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Life is never easy. There are always all kinds of bumps and troubles. Many people will give in to setbacks, bow to reality, constantly suppress their desires, round their corners, hide in comfort zones, and end their lives hastily.

But there is always another person in life. She never gives in to life and herself, just like a sunflower, trying to grow towards the sun. It seems that there is no haze in her heart, and she is always full of positive power.

In college, my roommate Xiao Dan was plain. At that time, she had neat short hair and simple clothes. She is low-key, seemingly uncompromising, but neither supercilious nor supercilious, without the inferiority complex of rural children like me.

She is meticulous about her work. No matter how fast she writes, she will make sure that her handwriting is neat and her studies are stable in the top few grades. Every step under her feet is very practical and firm. She can at least join the club at the ministerial level, be re-elected as the secretary of the League branch in the class, and become the counselor's right-hand man as the grade monitor. Her personality charm always conquers the people around her invisibly. I often wonder why Xiao Dan is so powerful. He can easily get what others may not get with several efforts, and he can get along well everywhere.

We used to talk about our future life in a corner of the campus. I said that I just wanted to go to Beijing in the future, and there was no sacred and specific reason. Beijing is the only city I am familiar with. Xiao Dan said that she never wanted to go to a big city like Beijing. As long as she has a suitable job, she will be safe in her life.

There is always a stable and uncontested atmosphere in her body, and there is always positive energy flowing in her heart, so she has been working hard towards bamboo.

Many companies go to our school to recruit when they are near graduation. Once, the school activity center held a large-scale job fair, and all-calibrated graduates gathered together. The originally empty and spacious place was crowded with people.

A company has a booth. Behind the booth stood Yi Labao, who introduced the background of the company and asked for a job. There are three or five recruiters standing in front. We can't count how many companies there are. We only remember that the scene was like a market, no, it was more crowded than the market. Everyone holds a stack of resumes and hopefully delivers them to companies that meet the requirements.

Four people in our dormitory feel too crowded to move back and forth. It's stuffy and crowded here, as if a boat is moored in the middle of the sea and can't advance or retreat. At this time, Xiao Dan took one of us with one hand, knocked out a gap with his immature shoulder, and stumbled through the crowd with high momentum. As a follower behind me, I felt the strength in her hands and her motivation to push forward, and I couldn't help but admire and envy her.

At that time, I felt that as long as Xiao Dan wanted to do it, nothing was impossible. She may not have a long-term plan, and she doesn't know where the ultimate goal is, but there is always an upward force in her heart, doing what she thinks is right at any time, and making her heart grow towards the sun.

My cousin dropped out of junior high school because of family difficulties. She went to Qingdao to study beauty at a young age, but she began to make a living while others were still studying at school.

My cousin is very beautiful and can dress well, which may be related to her industry. She is very particular about dress and makeup. She once spent thousands of dollars on a beauty membership card. My cousin told me more than once that her life is too tight, but I envy her this casual life. As long as she can spend money, she can earn money.

She is twenty-four or five years old now. At this age in the countryside, she is an unmarried older woman. Her family was worried about her and invited many people to find a match for her. Young people of this age in rural areas have long been married and even had children. Everyone thinks the conditions are similar. Tell her not to be so picky, but she's not partial and hasn't kissed many times.

Some time ago, it was said that she talked about a friend on the Internet, but she failed once. In her words, she just can't speak the same language. She said, "I'm not in a hurry. I can't just be satisfied with happiness all my life." My mother once advised her, "Nell, the boy I introduced you to is really nice. Why don't you want to? He is also a college student. After all, you are uneducated and can't be so picky. " She smiled and said, "I just don't feel anything, aunt." I just don't have a diploma. I still have culture, haha ... "

She dropped out of school prematurely, but after work, she still insisted on studying. As long as she has time, she will pick up books and constantly improve her cultural quality. She didn't want to give in to fate and felt that she had lost the opportunity to learn knowledge at school, but books could be read by everyone. I haven't read many books on her desk.

She is cheerful, loves to talk and laugh, and treats her work and customers seriously and sincerely. She is selected as an excellent employee every year, and her monthly salary can be as low as 20 thousand yuan, which makes Gao Fei, a graduate student, feel ashamed.

She loves life, and after busy work, she has traveled all over the scenery around the imperial city. She can often be seen in pottery workshops, studios and libraries, looking for food with three or five friends and traveling abroad with her old mother.

Her life is always so colorful, and she feels that her vitality is always as wild as weeds. There is a powerful energy in her heart, which makes her unwilling to be mediocre, pursue the breadth and depth of life, and strive to make flower of life bloom freely.

A friend of mine gave up a stable and high-paying job in the system after graduation and chose a more challenging medical representative from a foreign company. Although he doesn't have to attend classes and his working hours are more flexible, the pressure of working at home is even greater.

