Will unmarried people be miserable when they get old?

I met an unmarried old girl who lived to be 94 years old, young and with a special scenery. She works in an office and likes beautiful clothes. She becomes beautiful every day. Her work unit is very good, and she is very beautiful. There are many matchmakers and many blind dates. She doesn't care about any of them. Slowly, there are fewer and fewer matchmaking people, and she is getting older and older. I'm not looking.

I have been living alone since I retired. Although I love beauty in clothes, I am very frugal in eating and drinking. Later, I was old and couldn't take care of myself. I hired a nanny, and no one was close to me. Nannies often put her at home to play. Finally, I was seriously ill for a few days. My niece's nephew came and said she was here to divide the property. The old girl has a building and a million deposits. His nephew was afraid that the old girl would die at home and was sent to the hospital for two days. Did you die a terrible death? This is the story I saw with my own eyes.

Don't even think about it People who are unmarried and have no children of their own will be very painful when they get old.

The most typical example is a philanthropist named Li, that is, when he was young, he met a foreign old lady and married her, and after her death, he inherited hundreds of millions of property. After returning to China, I never got married and donated all my money to charity. Later, I heard that I had Alzheimer's disease when I was old, and I didn't even have a relative around me. Can I live a better life?

Forget it. When I'm rich and old, I'll pay for a nanny, live in a nursing home, and have someone to wait on you. There are too many things that nannies abuse and beat old people. Many children have installed surveillance cameras at home, which can't stop this from happening. What's more, you are a lonely old man without children, and you were abused to death. Your body stinks at home, and no one asks.

It is said that raising children to prevent old age. Although raising children can't prevent us from getting old now, at least on the day when we are old, we can still have a person who signs the guardian column and a person who holds the urn after death.

One of my relatives, a woman, is over 70 years old this year. She has been trading stocks all her life. It is said that she now has tens of millions of assets and has never been married.

When I was young, I wandered outside and came all the way from our small village to Wuhan, where I bought a house and a car. Now I have several houses.

When I was young, I lived a free and unrestrained life. I'm not hungry when I eat the whole family. At the same time, I don't want to be tied down at work. I haven't found anyone at all. When a person reaches middle age, she has a certain wealth, and the poor object despises herself. She is afraid that she will miss money one by one, and the rich people despise her little assets, so she has no advantage in age and appearance, and it is even harder to find one after 50.60. I've lived here for most of my life, and I won't do it when I'm old.

This relative has a nephew who was admitted to Wuhan at school and found a job there. At school, she bought a computer and clothes for her nephew and let her eat and live in her own home, just like her own children. After graduation, I gave some money to buy a house for my nephew. Usually, my nephew takes care of her like a son. Aunt is long and aunt is short, just like a kind and filial mother.

This relative has no other relatives, and we all say that this means leaving the property to the nephew. It's okay, my nephew's blood is his own, so it's ultimately a matter of time.

However, after all, he is not his own son, and it is not so casual to use. It can only be that both sides have their own conscience.

This is a rich man. If he had no money, he might not be so lucky to have a good nephew.

Even if you live in a nursing home, you need money. If you don't have money, it's too poor. It's not your own children who serve tea, pour water, wash clothes, cook and pour shit. Who would do these things?

So I think, if you are not married, you can have money. If you are not married and have no money, it is really pitiful.

Not very happy, are you? Are you looking for a theoretical basis for people who don't get married, or for people who can't afford to get married? It can also be said that it is self-comfort!

If unmarried people are happy, why do rich people want three wives and four concubines? Even though they are bound by the marriage law, there are still many wives and concubines and countless children.

I heard that there was a rich man whose three sons were all doing business outside. At the age of 80, he said to his sons: I heard that you still have children outside, so you should take them home for me to see. As a result, three families and a * * * brought more than 20 grandchildren home.

Life is extremely unstable in very difficult troubled times. Where some people go, where women are found, where children are born, and how many wives they have in their lives. If they are not married and happy, why do they suffer like that?

There is a five-guarantee household who doesn't have to worry about the basic life, but sighs all day, feels lonely and sad, and stays away from the crowd. I have never seen a smile on her face, a lonely lamp and several buddhas. She can't hold her head up in front of everyone, especially in front of serious illness and minor disasters. What do you think she will play?

