Why do some girls choose to marry far away?

I don't have the courage to choose to marry far away. Whether it is worthwhile for girls to marry far away is inconclusive and varies from person to person.

Some people are really happy. When they are married far away, they are even out of family of origin's control. However, some people have married far away, but have never met a lover. Without the help of parents, you can only bear it silently when you are bullied. It's really not worth it to them.

Tell you two stories of long-distance love.

One is my high school classmate, and the other is that I grew up.

Let's start with my high school classmates. She comes from the south. When she was in college, she studied in a school in the north. At school, she talked about a local boyfriend. They had a good relationship and got married after graduation. After marriage, the husband is considerate and the in-laws are reasonable. My mother-in-law knows that it is not easy for her to get married far away, and she is very kind to her. She is worried that she can't get used to the food in the north, so she will learn how to eat in the south when she has time, and let her son follow suit, so she can't just care about herself. Sometimes a son has a conflict with his daughter-in-law, and his in-laws will criticize his son first. Every New Year, she told her son that she would accompany her daughter-in-law home for the New Year, saying that it was normal. I also told her son and daughter-in-law to call the parents of classmates more often, saying that it was not easy for parents to raise children. Parents' eldest children can't stay around and marry far away. They must miss their children very much. In such a family, my classmates are also very sensible, filial to their in-laws, considerate to their husbands, and happy after marriage. What she often says is: As long as people are right, they will be happy if they marry far away.

Tell me about my little hair. She's not that lucky. It should be said that it is a tragedy. Despite my parents' objections, I married a province thousands of kilometers away from home.

In-laws' husband was nice to her at first, and felt that it was not easy for her to marry so far without relatives and friends. But this kindness changed after she gave birth to her daughter. Mother-in-law often talks to her in strange ways and accuses her of breaking the fragrance of their home. At first, her husband would tell her that it is the same for both boys and girls, and she would like another one when the economy is good. But my mother-in-law said that it is difficult to guarantee that it will be a boy in the future. Men are not very assertive, so they can't stand their mother's constant provocation. Soon, men did not turn to their wives for help and began to complain that their wives had no boys. It is difficult to have another child and raise two children in the future.

When I was a child, I married far away and had no relatives or friends in the local area. I want to tell my parents about my grievances, but I am worried that my parents will blame me, because my parents were very opposed when I wanted to marry far away, but I was carried away by love and married in desperation. At first, I could only find my close friends to chat online and seek comfort. Later, her husband's family became more and more arrogant, and her mother-in-law became more and more disgusted with this daughter-in-law. She often embarrassed her daughter-in-law in life and provoked the contradiction between her son and daughter-in-law, until she once sent a disgusting message saying that she saw her husband chatting with other women, only to find that her husband was cheating. Later, she learned that she was the last person in the family to know that her husband was cheating. Her in-laws had been cheating on her, and her mother-in-law also encouraged her son and daughter-in-law to divorce and remarry. The husband who had no opinion put forward a divorce after listening to his mother's words and asked him to take his daughter with him. Because he transferred his property in advance, if he divorced, he would almost leave home clean. Considering that the daughter is still young, if divorced, the daughter will not have a complete family. If divorced, her parents would know, so she tried desperately to save the marriage, but her husband and mother-in-law disagreed, so her husband began to insult her and verbally insult her. The purpose was to force her to divorce, and finally she couldn't bear to agree to divorce. My parents soon learned that although they blamed me, they were still very distressed because they were their own daughters. They insisted that she go back to her hometown. Until now, she hasn't met a suitable person to remarry. I heard that she has no confidence in marriage now and will spend the rest of her life with her parents.

After reading these two stories, some people will categorically say that it is good to marry far away.

Whether it is good to marry far away is really inconclusive. Like all marriages, there are happy people and unhappy people who marry far away.