I often have to sort out various reports until the early hours of the morning. In order to maintain customer relationship, I have to run around in various hospitals. In order to talk to a customer, I was blocked on my way to and from work, but I met all kinds of cold-eyed and even harsh words from the customer. If the target is not reached, I have to bear the accountability and roar of the leader.

She often cries tired and complains that sales work is not done by people, but after a sleep, she is full of passion, never perfunctory in her work and looks like a complete workaholic. Her performance is the first in the group every quarter, and the reward for her ultra-high-intensity efforts is also very rich. She only worked in the imperial city for two years, and bought a three-bedroom mortgage in the provincial capital city on her own.

Because of her father's sudden cerebral infarction, she had to take time off to go back to her hometown hospital to take care of her father. She said: "In the hospital, I still have to worry about my work in Beijing, the money for sales, mortgage, and medical treatment. The landlord sold the house and owed the rent for more than half a month. I have to rent a house and find a house to pay the rent. Everything is put together, and I can't help crying when I eat in the morning. It's too difficult.

But she didn't give in and finally got through it. Her father got better and was discharged from hospital. She moved back home. Although life was a little tight, with her efforts, everything calmed down and returned to her control.

Before, she always said that she wanted me to introduce her. Before I found the right person, she solved the important events in her life. The speed is amazing. Just a few days after she saw the announcement of her relationship, she got a marriage certificate. Her husband is tall and handsome, plus her sunny and cheerful personality, she is really a good match. At the same time, she started the dog food model, which is sweet and enviable. If a person works hard actively, it is hard to be unhappy.

Some time ago, I learned that she was pregnant, but she still hasn't changed her desperate nature as three mothers. Occasionally, she has to work overtime until the early hours of the morning, sometimes so busy that three meals a day are merged into two meals. I really neglected the baby because of my work. I said, "You should also work for the baby, so don't work so hard."

She just smiled and said, if you need to work, you have to earn money, but this is also a kind of prenatal education. In the future, it's not bad for a baby to be a workaholic, regardless of sex, so that she has enough ability to support herself, and life has never been easy. I hope it can feed itself.

She not only works hard, but also knows how to enjoy life. She pasted warm wallpaper on the cramped rental house, cooked various eye-catching and stomach-nourishing breakfasts every morning, bought expensive cosmetics as a reward for herself, watched movies with her husband, walked around the park, and had a very pleasant time when she was not working.

My friend's attitude towards life often makes me feel ashamed. Compared with her, I am a little muddled along. When what I want comes, I am very happy. It doesn't matter if I don't come. I've never worked hard for it. Even though I have worked hard, it is nothing compared with her efforts. It's not terrible that others are excellent. The terrible thing is that people who are better than you work harder than you. Her life and mentality are like dying. I'm afraid that even if I keep running, I can't catch up.

But there is still a lot to learn from her, and that is to insist on being herself. The Excellence of others has nothing to do with yourself, and there is no need to compare with others. We should find our inner light and strive to grow in its direction!

Life is not always sunny, and there may be storms at any time. The key is what kind of mentality we treat.

"At the beginning of life, human nature is good." Everyone likes truth, goodness and beauty, and hates falsehood and ugliness. They are eager to reap happiness instead of falling into the quagmire of misfortune. But how many people can really control life, and how many people are being controlled by life, their ideals have long been submerged, and they just drift with the tide and live a walking life. There is a saying: death at the age of 25 and burial at the age of 75, although cruel, is a true portrayal of many people.

Love at first sight is definitely not what we want. Many people are willing to change and make unremitting efforts for it, but they suffer from no direction and no breakthrough because they are confined to the comfort zone. How can we find our own pursuit and find the sun in our hearts?

Wang Yangming, a master of psychology, said: "I am self-sufficient in nature and don't pretend to seek outside." Everyone has a conscience, born without asking for anything. If we compare our conscience to the sun, worldly desires are just a cloud. If our emotions are too rich and exceed a certain limit, our conscience will be covered. What we should do is to keep the light of conscience, dispel the clouds in secular desires and fill our hearts with sunshine. Because everyone has a conscience, we naturally know right and wrong, good and evil, beauty and ugliness, and what kind of life we want. As long as we keep growing towards the sunshine in our hearts and do things unremittingly, we will certainly grow into what we look like in our hearts.

Someone once asked Huang Lei, "What is happiness?" He said: "My understanding of happiness is to live in the way I like." He said so and did the same. As a man, he is keen to be a home cook, which seems a bit sissy to others, but he likes to do it because it is his hobby and a lifestyle he likes.

Everyone can live in their own way, as long as you stick to it and grow towards the sun like a sunflower.

Postscript: The three protagonists in the article are my classmates, relatives and friends. From them, I see a kind of strength, love life and perseverance. They are always humble, and there is a beam of light in the Buddha's heart to guide them to work hard, grow towards the sun like a sunflower, and gradually grow into a gesture that people look up to.