What exactly is being petty? Let me give you an example: How can a narrow-minded person make his heart bigger?

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The so-called narrow-mindedness is what people often say is narrow-minded and small-minded, commonly known as "narrow-minded" and "petty-minded". This kind of person can only listen to good things but not bad things, can only accept success but not failure, and will worry about and worry about small gains and losses when he is slightly wronged or encounters small gains and losses. People with this kind of personality are extremely susceptible to external cues, especially those related to themselves, which can easily cause internal psychological conflicts. A small mistake in life is regarded as a huge failure or setback, causing long-term restlessness. In terms of behavior, he has a narrow scope of interpersonal communication. He only interacts with people who are consistent with himself or no more than himself, and cannot tolerate those who have different opinions from himself or who are stronger than himself.

How to make your mentality bigger:

1. Enrich your knowledge. A person's mind is closely related to his knowledge and cultivation. The more knowledge a person has, the higher his footing will be and his horizons will be broadened accordingly. At this time, you will be able to take some small things and small profits, let them go, and throw them away. People with narrow personalities should read more books on moral cultivation and interpersonal communication to cultivate their own spirit of collectivism, mutual help and friendship.

2. Increase experience. Narrow-mindedness and little knowledge are closely related. Having little experience, less opportunities to contact the society, and little accumulated knowledge and experience in the mind, it is easy to have one-sided understanding, absolute and extreme views on problems. Once extreme perceptions arise, they will be stubborn in their own opinions and will not tolerate people and things that go against their own views. "Once upon a time, the sea was difficult to overcome, except for Wushan, it was not a cloud." Generally speaking, the broader a person's experience, the higher his knowledge, the broader his mind, and the calmer his mood.

3. Give up selfishness. Narrowness and selfishness are "twin sisters". Narrow-minded people turn their attention to themselves, and they regard "plucking a hair to benefit the world without doing anything", "only say a few things about yourself, don't give it all", "everyone sweeps away the snow in front of his own door, and doesn't care about others." As a creed in life, he is self-centered, stubborn, and always based on his own interests. He also tries his best to exclude "dissidents" in his interactions. As a result, he is left in the cold.

4. Expand communication. Psychology is an active reflection of objective reality, and human character and character are the result of the interaction between the subject and the environment. The more and more extensive the communication between people and the environment, the greater the degree of openness and the broader the mind. The more one lives in a closed and depressed environment, the easier it is for people to become narrow-minded.

5. Treat others with kindness. As a member of society, people must live in society and inevitably interact with others. In order to make communication go smoothly, the principle of mutual reciprocity in interpersonal communication should be followed. That is to say, in communication, you should not only think about your own selfish interests, but even want to get some benefits from others.

6. Make more friends with people who are recognized as generous and generous. There must be such people around you. When you are with them, you will be subtly influenced by their magnanimity and magnanimity, and you will learn their methods of dealing with people and dealing with friends. It is best not to be with people who are extremely selfish and care about others. There is a saying, “Be a good neighbor and learn from your neighbors.” The same goes for choosing friends.

7. Cultivate elegance in life. Participate in more cultural and sports activities in your circle of friends or in the community to broaden your scope of interests. In colorful activities and extensive interactions with each other, you can feel the fresh excitement in life, feel the beauty of life, enhance your aesthetic taste, and cultivate your temperament. Purify the mind, thereby enhancing spiritual sustenance and eliminating psychological stress in a healthy and uplifting atmosphere.

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