Can you support your family by playing cards?

This problem is very common for many German professional wrestlers, especially when we can't prove our strength in the early days, and the suspicion of our family often makes us even more uncertain. therefore

Imagine if one day you came home and said to your parents, "Mom and Dad, I will support you by playing cards in the future." What will happen?

Great, son, I'm proud of you! Mom and dad support you!

Playing cards? Make money by playing cards? Smash the hammer! Look at the children in Wang Ge next door. He graduated from Wudaokou College and is a senior gold collar of the world's largest investment bank. Look at your uncle's house. He doesn't study as well as your cousin, the contractor on the construction site, Land Rover Benz.

What about you? Have you counted how many computer screens you broke? Do you know what people outside say about me and your mother? Said he raised a free old man. I graduated from college blindly and became a nerd, sitting at the computer all day doing nothing.

Some people even say that you are mentally ill. Otherwise, how can you throw things around? Look at you. You are not nearsighted. How thick your glasses are now. If you look in the mirror again, will you have a hunchback? You know, I dated you. I thought we were brothers. Let's not talk about this. Let's talk about how much money you made this month.

Don't think I don't understand. Look at your profit curve. If I quit my old job, can I earn less than this? Your mother and I are a little open to playing cards, but do you know how outsiders point at your parents' backs and say that they have raised a gambling child?

Where can we put the old faces?

I won't say anything else. I'm telling you, find a girlfriend. You don't do anything serious every day. Don't think your parents don't know. If I can find a girlfriend, my wife doesn't know how blind she is. ……

Sometimes, I really doubt whether my parents have special functions. Everything they say pokes our hearts!

It's too difficult, it's really too difficult ... but don't panic. If you really love and like it, let the facts speak for themselves and let your parents see that you can really make a long-term profit on your own.

We all know that no job can be regarded as a "golden rice bowl" in this era, and poker, as a profession that can achieve long-term profit through practice, why not consider it?

Moreover, the development of the e-sports industry and the poker industry must be felt by everyone. I believe that in the near future, poker will become a positive energy like today's e-sports industry, so that more people have the opportunity to fall in love with it. At that time, my family will keep up with the pace of the times and gradually understand!

In fact, poker provides us with endless opportunities to constantly improve ourselves, and each game is valuable experience wealth:

Can change your view of failure.

Many people's first reaction to failure is "this is too bad." This shouldn't happen to me. Why it didn't happen to others. Why me? Why now? Why? Why? "However, playing cards will teach you that the real winners in life can handle the negative emotions brought by failure and try to learn from this experience. Failure will make you reflect on your previous choices and teach you to be responsible for your actions. For a poker player, the most difficult thing is to choose to leave the table when losing cards, but only by accepting the fact of losing cards as soon as possible can we recover better and achieve better results. The point is to let all the unhappiness go, but you should also learn from it.

Poker players are good at reading minds.

Playing cards requires some knowledge of applied psychology. Through the accumulation of hands, poker players can not only see through their opponents' inner thoughts, but also have a deeper understanding of themselves. Poker players will start to ponder their own advantages and disadvantages according to their own gameplay. This kind of understanding can help a person to improve himself and turn shortcomings into advantages to some extent.

Let your mind become more mature

First of all, players with a certain number of hands can identify and avoid emotional traps. Anyone who has been playing cards seriously for a long time knows that life is doomed to ups and downs, with losses and wins. Whether winning or losing cards, maintaining a stable mood is an extremely important ability. Playing cards has given people countless opportunities to experience good luck and bad luck. Controlling the ups and downs of the cards reasonably is the key to the success of the table, and it is also a very important life skill. Playing cards can teach people the most, that is, to maintain emotional stability and control personal emotions.

Let you become self-disciplined

A person's IQ may be difficult to change, but self-discipline is not difficult. Playing cards can make you strive for the ultimate goal and learn not to give up because of difficulties in the middle. When you play cards to a certain extent, you will have better control over yourself, and of course this ability will also apply to your next life. The more successful people are, the more they know how to choose and how to achieve their desired goals. They are not impulsive and know their abilities very well.

Let you analyze the situation logically.

One of the great advantages of playing cards is that it can give you logical ability. Poker players don't take a situation for granted, and they don't make decisions for no reason. Poker players will think about their decisions rationally and objectively, or at least measure themselves. In fact, many people lack thinking about their life choices, and they have no idea why they made this decision. The sad thing about these people is that they never know what they want and naturally don't understand why they lost to others.

Contribute to effective financial management.

The situation at the table is hard to predict, and players with poor skills can easily lose to powerful opponents. Professional players' job is to play cards and keep playing cards. They need to pay for each game. Good poker players don't choose to rest during losing, but play cards according to their own budget. No matter whether their grades are good or bad, they will never exceed the budget. Their behavior also ensures that they will not go bankrupt. This ability to manage personal finances also applies to life outside the poker table. But we should also remember Dr. Simpson's warning: "In any field of life, the best way to accelerate the growth rate is to get in touch with others. This is why elite performers have coaches to give guidance and criticism. " Therefore, we not only need like-minded friends around us, but also need to remind our friends at all times to be moderate in everything and never indulge in addiction. At the same time, we should be considerate of our parents' good intentions. ...

If we look closely, many professional Depo players have a very happy family. Because they can not only learn to control their emotions in poker games, but also apply this ability to real life. A good family will in turn affect the players' mentality, so that they can show more self-confidence on the game table and give full play to their real strength!