Why can others succeed but not you?

Recently, many friends have asked me, why can others succeed but not me?

In fact, I asked myself the same question a long time ago.

I thought about it seriously and decided to talk about this matter with everyone.

Although I can’t be called successful now, I feel that I have found two secrets on the road to success

Take the first step, and persevere after finishing the journey. 99 steps.

I used to think that success was a very difficult thing, but now I look back and realize that success really only requires these two things.

I don’t know what everyone’s definition of success is? Everyone may have their own opinions, and everyone's pursuits are different.

Some people think that making a lot of money is success, and some people think that reaching a higher and better social class is success...

In my opinion, I feel that I can put my favorite If you do something well and make some achievements, you are considered a success.

Maybe I am not a successful person in the eyes of many people, and I have never felt that I am a successful person in the eyes of the public.

I don’t have any secrets here that can teach you how to get rich overnight or become famous overnight.

Here are only the methods that I think are beneficial and that I practice all the time.

I have always believed that as long as you take the first step, you will be successful no matter what the result is.

In fact, taking the first step not only means you are brave, it is also a hidden manifestation of self-motivation.

If you are motivated, are you still afraid that things will not be done well?

If you don’t dare to take the first step, then success will really be a fantasy for you.

Having empty fantasies but not based on reality is really something that makes people feel stupid and dumbfounding.

Many of my classmates know what kind of career I am engaged in and what kind of things I am doing.

They often tell me: I also want to do this...

So I often receive questions like this: Is what you are doing easy? Is it easy? Earn a lot?

First of all, I never think that doing anything is simple.

Even if you are farming, you have to understand the living habits and preferences of each plant, when is the best time to plant it, and how to plant it to produce the highest yield...

And no matter what you do Whatever it is, the effort and income in the early stage are always not equal.

Your contribution must be far greater than your income.

So I replied to him directly: It’s not easy, it’s difficult, and I haven’t made a penny now.

He continued to ask, why do you still do such a thing?

I answered in four words: generate electricity for love.

Then he went on to say okay, forget it, I give up.

Well...give up...forget it.

I have lost count of how many times I have heard these words.

I might have tried to persuade my classmates the first two times, but then I gave up.

I also have many friends who say to me: I want to do this...I want to do that...however I want.

Most of the results are just talk and then nothing happens.

Why don’t you care about your dreams?

I also went from the initial encouragement, support, and help to silence.

Because I’m really tired, and people don’t rely on others to push them.

For those who don’t want to go ashore, no matter how hard you pull them, it will be useless.

You won't drown if you fall into the water, you will if you stay in the water.

As long as you take that step and climb ashore, it is considered a success.

Taking the first step is difficult enough for many people.

But in fact, when you take the first step, you will find that this step is actually the easiest, and the real difficulty is the next 99 steps to be completed.

Taking the first step may be impulsive, brave, or a decision made after careful consideration.

No matter what the reason is, if you want to complete the remaining 99 steps, you must have a strong heart.

In this process, you will experience confusion, suffering, blow, helplessness, loneliness, and even all your efforts will be wasted and you will have nothing.

Many people took the first step impulsively at that time.

It turned out that the process of completing the next 99 steps was so torturous and painful.

Then...

It was so difficult... I couldn't do it well... I gave up... Forget it.

Hmm... I seem to have heard this statement countless times.

After earnestly persuading.

No, no, it really can’t, I really can’t do it anymore.

Sigh... forget it then.

I have taught you the method and patiently advised you.

A person who really wants to die will still commit suicide if you save him 10,000 times.

What a pity, I have never heard anyone say, then I'll go for it and hold on.

On the contrary, I said more later.

In fact, I am not a very brave person. Sometimes I get confused and give up.

Especially after you have experienced a serious blow and felt deeply frustrated and helpless, your desire to give up becomes even stronger.

In fact, sometimes I am really frustrated. I often say to myself that this thing is so difficult. I have obviously tried really hard, why can’t I do it well? I really want to give up...

I often say this to my friends, but to be honest, I really didn’t think about giving up at that time. I just thought it would make me feel better to tell my friends.

After thinking seriously for 30 seconds, I continued to say another sentence: It doesn’t matter, just hold on.

Looking back now, every step of the way has not been easy.

A mixture of tears, sweat and blood.

But anyway, this journey has been so stumbling.

Sometimes I feel really broken and helpless. But in the end I would say to myself: It doesn’t matter, just hold on.

There are many people who cannot take that first step, so they never have the road to success from the beginning.

There are many people who take the first step due to impulse and enthusiasm but cannot persist in completing the remaining 99 steps.

Growth is a process of continuous practice, just like muscle growth.

Do you know how our muscles grow?

Tear-recover-tear again-recover again.

Isn’t the principle of growth the same?

Everyone knows these two principles, but few people can actually do them.

Some people have not yet set off, some are on the way, and some have reached the destination.

The best time to plant a tree was 10 years ago, followed by now.

Don’t worry if you want to get started.

It doesn’t matter, I will still accompany you on the road...

Wan Wan’s casual thoughts:

My personality is capable of being verbose. It’s a lot to say, but I think it’s better to say less nonsense, because it’s actually very simple to succeed. Just take the first step and then complete the next 99 steps based on the two points I mentioned.

That’s the main point of this article. I really hate that some so-called “successful gurus” who make millions a year teach some messy methods to cut leeks.

There are so many fancy ways to do it. Everyone knows the successful method, and everyone understands it. It is the idea in your heart.

You all know the truth, it’s up to you whether to do it or not...

See you later~