk, and they will never see his contribution. In fact, if a person treats a relationship sincerely, he will take the other person very seriously, and will not only love him with verbal promises, but express his love through practical actions.

Seeing people for a long time is actually a way to identify the true feelings. Some feelings are not so deep, so with the passage of time, the already thin feelings will be washed away, and finally the hypocrisy of the other party will be exposed. In fact, we can see whether the other person's feelings for themselves are true or not from some small details in life. If you really like a person, you will pay attention to their emotions and care about their physical condition. If a person doesn't even know that you are sick or unhappy, then I think he should have no feelings for you. At this time, I think you should separate.

Many people say that looking for a boyfriend and girlfriend is not looking for a nanny. Why do they always ask themselves to take care of each other? But I feel that if you don't even pay attention to each other's emotions, even the obvious changes of the other party are hard to detect, which is different from strangers. What's the point of this feeling? Therefore, in fact, boyfriend and girlfriend are not each other's nannies, but a love that can care and understand each other. This love needs to be mutual and present in many small details in life.

The feelings of shouting slogans will always stay in words. They won't give anything, let alone do something for each other. In their eyes, when I said these words, I already loved each other, and I didn't need to do anything else. ?