Eavesdropping on her daughter’s phone calls (Alian’s Daily Province 342)

As agreed, my daughter talked on the phone with a younger sister who is in the third grade of junior high school on Saturday night (my younger sister is not in good condition recently. She has to squat in the bathroom for about an hour every night and is struggling with her homework. The aunt wants to use the help of her peers) . At about nine o'clock in the evening, when Niu was about to make a phone call, she told me directly that she wouldn't let me listen and that I was going to take a shower. After I finished washing, I passed by the door of the girl's bedroom and heard someone talking about the situation in various universities... Because she didn't turn on the speakerphone, I could only hear what the girl said, but not what the girl said.

Let’s stop talking about college (it sounds like the two of them are chatting happily, it’s probably because the younger sister has been asking her for information about college). That’s still a little far away from you. Let’s talk about where you are now. The situation of each subject: Let me help you analyze: the second question of the last question in the mathematics paper, it doesn’t matter if you make a mistake.

Which aspect of your Chinese language is currently deducting the most points? Oh, composition, you don’t like writing compositions yourself? I still don’t like writing exam essays. Oh, the full score is 50 points, so you have to get 42 points. You can summarize the composition according to different themes, and summarize famous quotes and other people's better opinions.

In English, you have to concentrate on memorizing the vocabulary for the high school entrance examination. After memorizing the vocabulary for the high school entrance examination, you should continue with the vocabulary for the college entrance examination. I personally feel that I learned English quite well in junior high school, and I stopped memorizing vocabulary for the college entrance examination at that time. I started writing questions in November and December of the third year of junior high school. By the time I finished the high school entrance exam, I had almost five or six books. When I first started studying the questions for the high school entrance examination, I would ask the teacher many times for a set of questions, because there were many words I didn’t know. If I didn’t know them, I would ask the teacher. You have to make sure to memorize all the words in the vocabulary list in the textbook. You need to know Chinese when you look at English, and you need to know English when you look at Chinese. At the same time, there is also the supplementary vocabulary. Read two English articles every day to enhance your sense of language and help with writing and reading comprehension.

Chemistry, you said you have the lowest score in chemistry, so did you not understand chemistry from the beginning or something? You can try to study chemistry the same way you study liberal arts. Memorize the periodic table of elements, memorize the formulas of various chemical reactions, and memorize concept definitions. At the same time, you can start looking for tutoring from now on, either a teacher at school or a one-on-one teacher outside class, so you can improve quickly.

Buy papers for the three major subjects and study them one by one. Mathematics requires at least one paper for two days. After finishing all the courses, you must buy it. I think our situations are very similar. Although you feel like you still have seven months left in terms of time, in fact, if you exclude the holidays, it’s less than five months. You must make good use of holidays, big and small. Holidays are really an opportunity to overtake others around the corner. I suggest you take advantage of them.

It is usually recommended that you try your best to improve your learning efficiency in school. After all, there is such a learning atmosphere in school. You feel too frank to me, you are still too young. We all do it for points. Even if you don’t like studying, for the sake of points, you still have to study. If you don't like it, you won't study, then how can we get good grades. We should really learn from those who did well in the exam. You still have time now, but I sprinted half a month earlier than you do now. Our situations are relatively similar.

How can you stay in the bathroom for an hour? This is really outrageous. Don't you feel uncomfortable when you stay in the bathroom? For you, you have to go to bed before 10:30, and you tell me what time you go to bed. You, a junior high school student, go to bed at the same time as me, a senior high school student. What will you do when you take the college entrance examination? ? Don't think that being able to stay up late is your asset, and don't be proud of it. If you can stay up late now, what will you do in 20 years? You need to know how to maintain your health.

If you use your time wisely and improve your efficiency, you can go to bed before half past ten. Remember, listen to me and you must go to bed before half past ten. As for squatting on the toilet, if you squat for an hour, your body will have problems sooner or later. I used to sit in the toilet for a long time because I liked reading. When I went in, I would grab a book. Then my dad would stand at the door of the toilet and call me "Smelly Old Nine". My dad said that all the knowledge I learned was ruined. It stinks.

You should also be good at observing the students around you who have better grades and pay attention to how they study. When I was in the third grade of junior high school, the person sitting to my left was the top student in our class. I observed him for a while and he never did any school homework during the day. He studies papers during the day and does school homework during self-study in the evening. Why is he like this? I think it's because for us, we always finish our school homework first, and after finishing it, we feel everything is fine.

He could write as much as he could about extracurricular matters, and he first forced himself to write more extracurricular matters. Then he has to write homework in school, so he does a few more sets of questions than us every day. If this happens over time, his grades will definitely be better.

I still suggest that you set a goal and go to XX Middle School. Don’t leave yourself a way out. Why are you procrastinating? I also said that I have procrastination. I think I also have procrastination, but I will find a way not to let myself procrastinate, and then I will finish my homework in school. It would be a shame if we delayed studying every day because of procrastination. So what do you do? When you answer questions, you should time it.

Regarding wrong questions, I don’t ask you to copy them again, but you have to mark them and make sure to go through them again before the exam.

Early reading, mainly Chinese and English, and then some minor subjects also have to memorize when they have time.

Regarding the schedule, you must make the schedule accurate to a few minutes. When you make a plan, you must be precise. But when you usually do homework, it doesn’t necessarily have to be accurate to a few minutes. But at least you have this plan, you have this general direction, and you will not let yourself deviate. Too many directions. You need to post this schedule on your desk or wall, and write down who the supervisor is. Or every week, you have to give a summary of the wrong questions you paid attention to this week, and what was your gain this week? In life, first get rid of the label of procrastination, make sure you get enough sleep every night, and develop the habit of having a regular life.

In this contemporary social context, who doesn’t have procrastination? However, we cannot use this as an excuse to be lazy. You are in the third year of junior high school now, and I am in the third year of high school now. If we don't roll inward now, when will we roll in?

The above are basically my daughter’s original words. When she speaks, her direction will be clearer. I originally thought that I was eavesdropping, so I stopped sorting it out. I also thought about sorting it out as a souvenir, and letting her see it when I have the opportunity in the future. I believe that I will benefit the most from the output.