How to develop your own network resources in life?

I have thought about your question. Let me tell you:

1. Foundation:

No matter what you want to do, you must lay a good foundation. To have connections, you must first start with your own cultivation. Correct your attitude and start with your own conduct. Only in this way can we have the conditions to build good relationships with others.

2. Treat others equally, neither humble nor arrogant:

Don’t think some people are useless, and don’t think some people are particularly useful. Which people should be used at what time and under what circumstances. Therefore, treat people equally. Only then can you show that you treat the people in it specially. You won’t be embarrassed to ask someone you didn’t like before when you need it. I treat many people the same way, regardless of origin or background. So, I have many friends.

3. People are divided into groups, and birds of a feather flock together:

Make friends with positive people. Make friends with successful people. Make more friends with thoughtful and smart people, and you will find that what you get from them is not only knowledge, but also changes in concepts, changes in personality, etc.

4. Key points and some Developing long-term relationships with people:

My approach is to start with people. I always make a phone call with this person when I think of him or her. But expectations for these people are set at the lowest level. Slowly develop long-term cooperation or contact with these promising people. There are not many friends who find their true feelings, so cherish them even more.

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In college, you should pay attention to discover some unique friends with good personalities and become friends with them. Don't be too utilitarian. If people can help you, be grateful. This is how human resources are cultivated.

I wish you early success. Your friend Yang Xinan.