In a man's heart, which is more important, a lover or a wife?

In a man's heart, which is more important, a lover or a wife?

In a man's heart, which is more important, a lover or a wife? I don't know when it started, marital infidelity became a common phenomenon. Now many men will be cheated by their wives. The most important thing is to pursue that kind of excitement. So, in a man's heart, which is more important, a lover or a wife?

In a man's mind, which is more important, a lover or a wife? 1 1. Lovers are only thought of when men are empty and lonely. Love is just a condiment in life. A lover is just something that can be thrown away after eating. What hurts most as a lover is oneself. The lover's sadness is always unnecessary, and the wife is making up for it.

Second, the lover's position seems to have always been a mistress. A woman will value her lover more than her husband. No matter how much a man attracts his lover, his salary will still be given to his wife. What a man likes best is to play with his lover, and what he trusts most is his wife. In a man's dictionary, the lover is someone else and the wife is one of our own.

Third, in the hearts of cheating men, what they love most is their wives, that is to say, between wives and lovers, wives are more important than lovers. If the lover and his wife are seriously ill at the same time, who does the man care most about? The answer is bound to break the hearts of many women who have extramarital affairs, and of course their wives. Why do men care most about their wives, not their lovers? After all, lovers are just outsiders, and wives are our own, no matter how bad they are. Whether a lover dies or not has little to do with himself, while whether a wife dies or not is related to the integrity of a family, so they are also seriously ill. Men will definitely pay money to save their wives instead of spending a lot of money to save their lovers.

Fourth, what men like best is to take advantage. For men, lovers can change frequently, but wives can't, because there is only one wife, but there are many lovers. The person you really love should be at home, otherwise why marry her home? A man always thinks of his wife first, not his lover, nor his feelings. A man does not hesitate to hurt his lover for his wife. Being a lover is a bottomless road and will not have a good result.

Fifth, women care about their lovers, but men are as light as a feather. Lovers' love is the greatest, but it has no status. Men can only like their lovers, and they will get bored after a long time. Men who put family first love their wives more. Although there are lovers outside, this is only a physiological need. A lover is just a happy face. Once, their love was just a dream, and a woman he didn't give a name to was in his heart. Men are selfish, and extramarital affairs will come to an end one day. In the end, no matter how lingering and loving you are, lovers are running water and wives are silent wells.

Which is more important in a man's heart, a lover or a wife? 2 0 1.

I don't know when it started, marital infidelity became a common phenomenon. Some men no longer regard loyalty as a belief. The red flag at home does not fall, the colorful flags are fluttering outside, the wife is at home, the lover is outside, and she lives a happy life.

This also forms a man playing the role of husband and lover between two women.

Generally speaking, on the surface, men seem to prefer lovers outside, all kinds of flattery, all kinds of gifts, and all kinds of romance on important festivals. For the wife at home, there are some cold faces and pointing fingers. What do you think is not pleasing to the eye, all kinds of picky, all kinds of indifference, all kinds of perfunctory, and the wife at home is like a concubine who has been put in the cold.

So, for a man who is having an affair, which is more important in his heart, his lover or his wife? Do you really care about your meticulous lover?

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Want to understand this problem, or from the root, why do men cheat to find lovers?

It is very important for a man to cheat his lover. The reason is to seek excitement and freshness. At the same time, we must understand a truth: men who cheat are selfish. Although he and his wife have lost their passion and freshness, he doesn't want a divorce, but just wants to cheat. He hopes that the red flag at home will not fall and the colorful flags will fly outside.

I think when he and his wife are in love, when passion and freshness are strong, is it also very loving?

As we all know, passion and freshness have a short shelf life. In the past, the emperor had seventy-two concubines in three palaces and six courtyards. Which concubine is said to have always been loved by the emperor? Isn't it a new generation for the old? In the eyes of the emperor, isn't it just that the new guy laughs at the old guy and cries?

