Are those "fake and exquisite" people really happy?

During my internship, I met a senior, single, slightly fat but beautiful, with beautiful facial features, big eyes and straight nose.

Sister Shi's circle of friends is exquisite, sober and comfortable to look at. From the circle of friends, I can feel that she is a person who pays special attention to the quality of life and inner cultivation. She has a crush on the teacher elder sister for no reason. She must be an interesting person.

One day, my senior and I had breakfast at nine o'clock. Senior arranged the coffee, hamburgers and potato cakes neatly and took a photo with a very nice filter. The essay "Breakfast two hours ago made me full of energy, another beautiful day (lovely little sun)", and then I finished breakfast with you soon.

Another time, my senior and I went to a boutique. This shop is beautifully decorated. After choosing the right angle in the shop, the senior took a photo, which was obviously beautiful, but it took a long time to retouch it, and then added a sentence that had nothing to do with our happy shopping at the moment. I forgot what it was.

After knowing the truth behind her exquisiteness, I have no opinion of her, that is, I sometimes wait impatiently for her to edit my circle of friends, but fortunately, the frequency of my sister's circle of friends is not particularly high.

Judging from her circle of friends, she is doing well now. Her married and photographed husband is not the Shuai Shuai type she used to like, but he has other talents and advantages that attract her more. After giving birth to the baby, the baby follows her and looks cute. The work is very stable, of course, the doctor is a little tired, and occasionally he watches the night shift at dawn.

You saw her lunch in a circle of friends, with carefully arranged plates, red and green, beautiful tablecloths and a bunch of flowers. Then the slogan reads: Healthy life makes me happy.

You saw her dress in Weibo: How does a plaid shirt look better with a pleated skirt? How do different bags reflect different temperament? How do the red numbers represent your mood and temperament? No matter what the theme is, I always go abroad, my makeup is meticulous and my clothes are different every day.

What you see in your life: the only table in her room is full of dazzling cosmetics, and many red numbers can be said to be 1234 in your opinion. Those clothes that can't fit in her closet are either hung on the hanger or left at the bedside. Luckily, she has a compact and portable ironing machine. She searched online for all kinds of Japanese tableware and small fresh tablecloths, used them to decorate tasteless meals, and then sat at the table and spent an hour or two looking for pictures, taking pictures and making friends.

Every month, she makes full use of her flowers and JD.COM white stripes, and sometimes she even needs to borrow them and use various credit cards. She scraped by robbing Peter to pay Paul, plus superb arithmetic, but she couldn't save any money, and even spent money in installments every month.

Many people often wonder where all their money has been spent. No matter how expensive cosmetics are, they can last for months or even a year at a time. No matter how many clothes there are, no one can wear them. Every food in the circle of friends seems to be the amount of several people, but the amount of food is not that big. Do you want to control your weight and lose weight? And why do they often line up to bask in the food of online celebrities, a scenic spot among online celebrities?

This is the life of many exquisite young people we have seen in our circle of friends.

Modern people define "exquisiteness" as: wearing clothes that are not heavy and beautiful every day; Never take pictures, never send a circle of friends without pictures; If you gain weight, you will fast for a day or two to lose weight, but after losing 3 pounds, you have reason to have a big meal.

However, no matter how beautiful clothes, no matter how beautiful makeup, and no matter how hungry you are, you can't hide your bad body shape. You walk around outside, eating and grabbing food, and talking without thinking.

They would rather spend money on all kinds of big-name cosmetics, and every day when they remove makeup, they will show their true colors instead of modifying their brains. They would rather go hungry than take two steps in the gym or community garden. They would rather enrich their wardrobes than their wallets. They know that the food in online celebrities is not delicious or even healthy, but it is enough to satisfy their vanity and make them glow all day.

They all think that exquisiteness is a young capital, but many people can still stand out from the crowd in middle age and old age and live their own elegant and free life.

Watch Super Grandma in Saga. How did a poor old man raise his children and grandchildren exquisitely during the war?

At that time, the whole society began to undergo drastic changes: the government budget doubled, the economy grew at a high speed, the yen appreciated, the dollar depreciated, college student movements continued, campus violence soared, the economic bubble, the oil crisis, and employment difficulties. ...

