Responsibility, responsibility, trust

? The moment I wrote this topic, I found that many stories I have seen recently can be summarized with these two words. The original intention of writing this article was the drama "The Beginning", but this drama reminded me of several things, so I wanted to talk about my feelings.

? Let’s talk about "The Beginning" first. Some people will say, how can there be a "loop"? Many things in reality just happened and will not happen again. But the fact is that we often have similar events happen for some reasons. "The Beginning" is no exception. (1) In this incident, if the police handling the case at the time could have been more vigilant and knew that Wang Mengmeng, a well-behaved girl, would not do anything out of line, and if she did, it would be as a last resort. , getting off the bridge, we can imagine, if the pervert hadn't acted recklessly again, how could a girl act excessively and force the bus to stop when she was isolated and helpless. (2) If Wang Mengmeng could bravely stand up and point out the ugly behavior of the pervert, coupled with Liu Yao's evidence and the public's help, the pervert would be brought to justice earlier, and the pervert would be less harmed for one day, and there would be no future. The car was hit by a bridge and the bridge exploded. (3) When watching "The Beginning", I thought again and again, why does it cycle again and again? The reason is that it is in the next cycle that we understand that many things can be avoided, but we ourselves, for various reasons, I chose to escape, I chose to distrust, I chose to shirk responsibility, I chose to have nothing to do with myself, I chose...

? Let’s talk about the Liu Xuezhou incident. A 15-year-old boy was raped by his biological parents when he was a child. Sold, their adoptive parents were killed by bombs, they were bullied in school, they were reported online while looking for relatives, and they were abandoned again by their parents. Each child encountered cold looks, "domestic violence" by close relatives, and verbal attacks by Internet keyboard warriors. …. Just imagine, under this series of suppression, he had to choose to jump into the sea before the New Year to end his miserable life. If during an incident, a child could be treated with gentleness, someone could protect him from wind and rain, someone could shoulder his responsibilities, someone could support him, he could have lived a happy life. Spend the Spring Festival with his family and live his imperfect but warm life.

Let’s talk about the story of the “Eight Children in Xuzhou”. Today in 2022, it’s hard to imagine what it would be like for a woman to be tied up with chains, used as a reproductive tool and turned into a beast. Yes, but reality happens like this. Seeing the man who claims that "as long as he can give birth to a child, he can raise him" has more than 60,000 to 70,000 fans, my God! In today's world where there is so much information, it is possible for something like this to continue for so many years. Is this normal? No one has doubted it, no one has bothered with "nothing", no one has worried about this woman, and most of them just look on with cold eyes. , it is more of a matter that has nothing to do with oneself, and it is more of a "one thing less than one thing more". I still remember that this kind of thing is the plot in movies and TV series, and it is the experience in the case of abducting women, but in reality, after so many years of imprisonment and so many years of domestic violence, what can a woman do if she is not crazy? Even if she is crazy, After being ravaged as a reproductive tool, being...

? The New Year has arrived. I hope that everyone can be responsible, have a sense of responsibility, be trusted, and be treated gently by the world.