Arguing with my parents-in-law, my husband won't help me and help his parents. What should I do?

When you quarrel with your mother-in-law, your husband only helps his parents, not you. I don't know why you quarrel, but if it's your fault, it's normal for your husband not to help you. If it's his parents' fault and your husband doesn't help you, then he is a typical nanny.

1. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been the most difficult problem to solve. When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are in conflict. If the daughter-in-law is at fault and the husband helps his parents, that's normal. Because your husband is an upright man. In this case, we should try to avoid conflicts. Because no one can take advantage. Your husband is not your backer.

2. If you have a problem with your in-laws, whether right or wrong, your husband is biased towards his parents, then he is a treasure mother. In the days to come, you will either divorce or remarry. Still continue to get married and be wronged. There is another way to improve yourself, find a job and make money. You are strong enough that no one can bully you.

For example, a friend of mine married a nanny. She lives with her in-laws, who like spicy food. She doesn't like spicy food Her mother-in-law has been cooking at home, and every dish fried every day is very spicy. None of them is edible for her. So I fell out with her mother-in-law for this matter. Her husband doesn't spoil her at all, and says that if you marry a chicken, you will marry a dog. Do as Romans do in Rome. I can't help it. My husband is unreliable, wants a divorce, and thinks the children are still young. So she decided to stay first. She doesn't eat the dishes fried by her mother-in-law, so she orders takeout. Later, her husband and mother-in-law said that she wasted money and didn't give her pocket money. There is no way, she has to make money by herself, go out to find a job, eat out every day, come back after dinner and spend her own money, which is beyond their control. Nothing her husband said was of any use. Therefore, women should not forget to improve themselves at any time and not lose their economic ability. So you won't be bullied.

In short, it is suggested that the subject decide what to do according to the situation. If it's your own fault first, it's normal for your husband not to help you. At this time, you should learn to avoid conflicts with your in-laws. If your in-laws are wrong and your husband is still with them, then you must learn to improve yourself. Because only when you are strong, you will not be bullied.