"I'm not a nanny. Why should I do housework? " What did the man say?

"Marriage is a combination of two people's spirits, aiming at overcoming all difficulties and hardships in the world."

When two people enter the marriage hall hand in hand, they deliver each other's life to each other's hands and promise eternal life, which means that love begins to blossom and bear fruit, but it does not mean that love can blossom and bear fruit smoothly.

Stepping into the marriage hall is just a small victory for your love. Only by spending a lifetime together can love be truly complete.

In order to make love have a happy ending, couples need to understand each other and pay each other, instead of one accommodating the other, one paying everything without regrets and one enjoying success.

Romain rolland once said:

"In marriage, everyone must give and take back something: this is the law of supply and demand."

There are pains and gains, and such love is complete for you.

Mr. Qi's wife is a woman who only knows how to take and doesn't know how to pay, which makes Mr. Qi feel exhausted and has the idea of giving up this marriage. However, considering his son's relationship with him for 9 years, Mr. Qi can't be so cruel.

0 1. chased her for half a year and finally got the beauty back;

Nine years ago, 23-year-old Mr. Qi met his wife at a party and fell in love with her at first sight.

Wang Yamei is very beautiful, slim figure, lively and cheerful personality, which makes Mr. Qi deeply infatuated.

Mr. Qi got up the courage and asked for new contact information, so he had an online chat with him. After that, Teacher Qi invited her to dinner many times, gave her gifts and showed her his mind.

Mr. Qi's conditions are very good. His parents have income and a relatively good family. Graduated from a prestigious school and worked in a leading enterprise in the industry. His salary is very good, and his salary is very high.

After understanding the basic situation of Mr. Qi, I accepted Mr. Qi's mind. In this way, after half a year, Mr. Qi finally got the beauty back.

My mother thinks she is sissy, but I disagree and insist on marrying her.

After that, they talked about love for two years, and their relationship was further adjusted.

During his love, Mr. Qi became his girlfriend's crazy lover. He gets up an hour every day just to pick up his girlfriend to go to work; He learned cooking from his mother and carefully prepared a loving dinner for his girlfriend. Every holiday, he would take Wang Yamei out to play and buy her presents. If two people disagree, the first person to apologize must be Mr. Qi.

At the age of 26, Mr. Qi proposed successfully and decided to get married.

After getting along with Mr. Qi for a period of time, Mr. Qi's mother didn't like this daughter-in-law: "Like you, she is the only child in the family. She is spoiled by her parents and has poor self-care ability. Look what she did to the rented house. The floor was covered with dust, the clothes were not folded properly, and the kitchen was not arranged neatly. It's hard to say, it's too subtle. "

Mr. Qi doesn't agree. He thinks it's just informal. Just get married and become a mother. Mr. Qi's mother was helpless to her son and agreed to the marriage.

In order to make her feel at ease to take care of the baby at home, I gave her my salary card.

In order to avoid conflict with the delicate daughter-in-law, Mr. Qi's mother took out money and bought a wedding room for her son with a down payment, and wrote down the names of her son and daughter-in-law so that they could be alone.

In the third year of marriage, Wang Yamei gave birth to their son. Mr. Qi was ecstatic and worried about bringing the baby.

"Do you want to pick up my mother to take care of the baby?"

"No, mom doesn't like me. If we live together, we will quarrel. "

"That is so, you see I now have a monthly salary of thirty thousand, enough to support the family. Why don't you quit your job and take the baby! I support you. "

Finally, Mr. Qi handed in his salary card, leaving only pocket money, which made him quit his job and stay at home to take care of the children.

04. I feel very tired when I look at my messy home;

"When she had a job before, I wouldn't let her tidy up the room for fear that she would be tired. I do all the housework, such as sweeping the floor, washing clothes, buying vegetables and cooking. She goes to bed after work. Now, she doesn't have to go to work and still doesn't do housework. The point is that I didn't ask her to do all this! "

Mr Qi only hopes that Wang Yamei can tidy up the house. For example, after the dishwasher washes the bowl, put it in the cupboard in time; Don't forget to wash clothes after getting up in the morning; Go out to buy a dish before work, so she doesn't have to worry about cooking.

However, Wang Yamei's behavior made him feel extremely angry.

"In summer, after she bought meat, she didn't know to put it in the refrigerator; Some dishes in the refrigerator can't be eaten, and she is too lazy to pour them; The sun came out, and she didn't remember to dry a quilt. I went downstairs. I didn't remember to bring the garbage. At night, the child began to cry. She slept soundly, and I was in charge of coaxing the children. As for cooking, I am very grateful to her for cooking well. "

As for spending money, what Mr Qi can accept is that all the things he bought for himself and his children were picked up by Wang Yamei.

Mr. Qi couldn't bear it any longer and quarreled with Wang Yamei.

Wang Yamei said confidently, "I'm not a nanny. Why should I do housework? Her husband does housework at work and treats his wife like a princess. Why can't you do it? "

"With you don't go to work and money! Ask your friends, they do nothing at home. Don't they have to work to make money? Can they take charge of the family's financial power? I'm not asking you to do all the housework. I'm just asking you to do those simple jobs to keep your home tidy, instead of asking me to wait on you while making money. I am married to a wife, not a princess who needs to come back to serve. "

Now, Mr. Qi doesn't even want to go home. Wang Yamei still didn't realize his problem, and the couple came to an impasse.

05. Woman, without a princess's life, there would be no princess's illness.

Princess disease refers to that some women are too confident and demand princess-like treatment, but they have no princess-like life and get princess disease, which is a problem that many women will have after marriage.

In the eyes of these women, men should pamper themselves, pamper themselves and be obedient to themselves. Their ideal husband candidate is the kind of man who has endless money, does all the housework and fools himself. However, the ideal is full and the reality is cruel.

You don't deserve it. How can I be worthy of such a comprehensive man?

Woman, you should remember that pampering is a taboo in marriage. Men spoil you, love you and obey you. You should know how to cherish your blessings and give men something so that men will always like you.

Luo Zhenyu once said:

"A glass of water at 3: 00 in the morning, it is difficult to support each other when you are old. This is the meaning of marriage."

Pay, need each other, love, need to cherish. If you make the other person tired of marrying you, your marriage will often come to an end.