What's it like to marry someone you don't love?

It must be a terrible experience to marry someone I don't love. I won't choose to marry someone I don't love. Because as we all know, love is absolutely based on the mutual love of two people. If there is no love, then you can't go on. In fact, in life, everyone will have many contradictions when they get along, but because you love him and care about him, you are willing to tolerate him and change for him.

But if there is no love between you two, you don't want to make do with him at all. No matter what happens, you will feel bored. So how can you spend the rest of your life with him under such circumstances? One's life is very long. He has several decades. If you have to face someone you don't love for decades, what do you think is the meaning of such a marriage and such a life? Personally, I think that even if you don't get married, you can't just choose someone you don't love, or choose to get married in order to cope with the family.

I wouldn't make such a choice anyway. I think if I can't find someone I love, I'd rather choose to be single. Because I think such a day may make me live more comfortably, I won't face a person who doesn't feel anything every day. In that case, I'll really feel devastated and I can't be with him.

And you still have to have children after marriage. If you don't love him, how can you be willing to have children for him? You have to think about it. A child grows up in a family without love. His father and mother don't love each other. Do you think such children can grow up healthily physically and mentally? I don't think so, so we can't do such a thing for our children or for ourselves. You can not fall in love or get married, but you must not make do with it and be responsible for yourself.