Being a man, a really powerful person can often restrain his four "desires" and make life smoother and smoother.

How self-disciplined you are, how free you are! The key to self-discipline is to control your own desires, not to let them indulge. Everyone has desires, which is not a bad thing. Desire is the driving force for our continuous progress. But desires need to be restrained, especially some harmful desires. If you don't know how to restrain them, it is impossible to be self-disciplined, but it will bring disaster to yourself. Specifically, being a man, a truly powerful and self-disciplined person, can often restrain the following four "desires", and life will be smoother and smoother.

First, curb the greedy "desire"

Human greed is like a bottomless abyss, which can never be filled. If you have more, you will want more. If greed can't be restrained, it will weigh on you like a mountain, making you physically and mentally exhausted and difficult to turn over.

Faced with too many desires and temptations, people who don't know how to control themselves and can't do self-discipline will lose themselves and have the illusion that the more they have, the happier they will be. Once lost, they will panic, have nothing to rely on, and their spiritual world will become barren.

Therefore, if you want to be self-disciplined, you must first restrain greed. No matter what you do or pursue, you should stop, grasp the degree, and don't be too demanding, so that you won't add trouble and pressure to yourself, enjoy life easily, succeed steadily, and get happiness more easily.

Second, control the color "desire"

Lust is a normal human desire, which needs to be satisfied, but it must be just and moderate. Indulging in lust will inevitably overdraw the body; Unjust gratification of lust will inevitably bring disaster to yourself. Since ancient times, heroes have been sad about beauty, and many powerful people in ancient and modern times and at home and abroad have brought disaster to themselves because they can't restrain their lust, which is enough to alert modern people.

Another key to restraining lust is that it cannot be satisfied by improper relationship between men and women, because it is against ethics and will destroy each other's families. There are many examples of improper relationships between men and women, which lead to the separation of wives and children and even the breakdown of families. Therefore, if people want to be self-disciplined, they must restrain their own passions. Even if you can't abstain from sex, you must never go astray because of greed.

Third, refrain from expressing "desire"

Everyone has some desire to express himself. It is normal to hope that others will know him and praise him when he makes achievements. However, if he is too eager to show himself and doesn't know how to restrain himself, it is easy to be self-defeating Moreover, you know, no one likes others to be better than themselves, and everyone hates others' boasting. Fortunately, if you meet an educated person, you may care about your face and pretend to appreciate and praise you. But you must not think that everyone is so educated. Most of the time, you're not so lucky. Many people will be upset when you express yourself, and even try to hurt you. Therefore, a man should know how to restrain his desire for expression, and never try to be brave and win when he needs to converge and take the initiative to give in, so as not to bring trouble and disaster to himself.

Fourth, restrain the "desire" to win or lose.

Too strong a desire to win or lose may be a way to survive in a highly competitive modern society, but if you don't know how to restrain yourself and take success or failure too seriously, then life is not free and unhappy.

Winning or losing is very important, but life is not just about winning or losing. There are many other things worth cherishing. You can strive for victory, but don't care too much about the result. Even if you fail, if you try your best, don't take it too seriously. Of course, even if you win, there is no need to be complacent. Only by controlling your desire to win or lose can you live more comfortably and life will be smoother and smoother.