Some people say that the more obedient children are, the harder their lives will be when they grow up. Is this true?

We always hope that our children will become obedient and sensible, without any refutation of what their parents say. However, the editor has found that the more obedient children are, the harder their lives will be in the future. So, why does this happen? 1. Overly obedient children.

Some parents often praise their children outside, saying that their children are very obedient and can be said to be consistent with their parents and never refute what the parents say. But as parents, have we thought about it carefully? If the child is really like this, does the child live like a puppet? It is a good thing that children are obedient, but children should not be too obedient. If they are too obedient, the child will have no independent thoughts of his own, and he will not have his own thoughts, just like a puppet. Moreover, children who are overly obedient may also have a pleaser personality. They are afraid that if they are disobedient, parents will hate that their children will always coax others when they grow up, which will cause the children to be harmed to varying degrees. 2. How to solve this problem?

We can usually let children talk about their inner thoughts, and parents must also learn to respect their children. Children should not always ignore their words when talking to their parents. When educating your children, you can tell them that you can talk to your parents about your inner thoughts without restraint. Your parents will not blame you, but will think that you are a very thoughtful child and a child worthy of praise. . 3. Summary.

When we educate our children, we cannot only focus on their shortcomings. We also need to take a look at the advantages of our children. This can also promote the relationship between each other and reduce the quarrels between parents and children. If a child is overly obedient, he will definitely become a person who likes to please others in the future, and he will also become a puppet without any thoughts of his own.