A divorced woman reminds you: "The more a woman likes it after marriage, the less she has status in her husband's family."

Although the society now advocates that women should be independent and not dependent on men, there are still many girls who think that as long as they have marriage, they can live a happy life and never have to go through any ups and downs again.

Not long ago, I decided to divorce my husband, and along the way, I really realized that as a woman, if you want to get a man's love and respect from her husband's family, you must keep the bottom line, and you can't live a lifetime like Nuo Nuo.

I have been married to my husband for 5 years and have always been a girl with a particularly good temper. Because my father's education was very strict since I was a child, I am weak and used to catering to others.

After I got married, I was worried that my mother-in-law would treat me badly. I am careful every day and gradually lose myself.

I had a decent job before I got married, but after having children, my mother-in-law said, "It's better to resign and have children at home. Our family will not treat you and your children badly, and you don't need to go on working with a big belly. "

When I heard this, my heart was actually quite warm, because no one had ever been particularly kind to me.

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In this way, I regard my mother-in-law as my own mother, and I promise everything she says. Even if there is injustice in my heart, I will endure it.

But after the baby was born, my mother-in-law gave me a dirty look and often ran to me. I have no mother's family and no money. Now I have found a rich husband and don't even want to work.

There are more and more contradictions between my mother-in-law and me. I thought my husband could understand my difficulties, but he always said I was unreasonable. After all these years of marriage, he never remembers my birthday and our wedding anniversary.

Later, he had an affair. When I saw him with another woman, I was really disappointed in this family.

At the beginning, no matter how cold my husband was to me, I felt that since he married me and gave me a home, it was nothing to live a hard life. With children, I gradually lost touch with the society, and my husband became my only support.

The more worried about losing each other, the less principles and bottom lines there are.

After so many years of marriage, apart from taking care of the children, I am cleaning up the housework. Seeing that many sisters around me can travel with my husband, I leave my room empty every day. My husband socializes outside every day and comes back drunk every time.

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I once thought that it would be better to divorce than to be so mean in my husband's heart and my mother-in-law disdained me. But when I look at the children around me, I really can't live without my beloved husband. The thought of leaving him makes me feel bad.

Now, I know there is no place for me in his heart, so there is nothing to lose.

Over the years, no matter how tolerant I am, I lost my dignity, but my husband betrayed me. Divorce is my last choice to regain my self-esteem. Even a good-natured woman can't stand this injustice.

I was worried about being abandoned at first, because now I have no job, my children are still so small, and my future is very slim. However, compared with your own dignity, it is nothing to suffer a little.

The more elegant a woman is, the more bitter she will be in marriage. I was born in a family that didn't give me enough security since I was a child. I hope I can get full love in my marriage and make up for the happiness I once lacked.

Now I know that only when a woman loves herself enough can she have enough confidence to win the love of more people.

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After the divorce, my life was not as difficult as I thought.

I found a new job and I can go shopping with my colleagues after work. What I once wanted to do can be achieved without looking at my mother-in-law's face every day. Of course, I don't forget to improve myself. I will give myself training classes every month to cultivate one or two hobbies.

When you become more and more excellent, you can live a more satisfactory life.

Now I just want to remind all women not to lose themselves after marriage, let alone live in Nuo Nuo's husband's family.

Even if you lose your job and need to rely on your husband, you should stick to the principle and bottom line, because marriage is the responsibility of two people and you need to share it.

You know, after marriage, the more you give up on yourself, the less you have principles and bottom lines, the more you will be looked down upon by your husband and the less you have status in your husband's family.

After all, a woman's dignity is earned by herself.

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