In this case, grandma can still live her poor life in full swing.

There is a saying in it: it is interesting to live. Instead of focusing on appearance, it is better to work hard on the inside.

Welcome to reading, I'm Yeshanxing. Don't let yourself be kidnapped by pretending to be exquisite, and live for face. I have seen a hot topic before: the circle of friends is fake and exquisite.

How many young people, the circle of friends shows a beautiful and exquisite life, and real life is really a mess. In order to pursue "exquisite" and high-end brands of food and clothing, the surface is glamorous, but behind it is huge debt.

There is such a girl in the circle of friends. Call her K-girl for the time being. Miss K works as an administrative assistant in a private enterprise with a monthly salary of 6 100. Her salary belongs to the upper-middle level in the industry, but for sister K, this salary is not enough to support her, and even she is heavily in debt. Having said that, girl K still lives brilliantly in her circle of friends. She lives with a Starbucks in her left hand and a Tiramisu in her right hand every day. Even though she wasted a whole afternoon waiting in line, she didn't fall behind. Exquisite makeup, wearing famous brands, wearing 12cm high heels shuttling between office buildings, holding ins-style lunch during the day and toasting at high bar jagermeister at night, completely forgetting the flowers that were not returned last month. I don't care that my consumption level is out of proportion to my actual financial level. Every month, I am either a moonlight clan or a moonlight clan. It's good to live with a sense of ceremony, but it's not worth draining your wallet and heart for this fake exquisiteness. It's a miserable life.

I remember a clip from Friends: Ross met a girl with a hot body and beautiful makeup. After seeing her home after the date, the girl invited Ross to her home, but when she first entered the door, Ross was deeply shocked by what she saw: the sofa was full of dirty clothes, the floor was full of garbage, and there were all kinds of unfinished snacks on the table. The girl picked up a potato chip jar and looked for her lost pet hamster. In this messy home, there is almost no place to stay, which is unimaginable. Is the exquisite and beautiful girl's room in the circle of friends so messy?

I have seen Fake You, a social network fable short film. The short film shows the difference between you on ins and you in reality.

-ins skin is white and flawless. I took a photo of getting up with the male ticket, but the truth is that when I got up, I was disheveled and the male ticket fell asleep unconsciously.

-ins wears a riding helmet, just like an outdoor sports enthusiast, but he really drives and sees the outdoor scenery, so he quickly takes out his helmet and poses;

-neat desk, cup, keyboard, binding machine on-in ... clean and concise, but the truth is that there are half-eaten apples, takeaway boxes that have not been thrown away after eating, and messy pen containers next to the keyboard;

-a harmonious and happy dinner, four people go up and down, but the real side is that they sit down and play with their mobile phones, let the waiter take pictures for them, and then turn around and immerse themselves in their mobile phones;

Seeing that you are glamorous in your circle of friends and glamorous in ins, I really want to ask, do you really live as well as in your circle of friends? Most people are quiet in their own circles, but the reality is just a mess, and your so-called exquisiteness is actually just a show and an illusion. True exquisiteness is not the "high-quality" and "petty bourgeoisie" life in others' eyes, but the true essence of living from the inside out with heart.

Exquisite life is not so extravagant. True exquisiteness must be a pattern of internal and external cultivation, self-reliance and universal value recognition. We should not only pursue the details of life, but also take care of our spiritual garden, even if it is messy outside.

External appearance and conversation, internal temperament and self-cultivation will always be a truly exquisite woman, which should be pursued and practiced all her life.

"If talent is hidden in your heart, time will never beat beauty." Thanks for reading, I am a night star.

People who are "fake and exquisite" may not be happy.

Yes, too many people pretend to be "exquisite" in real life. They have their own purposes, but they all reflect a kind of sadness.

There are three main reasons for exquisite camouflage.

First, die proudly.

Now as long as you open your circle of friends, you will see many people showing off. In fact, many people are not showing off what they really have, but because they feel that they are not as good as others, so it is better to show off.

Second, my life is bad.

When you open a circle of friends, you will often find that many people send out some inspirational chicken soup or make various "wishes", which are actually their disappointments in real life. They vent in another way, and even use them as one of the means to motivate their ideals.

Third, pseudo-exquisite love is actually a kind of inferiority complex.