If your mother is confined, what harm will it be difficult to eliminate if it exists?

When menstruation's cousin gave birth to a baby, the confinement cousin chose to let her mother take care of her. However, before confinement, my cousin regretted it, and really shouldn't let my mother come over. Later, I learned that my cousin's baby began to make trouble at night just a few days after birth. Sometimes she went to bed at two or three in the morning, and sometimes she kept crying at night. Because my aunt loves her daughter dearly, she took her grandson to the living room to coax her children. In this way, her blood pressure rose a lot in a few days because she stayed up late.

Cousin's husband is busy at work, and things at home can't help. Moreover, my cousin's mother-in-law also wants to have in-laws. She basically doesn't do it, so she sat for a whole month. My aunt lost a circle and made my cousin feel distressed. So my cousin, 90-year-old Bao Ma, bluntly said: Don't let your mother confinement, some injuries, if any, are hard to eliminate.

My mother is very comfortable in confinement, but my mother can't see it. The reason why I want my mother to take care of me is nothing more than thinking about having my mother, taking good care of me and being more at ease. After my mother came to look after me, it was really hard to find that I was comfortable and unfriendly to my mother. Because my mother loves her daughter dearly, she will do everything herself. In a month, she will take care of adults and children. She doesn't have a good rest and still works hard. When she gives birth, she is likely to be tired and painful.

When a mother is at her daughter's house, she may suffer some other grievances besides physical fatigue.

For example, some mothers are at their daughter's house, taking care of her daughter's confinement, but it depends on other people's faces. Some son-in-law is unreliable and has no eyes to make the old man angry; And a difficult mother-in-law. After all, the old man is at his daughter's house. In order to take care of his daughter's confinement, he suffered various grievances, and these grievances sometimes dared not tell her.

Because my mother loves her mother dearly, she may not be able to sit well for the next month. Ma Bao said that her mother came to look after her confinement because of her thoughtlessness, which led to her mother's hard work all month, and because of her love for her mother, she might not be able to sit well for the next month. Out of the month, the body will be a little uncomfortable. That's why they said that they knew it was better to spend money to find a new moon or go to the moon center. At the very least, I won't make my mother sick because my mother takes care of the confinement, and this will become the eternal guilt in my daughter's heart.

Who is more suitable to look after confinement? Some people say that they should let their mother-in-law take care of them when they are confinement, while others say that they should find a new moon to go to the confinement center. Whether these choices are good or not can only be decided according to your own situation. What I want to say here is that if my family conditions are limited, I can't live in the month center, and my mother-in-law is not at ease to take care of herself. In fact, there is a good candidate, and that is the mother's husband.

Let my husband do some preparatory work in advance and learn some precautions in the next month. Let the novice father personally participate in the work of taking care of his wife's confinement. They can not only appreciate the daughter-in-law's hard work, but also appreciate the joy of being a father for the first time, which is more beneficial to the cultivation of parent-child relationship in the future.