The sadness of complete disappointment. Tell me about the man who hurt you again and again. Why do you still love?

1, love and marriage are actually not the same thing, not all love needs to get married, and not all marriages have love.

2, we are all fine, you are still you, I am still me, just experienced too much, and finally disappointed and chilling, and separated from now on!

When we say goodbye, we will never owe each other, and we will never miss you. I wish I lost time and forgot your eyebrows.

4, always have to experience some betrayal, some sadness, in order to finally understand people's hearts.

5, you put a hundred hearts, I will not entangle, will not forget, will not be hysterical, will not be depressed, in the future, you are you, I am me.

6. Some stories don't have to be told to everyone, and some sorrows don't have to be understood by everyone. I'd rather bury it in my heart than say the pain.

7. There was nothing to say before, but in the end, there was nothing to say. A person rehearses the scene of our reunion after a long separation, and a person performs this one-man show with tears in his eyes.

I want you to know that no matter when and where, there are always people waiting for you in this world. Anyway, you know, there is always such a person.

9. Emotionally, we are not good actors. I can't hide my love, and you can't show enthusiasm.

10, how afraid I am of supporting each other. After stumbling away so much, there is no one with you in the end.

1 1. Waiting for a lover who has no interest in you is like waiting for a boat at the airport, a car at sea and a snow in June.

12, I took the initiative for a long time to find that my heart has gradually cooled with the lukewarm words; Only when you care more, do you feel that love has slowly disintegrated with that anodyne attitude.

13. You won't go to the barber shop where your hair is cut, and you won't go to the fast food restaurant where you eat your stomach. Why do you still love people who hurt you again and again?

14, the most regrettable thing in life is to give up what you shouldn't give up easily and stick to what you shouldn't stick to.

15, feelings are sometimes just a person's business. It has nothing to do with anyone. Love, or not love, can only end by itself.

Sad to say: why do you feel sorry for others when you are unhappy?

1. Don't come near me, be familiar with me, feel sorry for me, and leave me.

Why do you feel sorry for others when you are unhappy?

Don't hide your thoughts. Let the other party know.

4. You pushed my hand away with a persistent face, and I smiled and deleted my dream of owning you.

Suddenly losing your temper is probably a long-standing grievance.

6. No matter how arrogant you are, love has a chance to turn you into a dog willingly.

I treat you as a permanent guest when you come, and I treat you as a person asking for directions when you leave.

8. A city, a person and a paragraph are all like this, just like it.

9. Time will not make people forget the pain, but will only make people get used to it. Sometimes I feel sad not because of what I have done, but because I find that I know nothing.

Tired sadness. Tell me, why are you tired?

Tiredness in life is the subjective perception of life pressure in the heart. Many times, we all face the challenges of life and work with a trembling and forced psychology. How can I not be tired? Many times, the pressure of work and life is not so heavy, but your thoughts and emotions exceed your pressure and you will inevitably be tired.

Sometimes I feel so tired, I don't want to do anything, my life is so boring, and sometimes I am confused about the future. So what makes people physically and mentally exhausted?

I wonder if you often feel overwhelmed?

Do you feel tired sitting in the office every day, even if you just browse the web?

I set a goal for myself and don't want to do it right away.

Think you can't do anything?

You feel tired,

This is actually a signal that the brain protects itself.

When what you think in your head and what you do in your hand can't be unified,

You will start ideological struggle and naturally feel tired.

There are two situations when you combine what you think with what you do.

1. You don't want to do what you are doing.

You didn't do what you wanted.

You can't do what you really want.

According to these two situations, talking about my four points should help you eliminate most of your fatigue.

I will write the first two points this time, because a friend told me that my article is too long to read.

1, set me free

About what you are doing, you don't want to do (you can't do what you want to do),

Realize that you can decide your present.

When we were young, our parents would choose what clothes to wear and what hairstyle to cut for us.

Many friends may be forced by their parents to study unwilling majors. I have no choice but to work now. I feel very painful.

How to go after that, as a sober adult, is not limited. Although inviolable persecution still exists, it will not be discussed here for the time being. )

Any choice has advantages and disadvantages. You can choose to jump out of the status quo, or you can choose to accept it and stop complaining.

Take the lesser of the two evils. Think about it, yes.

Giving up the right to choose is tantamount to escaping the freedom that should be there.

The choices that have taken place, tell yourself,

At the cognitive level at that time, you have made the best choice for yourself. There is no need to regret it.

If you don't escape from freedom, you won't be far from real freedom.

2. Self-evaluation

In the ten years of studying on campus, we have been arranged from top to bottom according to scores.

This way of grading makes us inadvertently form some misunderstandings in our thinking.

We have experienced numerous big exams and quizzes, and the overall score ranking tends to be stable.

So it is natural to think that scores and rankings are equal to abilities, and abilities will gradually be regarded as a fixed thing.

Obviously, I have done a lot of work, but I still can't get any appreciation from the leaders.

I have been reviewing very carefully. Why can't I get on?

If we don't get something in return, we won't pay again.

Think about whether you can't listen to the inspirational sentences that you will succeed as long as you work hard.

In addition, the school's grading system has gradually cultivated us into a performance-oriented person.

I believe the following conversation happened between you and me.

Parent: Can't you do this problem?

Child: Neither can other students.

The child didn't say: I can't answer because I'm not good enough.

Because, he has felt:

Getting good grades does not depend on learning progress.

Mainly depends on the comparison with others.

The motivation for hard work has also become to get praise or avoid being criticized.

We care too much about the external evaluation and ignore the more important self-effect.

The standard of success does not depend entirely on your ability to do it.

More importantly, how do you evaluate your success?

Do more self-reflection and improve your evaluation of yourself.

Talk with tears: people who know you will be sad never ask you why it is difficult.

First, you are sad because people who know you will be sad never ask why you are sad.

Second, you said that no matter what I became, you would never leave me, so I took off my mask and watched you escape.

Third, you are the person I can say I like without blinking, but I am the person you can let go without looking up.

I pointed a gun at your head, but you stabbed the dagger into my heart first, but you didn't know there was no bullet in the gun, but it was filled with your favorite candy.

I'm so noisy, after all, you polished me into this pair of lonely words!

6. Tears are real, sadness is real, and it is also true that I want to spend my life with you.

7. Later, I met thousands of people who liked your hair and your eyes, but didn't like your face.

I thought I was invincible, but I didn't expect to be a crying child after all.

Nine, I have been curled up in the corner with my eyes closed, driving away my sadness with more sad things, because there is no hope without you.

I love you like kissing a sharp knife. The words that wish you happiness are true, and so is the heartache.