Human beings are social animals, and the natural instinct of survival and life accompanies and tortures everyone's life, which is deeply rooted and does not depend on will. I heard that there used to be a pair of sister flowers in the village, which were beautiful and outstanding. But in that extraordinary period, due to the influence of grandpa's landlord status, no one dared to get married and chose not to marry himself. Older than normal people, miserable, people in their forties are wrinkled and gray-haired, and they are old before they are old!

There are two kinds of ideological burdens in life: one is the burden of life, and the other is the burden of physiology. Physical problems are more troublesome than life problems. Life is more prone to baldness. Everyone wants to get married, regardless of gender, and their mood is the same. Unless the conditions are limited, there is no way to consume!

What will happen to unmarried people in their later years? Can not be unified. Everyone has different status, different social status and different natural treatment. Some people say that when you get old, you go to a nursing home. I don't think nursing homes are paradise. If the nursing home is the reliance of the elderly, what do men and women do when they get married and raise children? The history of human civilization is wrong, should it be rewritten by modern people?

I am 65 years old. I have never been married, but I have found many women. I have been to Shenzhen, Guangzhou, Hangzhou, Wenzhou and Fujian to get married, and I have also been in love in China. There are more than 30 in urban and rural areas, and the last one failed because I didn't value myself. When someone says something wrong, I think the quality of the other person is very poor, but now I remember that I am worse than the other person. Now that I am old, I really regret it all my life. I'm afraid the final result will be miserable.

People who don't get married are all wrong. When they were young, they were not afraid. They make their own money and spend their own money. When they are lonely, they will invite some friends to drink and chat. When they are lonely, they sing and laugh. When they are lonely, they spend money recklessly. Unmarried people lead a very unique life when they are young. When a person is full, the whole family is not hungry and doesn't work much. They behave like constantly chauffeured people every day, which is the advantage of unmarried people.

But unmarried people will be as miserable as Huang Lian when they get old. It would be better if they accumulated a little money when they were young. If they have no savings, it will be a dead end. Dogs won't look at you. You can't get out of bed without drinking water. The last life was really miserable. You died at home and didn't know anyone had found it.

However, people who don't get married now are not poor even if they have no money. Fortunately, the country will send you to a nursing home with food, drink and services, but you are married and have children. Relying on children at home is much happier than supporting the elderly in nursing homes, because your own children are very close.

People who don't marry are fools, but married people love their country.

I think so, too. Now they are all only children. At home, they have no brothers or sisters, only their parents are there, so they can't feel anything. Accompanied by their parents, they can chat with their parents every day. When they come back, they can eat ready-made meals cooked by their mothers every day, but parents can't accompany their children for life. They will leave this world one day.

By the time your parents leave, you will be alone. No one can talk, and a man with a headache and a fever even served tea and water.

When I was young, I wouldn't say anything. I am old and unaccompanied, and I am very calm when I see my children and grandchildren are full of excitement. No one can accompany me and relieve my loneliness. Very sad.

If you get married at marriageable age, have your own lover and have your own lovely children after marriage, your family will be very happy. Although it is not easy to pull a child, the birth of a child has also brought countless smiles to this family.

When the children grow up, take part in the work, and are no longer with their parents, they still have wives. I have something to tell her. It is better to have a warm nest and support each other with a little help than to live alone.

At least you have a son and a daughter, which is your hope when you get old. If you have any difficulties when you are old, you can tell your son and daughter whether it is better than being alone.

No matter how much money a person has, he will not be happy, and he will feel lonely. No one knows that he died at home, so getting married is better than being single.

It is said that even if the elderly enter the nursing home, they will be divided into three grades, six grades and nine grades. Old people who have no children and no one will make trouble are the lowest, and nursing staff are the least concerned. Old people with children are still worried. They are afraid that the elderly will complain to their children and their children will find trouble in the hospital, which is relatively much better. You may say, are there no rules and regulations in nursing homes? Dare to look down on the old man? If you think so, you are still an egg shaped thing in the face of complex society and don't know anything!

