How to overcome the fear of learning to drive

When I was learning to drive, I was terrified when I thought about driving, and my hands and feet even trembled. Various situations kept happening. The psychological fear is getting bigger and bigger, and I almost dare not touch the car. Here I would like to share my views based on my own psychological process of learning to drive.

The process of learning to drive was quite thrilling. I went through a long psychological process of constant struggle. This process was very difficult, but it made me grow a lot psychologically and benefit a lot:

I didn’t believe that I could learn to drive at all → I had to learn to drive → I passed the test three times → I forced myself to drive on the road three years later → I kept scratching and scratching → I gradually became more proficient → I developed good skills → It turns out that I can defeat myself. I can overcome all fears → I believe that I can do well in anything!

This process is a process of constantly encountering setbacks, insisting on getting up, trying again, falling again, getting up again... This process is repeated many times, and each time is a huge test for one's own psychology. Every time is a huge challenge to my own psychology.

I had just given birth to a baby and was in the confinement period, so I forced myself to learn to drive, because I was raising the baby alone and had to go to work. If I didn’t learn to drive, I wouldn’t be able to drive in an emergency. Ways to deal with it.

After many setbacks, I finally got my driver’s license, but I didn’t dare to hit the road. This time, it lasted three years.

During the Spring Festival after my child entered kindergarten, during the seven-day holiday, I found a family member to accompany me, spent time in the car, practiced all possible situations over and over again, and then hit the road.

After repeating it over and over again, I got used to it in two or three days.

I clearly remember that on the first day I drove to work, I had to take my sister to the platform. Then I accidentally turned onto the viaduct. There were many cars and I didn’t dare to change lanes. I had to follow the flow of traffic. Go forward. Finally, I remembered that I could turn on the yellow light, slow down, slowly change lanes, turn, and make a U-turn.

It took me more than forty minutes to walk a few minutes away.

I forgot to turn on the handbrake when I parked my car for the first time; once when I went to the city, I forgot to turn on the handbrake while driving; another time when I reversed my car and rubbed against other cars, I just didn’t feel it; I couldn’t reverse the car into the garage. Always bumping into each other...

I have experienced too many blows, and there are many times when I feel mentally unbearable. I have thought about giving up, but I know I can only think about it, otherwise I will encounter emergency situations, such as children in the middle of the night. I have a fever, what should I do?

Bite the bullet and come on...

It’s been four years since it started!

In the past four years, in the process of constantly denying myself, constantly cheering myself up, and constantly forcing myself to go on the road, go on the road, go on the road, I have become more and more confident and practical about driving. , and it’s getting easier and easier.

Thirty years ago, I never thought about driving by myself. Seven years ago, I never thought that I would be able to control that big, fast-running box. Today, I tell myself calmly, I - what It will be all right!

There is nothing impossible, only unimaginable!

I really didn’t expect that this is a process of psychological leap and growth, constantly transcending self-limitations, expanding one’s psychological boundaries, overcoming psychological fears, and achieving psychological leaps.