For a man, spending a little thought on his lover is really his energy, and spending a little money on his lover is also the rain in Mao Mao.

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Also, how many cheating men are as pure as true love? How many have no clear purpose? He gave his lover all kinds of gifts, all kinds of flattery, all for that purpose, just a means to exchange for another beautiful young girl, and he did it anyway.

Based on this, can a man be sincere to his lover outside marriage? For women who are willing to be mistresses of rich men, it is actually very sad. They are just playthings for men seeking novelty and excitement.

So many women want more candy after being captured. Most men avoid it, delete their contact information immediately and say goodbye to you.

So, I want to say to those girls who seek happiness in this way, don't be naive. Those married people behind you just want to be on a whim, and your position will never be better than his wife who is temporarily left out at home.

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Writing here, I suddenly remembered a story I saw on the internet before, which may explain this point more clearly.

A man is critically ill. He asked the hospital to inform two women, one is his lover and the other is his wife. The two women came into the ward in tandem.

A man's eyes light up when he sees his lover. He slowly took out a phone book from his close-fitting pocket, and then pulled out a leaf specimen from it. He said, "Do you remember? We met under a lilac tree, and this leaf just fell on your hair. I have always treasured it ... I will never forget you. " The lover was greatly moved.

She thought of the ups and downs between them, happy and painful memories, and at that time she had mixed feelings.

She wants to meet the romance of the afterlife with a man, even if she holds hands silently, it is also a lingering poem. She doesn't want this feeling to hate the regret of not meeting and not getting married, nor does she want this endless struggle when love is hopeless. She wants to be romantic with him forever.

Alas! Now that Yin and Yang are almost separated, we can only start dating again. She couldn't help crying, and she was speechless with men, but her tears were thousands of lines!

At this moment, his wife came in. He gave her an apologetic look and slowly took out a wallet from under the pillow. He said to his wife, "This is all my 800,000 savings, as well as stock certificates and real estate certificates, which are for you and your son. Have a good life, I'm leaving ... "The lover is dumb and confused. Who is his favorite woman, her or his wife?

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This story may have been read too much, but it is still appropriate to use it here as an example at this moment. Through this story, women should see the true face of men, right? What he cares about most is his wife.

Lovers only satisfy men's illusory fantasies, and wives can satisfy men's realistic dependence. So men will give women promises and so-called love, and at the same time give their wives money and status.

Those beautiful young girls who are still hesitating to accept married men should be awake now, right? Everyone wants to live a good life, but the days of getting something for nothing will not last long.

You are betting your youth on tomorrow, and no one knows what tomorrow will be like, but your youth is short and limited, but it is just a spiritual stimulus that men can buy.

There is no shortcut to happiness, and any shortcut you take will pay more in the future. Girls, please remember two sentences. The first sentence: there is no love for no reason; The second sentence: courting for no reason is either rape or theft.

Which is more important in a man's heart, a lover or a wife? 3 0 1

Everyone in our small circle knows that I have a lover. Before, we advised him to put his family and children first and not to get himself into trouble. He didn't listen, and everyone stopped talking.

Tiezi, who has been married for ten years, has a bad relationship with his wife, and now they don't appreciate each other. My wife thinks Iron Man is timid and unmanly. Tiezi thinks his wife likes nagging. So Tiezi has a lover outside. My lover is five years younger than him and has his own home. In the eyes of his lover, Tiezi is a special man, and Tiezi also thinks that his lover is very gentle and considerate. The two are inseparable, and they get together every chance to enjoy their own world.

After three years with my lover, Tiezi never wanted to marry her. It's not that he doesn't love others. In his words: "lovers are emotional sustenance outside marriage, but if you want to get married and live together, no matter what your future life is like, you must pay a high price first." What he wants more is to keep the present state.

In extramarital affairs, women tend to indulge in their feelings, while men want women's feelings and bodies. However, when women want men to abandon their wives and stay with them, most men will suddenly become very rational and begin to weigh the pros and cons in their hearts. And the result of the choice proves who is more important in his heart.