Those who are unmarried and infertile are happy when they are young and miserable when they are old. I suggest getting married and having children, raising a child with the same genes as myself and watching him grow up day by day. This kind of fun is irreplaceable by anything else. You might as well have a try!

Half men are women and half women are men. Don't be too picky, otherwise, your old age will be really lonely! Come out all day and go in alone! Infinite loneliness!

In my community, there is an aunt named Tian Xiaoxiang who is 82 years old this year! I fell in love with a classmate when I was young, and the result was! Students are so cruel! Open her love letter and laugh at her! Deeply hit, she fell ill. From then on, I no longer believe in the sweetness of love! Make up your mind to live alone, bear the wind, frost, rain and snow of the years alone, and have no regrets! She is just an ordinary housewife, just taking precautions. I prepared my own pension money and pension house early. I saved a lot of money when I left the production team, and there is not much money! After leaving the production team, she went to Beijing as a nanny. Later, after seeing the world, she immediately went to do business and sell clothes. She has been to Guangzhou, Shenzhen and Wenzhou. I bought two houses in the East Third Ring Road in Beijing. Now, when people are old, they have returned to their hometown in Tangshan, Hebei. I have more than 10 million in my hand and bought two suites in Tangshan. One is a bottom-level enterprise with a rent of 80,000 yuan a year. A set of 100 square meters of self-occupation. Her little life is carefree, and she won't worry when she is old! She is happier than a woman and a son! Don't worry, nobody cares when you are old! Senior nursing home, or live-in nanny can do it! Anyway, under the reward, the sun is shining all the way!

People are old, have no money, no children, no house, only a whole body of illness, that will be very pitiful! Going to a nursing home is also very painful! In short, you must be responsible for yourself! Old nest, wife, old friend, all three are indispensable! There must be a handle! Otherwise, how to fight the wind and rain!

Actually, not necessarily. Look at your life and think about what kind of person you want to be. Let me give you an example. I have a sister-in-law in her forties who has never been married, but her life is wonderful. She has a job she likes. Every year, she will spend several months traveling and going where she wants to go. Once I talked to her, she said that she might never get married in her life. She feels lonely. She has also planned what she will do when she is old. Everyone is different. But most people will choose to get married. After all, getting married will make people around you think you are a normal person. Getting married and starting a family is the normal life of most people. Actually, it's nothing. If you meet someone you like and want to get married, don't regret it. If you don't meet someone you like, don't get married. The key is to see how you treat yourself, how you treat yourself, and live a wonderful life. Sometimes one person is wonderful, or it can be two people. The key is to look at your own choice. If you choose, don't regret it. Choose the life you want!

"If you don't get married and have no partner in your later years, you may not live to get married in your later years. If you don't work hard and have no money to support the elderly, if you work hard, you may not need to support the elderly. "

"If you don't get married, you will send yourself to a nursing home. If you get married, you will be sent to a nursing home by your children. The result is the same. "

Seeing this question, I thought of these two teasing words.

When you make a choice, you will naturally give up the quality of other choices. You can't want, want and want. People who are too greedy are generally unhappy.

What I want to discuss here is not the situation that I can't get married, but that I choose not to get married.

My cousin, the daughter of my mother's aunt, is 50 years old. She was married when she was young, but divorced within three years. Because this man has a bad temper, his cheating behavior was discovered. After the divorce, many people introduced her to her Finally, her cousin refused to remarry. She has a stable job and works in a bank with a high salary. She also talked about someone for several years (in her words, she didn't get married and didn't put off dating).

My cousin travels around in her spare time. She has some like-minded girlfriends, and she also spends a lot of time and money on skin care, beauty and dressing. Although she is 50 years old this year, she looks like 40 years old according to her dress and face. Besides, some of my other relatives in their fifties are really in their fifties. Now they are basically taking care of their grandchildren at home, old and young. Isn't life like this?

I want to say that you can not get married, but you must have no money. If you marry the wrong person, it is not only loneliness, but also pain. If your eyes are worse, you may be in the mountains and rivers, trash cans and sewers after marriage.

Isn't the 56-year-old aunt who is very popular on the Internet recently driving in go on road trip a very painful example of marriage? There are many people like this aunt, but they don't have the courage to escape like her.