Parents have passed away, aren't brothers and sisters family?

When parents die, brothers and sisters get married separately, but they are only related! No way, the brothers and sisters who kiss again get married separately, that is, two families. This is a law and cannot be operated by human will.

Like those born in the 1970s, basically every family has two or three children. When we were young, we kissed like one person without guessing.

The happiest time in a person's life is childhood, carefree and without any responsibility.

With the passage of time, we grow up, mature physically and intellectually, and family ties change slowly with time.

People's five fingers have different lengths, and between brothers and sisters, there are also good and bad developments. Before they got married, brothers and sisters lived under the same roof, so the family conditions were the same. When they got married, the gap would become very obvious.

People with good conditions may despise people with poor conditions, but people with poor conditions are naturally unwilling to curry favor with people with good conditions. It is precisely because of this that brothers and sisters have the psychology of caring for each other, and over time, their feelings will be alienated.

1, parents are the bond that keeps brothers and sisters close.

When parents are still alive, brothers and sisters will often get together for holidays, so that although everyone is busy, they will often go home to see their parents.

Therefore, brothers and sisters will still meet frequently, and parents are like the bond that maintains the feelings between brothers and sisters.

Once the parents are gone. Brothers and sisters also went back to their homes, and their lives were busy, so their contact gradually decreased and their feelings gradually faded.

Parents are there, "there is still a place in life; When parents are gone, there is only a way home in life. " An ancient family is like a treasure. Parents are the greatest wealth in our life. We should be filial when our parents are alive.

Parents have passed away, aren't brothers and sisters a family? This question is the same as the real society. Different families have different answers. Some brothers and sisters are still very close, and some brothers and sisters are old and dead. Why is this happening? In fact, there is only one reason for these differences, and that is economic problems. Different ways to deal with economic problems lead to different sibling relationships.

1, regardless of whether parents are alive or not, the relationship between brothers and sisters, in addition to family ties, is a major factor affecting their feelings. There is no doubt that China people attach importance to family relations. If many brothers and sisters are unmarried and married, at this time, the older brothers and sisters will consciously share the family burden for their parents and take care of their younger brothers and sisters. Even if parents have a preference for a child, it is rarely heard that brothers and sisters will not take care of their brothers and sisters before marriage. However, once you get married and live another life, there will be so-called outsiders entering the family. Even if your parents make another bowl of water, it will inevitably lead to misunderstandings in daily life, especially on economic issues. It can be said that few families make no difference to every married child on economic issues, which will lead to some misunderstandings. After the death of parents, on some issues such as property distribution, there is a contradictory pattern, which leads to the stiff relationship between brothers and sisters.

2. Whether the relationship between brothers and sisters can be handled well after the death of parents mainly depends on the behavior of elder sister or elder brother. When parents are alive, the right to speak in the family lies with them. After the death of parents, how to distribute the inheritance of parents is often the key to whether brothers and sisters can live in harmony in the future. Some parents have wills or have no explanations, but such wills sometimes cause conflicts because some brothers and sisters seem unfair. In fact, if the eldest brother or elder sister voluntarily gives his share to the brothers and sisters with poor economic conditions, such a demonstration will set an example for other brothers and sisters, and other brothers and sisters will generally not continue to compete. In the future, the prestige of big brother or big sister among brothers and sisters will always be there, which will lay a tone for brothers and sisters to get along well in the future. It can be said that after the death of parents, big brother and big sister will be the backbone of a relatively loose family. Before my parents died, I made some arrangements for the real estate and left some real estate for myself, but after my parents died, I was the eldest brother, and when I saw my brother was in financial difficulties, I didn't want it. So until now, my brothers and sisters still listen to my arrangement.

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After parents died, brothers and sisters were busy with their families. Although kinship exists, it is not suitable to continue living together. Take care of yourself when you get married. It is right to help each other in important matters when parents are gone, but in any case, we must remain relatively independent, and it is impossible for one party to take care of the other unconditionally (unless there are various special circumstances such as health). After all, like dandelion seeds, everyone has their own life, and it is impossible to count on the help of brothers and sisters once or twice and long-term subsidies.

In short, brothers and sisters are like brothers, whether parents are alive or not, and economic problems are the key to determining the relationship between brothers and sisters. In this relationship, it is not parents who play a decisive role, but the practices of brothers and sisters.

