A family with a brother!

Brothers and family are your shelter, not your help. Everyone should learn to leave his family, become an independent person, and then try to form a new family.

You should have a job at the age of 30, and you don't need to be very high-end

High-end, low-key luxury in the atmosphere has connotations, but at least your life goals and your economy are basically independent. I don't know what you mean by nothing, because there are really not many people who can succeed in this world, and most of them are ordinary people.