How to learn speaking skills

The social noobs give the following suggestions.

1. Listen

All the guys who talk annoyingly have one thing in common. The characteristic is "complete disregard for other people's feelings."

2. Don’t complain

Maybe the trend of complaining is too strong, so everyone starts to think that "complaining" is a cool thing. But in fact, this will make you lose value and will cause others to have a worse impression of you.

3. Understand other people’s information

You must have a calm mind and know how to change Think about the problem first, and after listening to what others say, you know that different answers will produce different effects, and you will give yourself an answer that satisfies the other person as soon as possible. Therefore, you should always cultivate your own insight and thinking skills, listen more, think more, and look at various problems from different angles.

4. Express your opinions accurately (Ps: I am also learning something)

Some people say that a good word can make a person laugh three times in winter, but a bad word can hurt a person in six months. The purpose of speaking is to "express one's meaning clearly and accurately". >

5. Understand the other person’s feelings

Sometimes, “being recognized” is the best healing medicine; for friends who are in trouble, just say “I understand you” and “Don’t cry, I’m here.” ” can make them feel more relieved than any reprimand.

Through communication with friends and loved ones, we gradually begin to believe that “I am not alone in this world”, so please cherish this human project. Special skills, master them and treat them seriously