How can I become a successful person?

The so-called successful people are unique in vision, outstanding in eloquence, fearless in courage, good in mentality, harmonious in interpersonal relationship, successful in career and so on.

Different people have different experiences, are in different environments and have different understandings of success.

Niu Gensheng, the founder of Mengniu Group, understands success as three things: courage, foresight and organizational ability. Yu, president of New Oriental Education Technology Group, pays attention to people's will. He said that no matter who you are, as long as you have the seeds of a tree, you will become a towering tree sooner or later. Dale Carnegie, a famous American interpersonal expert, said: "A person's success 15% is attributed to his professional skills, and 85% depends on interpersonal relationships and his handling skills."

Then, in the face of all kinds of successful beliefs, what should we do and which ones are suitable for us?

Is that this problem is not complicated. In this complex society, we only deal with three factors. The first factor is ourselves. The second factor is others; The third factor is things.

First, we are rich in knowledge, and now we are in the era of knowledge economy. Getting rich by courage was out of date in the 1980s. 2 1 century What is the most expensive? Knowledge. Therefore, on the basis of our existing knowledge, we should constantly charge ourselves, otherwise we will become the outcast of society.

Second, a unique vision, a pair of discerning eyes can help you identify the direction and grasp the future. This stems from their own accumulation, knowledge accumulation, life accumulation, work experience accumulation, the accumulation of the essence and development law of things, the characteristics of the interconnection between things and so on.

Third, good eloquence, we often say that a person's eloquence is more important than Jiuding's treasure; A glib tongue is better than a million teachers. Good eloquence, communication skills and persuasion are undoubtedly the necessary qualities for success.

Fourth, a calm mind and firm belief, without a good mind, you can't make a correct judgment. Impulse is the devil. When you are excited, impulsive, sad, hateful, depressed or unhappy, don't make any decision or say anything, so as not to cause an irreparable situation. Firmly believe that persistence is victory. There are no failures in the world, only losers. Efforts are not necessarily successful, and giving up is bound to fail. Ma Yun, chairman of Alibaba's board of directors, said that today is cruel, tomorrow will be even more cruel, but the day after tomorrow will be beautiful, but most people will die tomorrow night and will not see the sun the day after tomorrow.

Fifth, extraordinary courage, everyone in the world wants to make a lot of money, but just think about it. The real winners are still a few. Why? That's because I have no courage to try. That is, people have become accustomed to a stable and comfortable life and have developed a lazy character. Fear of failure, fear of losing a comfortable life, fear of losing face. So, consider that there are thousands of roads at night, and many people take the same road in the morning.

Six, there are ways to do things, (three classic methods)

Act according to the law, and the person who acts according to the law is God, doing what should be done, not what can be done. The usual method is to finish a thing with the right person and the right method at the right time.

Everything or law has two sides. We can't just see the good side and ignore the bad side. Things or laws are full of variables in development and cannot be ignored.

Being good at following the trend, one can't cover everything and do everything best, which requires the help of tutors, teams, nobles and the public. With the help of national policies, media, public awareness, popularity, social hotspots and so on.

Pay attention to time when doing things, "Time is money, efficiency is life", which was the slogan of Shenzhen Shekou float during the National Day military parade 1984, which shocked the whole country at that time. The same applies today. God is fair. He gives everyone 24 hours a day, but the results of different people using 24 hours a day are really different. Some people work eight hours a day but do one thing, while others do two things. Some people are busy but don't do a meaningful thing, and some people do a meaningful thing but don't worry. Heaven rewards diligence, which is valuable and meaningful.

Seven, iron interpersonal relationship,

Iron interpersonal relationship is the foundation of people's foothold in society. Sometimes they are think tanks, sometimes they are your labor force, sometimes they are your backers, and sometimes they are your nobles.