Respecting others is actually respecting yourself.

I thought people respected me because I was excellent. Slowly, I understand that others respect me because others are excellent; Excellent people know how to respect others. Respecting others is actually respecting yourself.

High-level people know more about "empathy" and empathy, know that everyone is not easy, and know how to respect others.

Kyle Melgrati, an Italian illustrator, once created a painting based on a realistic theme-"You never know who you are playing with!"

The cat in the picture regards the snake's tail as the mouse's tail and grabs the snake's tail without fear.

The meaning of this painting is: you never know who you are playing with. You should respect everyone and don't look down on and underestimate anyone easily. What you see may be a little, but others have seen it clearly and are just considering whether to hurt you.

Respecting others is actually respecting yourself. Knowing how to respect others is also the greatest embodiment of a person's education level.

True respect is actually a kind of equality, neither looking up nor looking down, neither supercilious nor supercilious.

The higher the level, the more people understand that respect means equality, value, personality and cultivation. Low-level people are often selfish and short-sighted, and blame others from the moral high ground.

Dostoevsky also said: People who don't respect others first don't respect themselves.

I remember a senior majoring in hotel management told me a story about his interview:

At that time, he applied for an assistant to the general manager of the hotel. After several rounds of re-examination, he and a girl were left behind until the last stage of meeting the general manager.

That day, they were told to go to the general manager's office together. On the way, they met a cleaning aunt who was cleaning the glass. Her cleaning car is next to her. When she turned around, she accidentally bumped into the girl and spilled the water in the bucket on them. There are water stains on girls' shoes and skirts, and there are water stains on brothers' pants and leather shoes.

The girl was furious in an instant and said, "Are you a foreman who cleans his eyes and knows that someone is coming behind?" Are you intentional? " . I have an interview later. Now you can see how I know such people. Can you postpone my interview? It's really unlucky "

He turned to his brother and said, "Wait for me, I'll clean up, and we'll go together later, otherwise it's not good to go alone?" After that, he went to the bathroom without waiting for an answer.

When the senior brother heard this girl talk like this, he immediately lost his affection for her. The master elder brother said to the cleaning aunt, "Aunt, it doesn't matter. You just spilled a little water. Don't blame yourself too much. Just pay attention next time. "

Then help the cleaning aunt mop up the water on the ground, while waiting for the girl, chat with the aunt and help the cleaning to polish the glass.

Finally, the two of them went to the general manager's office. The general manager held out his hand to his brother and said, Congratulations, you have been admitted.

It turns out that the so-called last interview was just the test of aunt cleaning. The general manager said: we are a service industry and have others in mind. Knowing how to respect others is the most important thing.

Therefore, respect is an important embodiment of a person's education; Only by considering other people's feelings and knowing how to put yourself in their shoes can we win their trust and support.

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Snow Desert Wisdom Course (Part I)

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A person's level can often be seen in a small quality.

I saw a video before. In the corridor of the office building, it is inevitable that food delivery will be delayed because of the rain in winter. When the female customer saw the meal sent by the takeaway brother, she was directly angry and poured it on the ground. She also complained that the takeaway brother delivered the meal late and the dishes were cold.

The female customer's anger at selling the little brother is not only because the takeaway is delivered late, but perhaps more importantly, her subconscious contempt for the food delivery industry.

In another scene, if her boss sends her a document late, does the female client dare to drop the document in front of her boss?

The level of a person's self-cultivation is often not reflected in his attitude towards his boss, friends and colleagues, but depends on whether he respects people who are "lower than him".

No matter between people or between industries, there is no distinction between high and low, and they are all equal. Respect for others means respect for yourself.

A person's level has nothing to do with his education, wealth and social class, but with his vision, cultivation and pattern.

The higher the level, the higher the emotional intelligence, and the more respect they have. At the same time, a person who knows how to respect others is often an "excellent" person.

They are far-sighted, experienced and have a big pattern; Mature and full of inner, there is no need to show nobility by belittling others and showing off yourself; Moreover, I know more about "empathy" and empathy, and I know more about respecting the difficulties and efforts of others.

In front of a busy cake shop, there stood a beggar in rags and with a bad smell. The guest next to him frowned and covered his nose with disgust. The man shouted, "Go away, let's go." The beggar took out some dirty little bills and whispered, "I'll buy the cake, the smallest one."

The shopkeeper came over and enthusiastically took out a small and exquisite cake from the cupboard and handed it to the beggar. He bowed deeply and said, "Thank you for your concern. Welcome to visit again! " The beggar left flattered, knowing that he had never been so honored.

The owner's grandson asked inexplicably, "Grandpa, why are you so enthusiastic about beggars?"

The shopkeeper explained, "Although he is a beggar, he is also a customer. It is really rare for him to spend a long time to get a little money in order to eat our cake. How can I be worthy of his love if I don't serve him personally? "

The grandson asked again, "In that case, why did you take his money?"

The shopkeeper said, "He is a guest today, not a beggar. Of course we should respect him. Wouldn't it be an insult to him if I didn't accept his money? We must remember to respect every customer, even if he is a beggar, because everything we have is given by our customers. " The child nodded thoughtfully.

The owner of this shop is Yoshiaki Tsutsumi's grandfather. Yoshiaki Tsutsumi said frankly that grandpa's every move towards beggars was deeply imprinted in his mind. Later, he told this story many times at the meeting, asking employees to respect every customer like grandpa.

As you can imagine, the "respect" here is by no means politeness in social occasions, but comes from people's deep understanding, care, consideration and respect for another life.

Such respect does not contain any utilitarian color, nor is it affected by any status. Only in this way, it is the purest, most simple and most rewarding.

Respect for others can be divided into three realms:

The first realm: respect for relatives.

The second realm: respect passers-by

The third realm: respect the enemy

When we can respect the enemy, we actually have no enemy, which is truly invincible.

Respect for leadership is a bounden duty,

It is a duty to respect colleagues.

Respect for subordinates is a virtue,

It is common sense to respect customers.

It is magnanimous to respect your opponent.

Respect for all people is an education,

It can be said that the charm of respect is infinite.

No one is perfect. We have no reason to stare at others, and we are not qualified to hurt others' self-esteem with dismissive eyes. If we are inferior to others in some ways, we don't have to replace our due self-esteem with inferiority or jealousy.

Only by learning to respect others can we win their respect. In fact, respecting others means respecting yourself.

The heart is one foot wide and the road is ten feet wide. Open your heart and be kind to everyone. Whether you like it or hate it, whether you are your friend or your enemy, you should respect them. This is a kind of courage and wisdom!