People who like "loners" more and more actually see through the reality of human nature, but you really don't understand.

With the growth of age and rich experience, many people don't want to make friends. Especially after the age of 40, there are fewer and fewer useful friends, and the once close friends are becoming more and more alienated.

At this time, I feel that my life is very easy and I don't have to deal with some useless social activities. I found that my life at this time is the most real and desirable life.

In fact, there are several reasons why people don't want to make friends in middle age. Let's see which one you are!

The faster the social development, the greater the pressure on people's lives. In addition to raising children and supporting parents, the competitive pressure at work also makes them breathless.

There are only two words in people's minds, that is, making money.

When I was young, I swore to each other that I didn't want to be born on the same day in the same year. The feeling of being friends is getting weaker and weaker.

With the increase of age and pressure, I am not in the mood to make friends at this time, and I don't want to waste too much time on useless social activities. My heart has become mature and calm, and I know that my life belongs only to myself, and others can't help me.

Although a person is lonely, he is not alone.

In interpersonal communication, although I have accumulated many so-called like-minded friends, in the end, you will find that there is really no one else who can help you get rid of your parents and family. When you are in trouble, most of those so-called fair-weather friends will stay away from you.

When people reach middle age, they will almost be confused and have their own opinions on life and human nature. They are no longer demanding of others, nor of themselves. Everything is fine.

Find that friends are based on interests. If there is no interest relationship between the two sides, even the best friends will gradually alienate.

Therefore, when people reach middle age, they will stop making these fair-weather friends and give up sad things.

The increase of life pressure will definitely speed up the pace of work.

When I was a child, I had a meal and a bowl, and I could visit for a long time. Now living in the city, even going door to door, no one wants to know who is after entering the house and closing the door except to say hello occasionally to work. Even if there is a fight upstairs and downstairs, it has nothing to do with them.

Even the handover between colleagues at work is only the communication of handover. I want to talk to someone, but I really can't find someone to talk to.

It's not that people in the city have lost their human feelings, but that the pace of life is too fast now and everyone is very busy. Even if you want to chat, others may not have time to accompany you. If something really happens, everyone goes with a purpose. This is also the reason why we seldom make friends now.

In middle age, due to the great pressure of life and work, people are more aware of the weakness of human nature, that is, selfishness, so they no longer have the mood and mind to make friends.

Many friends are not necessarily easy to go; You may not be sad when your friends are separated.

Life is short, so spend more time with your relatives and family.

More truth, less hypocrisy; More quiet and less noise.

That's good.

Extended reading:

In the next two years, people will "tighten their belts" and it will be very painful to read.

The poor should stop saving money to buy a house. If you don't do these "two things" well, you will never turn over.

When people have no money, they should do the "four things" correctly, and they can look at them when they are in a trough.

The era of "Qian Shengqian" is over. In the future, these "three models" will make a lot of money.