How to be etiquette?

The content of etiquette education covers all aspects of social life. Public life is like a stage full of lights. Everyone plays various roles on this stage. Therefore, interactions between people must abide by the minimum moral norms and play their roles well. Etiquette has cosmopolitan and national characteristics. The etiquette culture of the East and the West has both uniqueness and differences. The traditional nature of etiquette is that it is inherited and contemporary in time; however, because etiquette is gradually formed by people in their long-term living together and interacting with each other, and it is a convention and can be chosen, each country and nation due to Different histories, cultures, and religious beliefs, as well as different lifestyles and habits, result in different etiquette. Therefore, it is also very necessary to learn and understand the etiquette of various countries and nations.

Etiquette is ubiquitous and present in life. In life, "good etiquette" and "disrespectful etiquette" will have completely different effects. "Good etiquette" will bring harmony, and "discourteous" will lead to unhappiness. A gentle greeting will bring a sense of kindness; a faint smile will bring a sense of warmth; enthusiastic service will bring a period of happiness; and timely service will bring a sense of harmony. Help brings a touch.

In public life, etiquette is the "passport" and "lubricant" for interpersonal communication. The basic function of etiquette is to realize interpersonal relationships, embody an aesthetic of social interaction, and is a social The requirements of public morality. Etiquette is a display of inner moral quality. Attitude determines everything, and details determine success or failure. In public life, it is often because some details are not handled in place, and they will taste the bitter consequences of failure. Such as making noise, spitting, disobeying traffic rules, jaywalking, etc. Although these are small things, they can affect the normal order of social life and personal quality and image.

So, how to improve etiquette cultivation? In public interactions, we should distinguish between occasions and pay attention to the environment, specifically focusing on three aspects. First, be sincere and respectful in dealing with others. As the saying goes, where sincerity reaches, gold and stone will open. Respect is the emotional basis of etiquette and a kind of self-cultivation. People need to respect themselves and others. Being respected by others will give people a pleasant psychological experience. Treating others sincerely will shorten the distance between people. In interpersonal communication, we must also abide by time and appointments and grasp boundaries.

The second is to speak and behave appropriately. The behavioral norms in the process of interpersonal communication are called etiquette, and the expression of etiquette in speech and actions is called politeness. In official interactions, language must be concise, complete, accurate, and grammatical. And be good at listening and observing carefully.

Third, appearance and clothing should be appropriate. Appearance and clothing should be consistent with age, occupation, and body shape, and should be coordinated with occupation and environment.

It can be seen that cultivating etiquette in public life is a matter of quality cultivation. The content of etiquette is very broad. The basic spirit of etiquette is to make others feel comfortable. It is a relaxed norm and a beauty that can be chosen. Etiquette should be consistent on the outside and internalized into a habit. Etiquette is relative. Public etiquette pays attention to order and is in line with national conditions. When serving the public, being civilized and courteous will increase your affinity. However, official etiquette must pay attention to the scene and position status. There is no gender difference in official etiquette. In official etiquette, the relationship between superiors and subordinates must be properly handled. The superiors assign tasks concisely and directly, while the subordinates work seriously and efficiently. Paying attention to the beauty of clothing, emphasizing the beauty of language, promoting the beauty of communication, and advocating the beauty of behavior are the basic contents that civil servants should abide by.

Etiquette is also a kind of cultural construction. Literary integrity is an indispensable part of the cultural construction of the unit. Someone once conducted a survey and found that in order to enhance employee loyalty, mobilize employees to achieve excellent work performance, and successfully complete work tasks, material means can only mobilize 40% of the enthusiasm. , and 60% of enthusiasm is mobilized by culture, which shows that money cannot buy enthusiasm and passion for work.