I think the answer is yes.

I am an only child, but my mother has two brothers.

My grandmother died when my mother was in her twenties. I can't remember her appearance without looking at the photos. When I was a sophomore, about five or six years ago, my grandfather also died. It's all cancer.

My mother was diagnosed with malignant tumor three years ago and was hospitalized for surgery in our provincial capital city. For more than two months, my uncle has been taking care of my mother with my father in the hospital, leaving his work behind. Later, my dad had something at home for a while and thought it was inconvenient for him to take care of my mother, so I called my aunt.

Every day, I just try my best to find something for my mother to eat. Sometimes my mother can't eat in time for dinner. When she is hungry and the porridge is sold out, my uncle will discuss with others and give them more money to cook some porridge. Maybe my mom can buy it and have a drink.

Later, I heard that pigeon soup is good for healing wounds, but there is no restaurant nearby, so my uncle bought pigeons and took them to the restaurant to pay someone to help cook pigeon soup.

My uncle's financial conditions are very general, and all the money is earned with great efforts. When I took care of my mother, I spent a lot of money. A few people even have a lot of money a day, so I went to my mother's place on weekends, and my mother insisted that I buy rice and cigarettes for my uncle.

My great uncle is very kind, diligent and good at taking care of people. When my grandfather is seriously ill, he always changes the urine pad or something. In the ward, he cleaned my mother's ward, swept the floor, and cleaned up the garbage. Because my mother loves cleanliness, the clean mood in the ward will be better. People in the same ward also like my uncle very much.

The hospital corridors are full of people, and family members have no place to live. I can't leave my mother alone in the hospital at night. My bed can only be accompanied by two shifts. My father and my uncle take turns guarding my mother. Later, when the cleaning aunt of the hospital got off work, she directly gave my uncle the key to her lounge, that is, the small room where she usually lived, so that my uncle could go to the lounge to sleep when my mother was asleep. I have a thief who is enthusiastic and popular.

Let's talk about my old uncle, my mother's second brother. He is the contractor of the construction team. He came here once before my mother's operation, and then he went back to arrange the project. The day before my mother's operation, he rushed to the hospital again, and he accompanied me every day. But is it my great uncle's kind of care, that is, companionship?

Because my old uncle had a bad habit in his early years, he loved gambling and lost a lot of money, so I was strict in menstruation. Although my old uncle can make money, he doesn't have much money on him. Although he has no money, he insists on being there, and he doesn't care whether my old uncle wants to go home or not.

Just a week ago, I called my dad one day and said that I couldn't control myself after drinking a little wine and went gambling again. Lost 15 thousand, borrowed usury, and asked my dad to punch in quickly. Interest will be calculated the next day. Originally, my old uncle didn't want my mother to know, but my mother was not afraid of being angry, but the economic power of my family was in my mother's hands ... As a result, my old uncle was educated by my parents in turn.

My mother was actually very angry, but she said that she didn't want to help my uncle remember him for a long time, but she was afraid that my aunt would quarrel with him, so she helped him anyway. My mother said, after all, she is my own brother. My mother has kidney disease and one kidney has been removed. At that time, I didn't know if there was a problem with the other one, so my old uncle said to my mother, "Don't worry, sister, if you want a kidney, I'll give you one."

I think, brothers and sisters, with the same blood, how can they no longer be a family because their parents died? But everything is not absolute, and some bad feelings may not be often contacted because of the death of their parents.

However, if your parents die, the only people in the world who are related to you are your descendants and your brothers and sisters. You should cherish it. After all, blood is thicker than water.

I especially want to have a younger sister, whether it's a brother or a younger brother, a sister or a younger sister, but it's too late. My mother has rejected me many times, saying that raising me is enough for her.

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I would like to add that not only are my two uncles very kind to my mother, but when my mother had the operation, it happened that my old uncle's sister was on a wedding trip, and she and my brother-in-law were in Yunnan. I have just been there for two days. I heard that my mother was going to have an operation, and they flew straight back. After I came to the hospital, I also gave my father a bank card with the money they collected, which contained100000 yuan, for fear that my father would be embarrassed to speak because he had no money.

I'm really lucky, and so is my mother.