"Fruits ripe in autumn, please don't pick them in spring, or they will taste bitter and astringent." What does this mean?

Spring is busy with spring. Spring must not pick fruits that can only ripen in autumn.

The best way is to treat them coldly and let them take part in more group activities. Broaden the circle of friends, inspire them to understand the consequences and responsibilities, and let them make their own choices. Only by getting rid of emotional troubles can we concentrate on our studies.

Parents should pay attention to the mental health care of adolescent men and women;

Men and women need to learn to respect each other. Parents should guide their children to learn self-esteem and respect others in life, and be able to interact with students of the same sex and the opposite sex normally. Respect and love are more meaningful.

Cultivate children's ability to make choices carefully. Let children know that they have the right to choose. Cultivate a responsible attitude towards your choices and actions.

Learn to protect yourself and cultivate the courage and ability to refuse sexual harassment and unhealthy lifestyle.

Learn to protect yourself. Girls should avoid going to dangerous places alone and being alone with people they don't know.

Attitudes and methods to guide family education;

Get to know children and enter their world. Parents should put down their elders' airs and be bosom friends with their children.

We must get rid of unhealthy mentality in communication;

Tao Xingzhi, a famous educator, said, "Don't let your child be a master, servant or outsider, but a human being." Human is an ordinary person, that is, a mentally healthy person, who is peaceful and can live in harmony with others.

Parents must understand the "sexual physiology" and "sexual psychology" characteristics of adolescent children;

Communication with children should start from childhood;

It is necessary to change roles more;

Give your child more expectation, praise and encouragement.

Parents should pay attention to art when talking with their children, and pay attention to "five don't talk" when having "critical conversation" with their children;

1. Don't talk while eating.

The child is angry and his heart is not calm.

Don't talk when outsiders are present.

Don't say anything until you know the situation clearly.

Don't talk when parents are in a bad mood.

Pay attention to "Five Notices" when having a "critical conversation" with children.

1. Talk to children often.

2. Communicate with children in time.

3. Analyze the problem comprehensively and don't force children to accept unfair criticism.

In critical conversation, we should also properly affirm the good side, instead of completely denying it.

When you speak, be gentle, don't be too obvious, and don't be indifferent.

Mother is the earth, which creates life; Father is the blue sky, and the blue sky embraces the world.

Parents in the world, let us love and accept children, be considerate and tolerant, turn selfless love for children into spiritual communication, illuminate their life path with scientific light, and teach them to successfully control their own destiny with the power of knowledge.