The girl asks you: Why do you always follow me?

One of my girls asks why you always follow me. You can tell him directly, because I like you and follow you with a little love, which is bound to be a person's story. Living a good life is the best fulfillment for each other. Thank you, I have been to my world and left my feelings and tears. Love you in this life, no regrets, I wish you all the best.

In fact, most women in the world are fragile and gentle, and no one is born a woman.

Many times they say that they don't need protection because they know that they can only rely on themselves when there is no one to rely on, so they have learned a skill, that is, "dead support."

When a girl shows you the most vulnerable part of her heart, it means that she has relieved her guard against you and needs your protection and a shoulder to lean on.

Then the question is, why should we stimulate men's desire for protection?

The desire for protection is to make men feel that they have a sense of existence.

If you don't know how to arouse a man's desire for protection and do everything by himself, like a small tank, then the man around you will feel that you don't need him and he has no sense of existence.

If you do everything a man should do, his self-esteem will be hurt even more. Men will think, since you can do everything by yourself, then I have nothing. You should do it yourself in the future.

We often see such scenes when watching TV dramas. The hero politely refused the woman and told her:

"That's very kind of you, but she needs me more. You see, you are so independent and powerful. You can live a wonderful life without me, but she can't ... so, I'm sorry. "

You must be saying in your heart, is this person mentally ill? Does the hostess deserve to be abandoned just because she is rich and independent?

Yes! Because every man has a heroic dream in his heart, the saddest thing is not that he can't be a hero, but that he becomes a hero and others don't need your protection.

Maybe you will say, I am such a woman that I can protect myself without the protection of others.

Well, that's true, but if you want to be a suitable marriage partner for a man, you must stimulate his primitive impulse and protective desire at the same time.

Because behind the desire for protection is a man's sense of responsibility to you. When a person feels needed, it is also the time when he can find a sense of responsibility.

If a man has no primitive impulse to you, but only protective desire, then he may just regard you as his sister.

However, once the sense of responsibility is generated, you will have weight in his heart. If a woman can inspire a man's desire to protect her, then the man is probably unable to escape from her Wuzhishan!

So, why should we stimulate men's desire for protection? Because the desire to protect makes men feel that they are needed by you and have a meaning of existence.

The desire for protection can inspire a man's heroic feelings.

We often say, what animal is man? Men are heroes and compassionate animals.

It is human nature to sympathize with and protect the weak. When we are weak and bullied, we very much hope that someone will help us.

Similarly, when others are weak and bullied, we naturally tend to be weak by instinct.

Now is a peaceful time, it is difficult for men to show heroic behavior. Once a person can inspire all men's desire for protection, then this moment is simply a brilliant outbreak of human nature.

So, why should we stimulate men's desire for protection? Because the desire to protect can inspire a man's heroic feelings and make him want to protect you more.

I always hear many people complain that they are used to being strong. With the growth of age, they really can't learn the weakness and coquetry of little girls and feel that they are not suitable.

I want to say that the reason why women want to inspire men's desire for protection is because you love this man, and this man deserves your love.

Women's coquetry and weakness can make men stronger, just as many women know that their husbands have become more confident and attractive than in the past.

Teaching women to be coquettish is not to pull out all the bones and stick them on men, nor to lick men on their knees.

I want you to know yourself first, find out what is meaningful to you and what qualities you need from a man, and then apply your coquetry skills to the key points.

Stimulating men's desire for protection is definitely not a one-off event. If he is a straight girl like steel at ordinary times, sudden weakness will only make men feel completely incompatible, and it will only be counterproductive.