02

Human nature is to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. The same is true for men. Sometimes whoever is kind to him is important to him and doesn't want to give up. This is especially true for men who have an affair.

This is the case with classmate Fang Ming. Now he is determined to divorce his wife and stay with his lover. Fang Ming, 39, married his wife 13 years, and his daughter 10 years old. After having children, the couple began to argue about their children, from eating and drinking Lazar to educating them. They always disagree and quarrel endlessly. Fighting is much more noisy, and feelings are also noisy.

Fang Ming fell in love with her lover Yan Yan last year. Yan Yan, 24, is still unmarried. Yan Yan likes Fang Ming's maturity and humor, while Fang Ming likes Yan Yan's youth and vitality.

Although Yan Yan is born after 90, she knows how to be considerate and take care of Fang Ming. She often buys some food and clothes for Fang Ming, but her wife hasn't bought him a pair of socks for more than three years. What Fang Ming prefers is that Yan Yan has a good temper and has never quarreled with Fang Ming. In Fang Ming's view, Yan Yan is the ideal partner he wants. Yan Yan also likes Fang Ming very much, indicating that he will not get married.

For Fang Ming, love is the most important thing in his heart, and his wife is just a name that exists in the household registration book at home. That name makes him very strange. He is now bent on divorcing his wife, and now he can abandon everything for charm. He said that it would be very unfortunate if both of them continued a marriage without feelings. Without feelings, it is better to go our separate ways. As for children, he will do his duty and obligation.

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In some men's minds, wife and lover are two different things, and two different identities determine that two people are two different worlds in men's minds. One is the world at home and the other is the outside world. The outside world is wonderful, but the outside world is also terrible. The home is solid and stable, and the scenery outside is gorgeous and colorful, but men always go home.

My cousin came home recently. More than a year of extramarital affairs not only brought him happiness and excitement in the first few months, but also made him feel physically and mentally exhausted in the last six months.

Cousin and his wife have always had a good relationship, perhaps out of fresh and exciting psychology, he couldn't stand the temptation to fall in love with a woman. Hot-headed, he soon fell into obsession with his lover. In order to please his lover, he spent a lot of money on him, and he tried to satisfy what he wanted.

After only two months with my lover, my wife discovered his betrayal. Unlike many women, his wife chose to forgive him instead of making a fuss. "She is only for your money, she doesn't love you so much. Don't be silly. " Maybe it's really a bystander. After listening to his story about his lover, his wife said that as long as he promised to break up with that woman, she would forget it happened.

However, his wife's generosity didn't restrain his lustful cousin. After eight months of continuing to associate with my lover, I spent 100 thousand yuan in savings and lied to my wife that I lost money in business. The wife didn't think much, just advised him to relax. When his lover saw that he had no money and even had difficulty in opening a house, he began to scold him and alienate him. Two people often quarrel, and have long lost their old love and sweet words.

Many people start to reflect on the past when they are in trouble At this time, my cousin saw the true face of her lover and felt stupid. "Extramarital affairs are like a flower. It looks beautiful, but it is poisonous." This is how my cousin feels about extramarital affairs. After ending his affair with his lover, he really returned to his family with regret.

Thinking about what he has done in the past, he also wants to persuade men with harmonious families not to have extramarital affairs, which will eventually ruin him. In his opinion, who is the most important, wife or lover? Of course, it is important to give him a loving and caring wife.

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Most extramarital affairs have no results or bad results. Extramarital affairs, as long as a man doesn't mean to divorce his wife, he has a steelyard in his heart. As we all know, compared with the fresh stimulation and emotional sustenance outside marriage, the stability of life is the most important. I'm afraid not many men will make a mess of their lives for their loved ones unless they have to.

Therefore, women, after recognizing these ideas of men, should not be lovers, and should not fantasize about becoming a full member, or they will be injured in the end.