Four short stories about family education

Four short stories about family education

Message: Family education is a very important part of children's education. I edited four short stories about family education for you from the inspirational story network. Let's learn them together.

Story 1 Disaster caused by rain

Fukuzawa is a naughty boy. Once, the teacher was going to organize students to go on an outing, but unfortunately it rained and the activity was cancelled.

Tomosawa felt very depressed, and he rushed home angrily. As soon as he entered the door, he dropped his schoolbag and threw himself on the bed without saying a word. Father saw it and decided to talk to him. Father patted Tomozawa with his hand: "You look very unhappy. Is there anything unhappy? " ? Can you tell me something about it? "

So, Tomozawa told his father about the outing.

After listening, my father said, "When will it rain badly? It just rains at this time. "

Tomosawa then said, "Yes, why do you get off now?"

At this time, the two sides were silent for a while, and then Fukuzawa said, "Oh, not this time. We can wait until later. " Obviously, he is much calmer now. He never lost his temper for the rest of the afternoon. Usually, as long as Tomozawa runs home angrily, his mood will affect the whole family and make everyone unhappy. This situation will last until late at night, until he falls asleep. Unexpectedly, today's father's words actually made him smart.

realize

Be good at communicating with children and understand their inner world. Beating and scolding children will only make things worse.

Story 2 Good memories

A father asked his son, "What is the best part of your life in memory?"

Without hesitation, the son said, "That night, after I attended the boy scout party, you came to take me home. On the way, you stop to help me catch fireflies. "

Things are very common, and the father can't remember them clearly, but they have become the best memories of his son. The son knew that his father was busy at that time and thought that he would not stop there. This is a wonderful night for father and son. A father's behavior is equivalent to saying to his son, "I love you."

Once, a child was frightened by lightning. He shouted in the dark, "Dad, come on, I'm afraid." Dad said, "Oh, son, God loves you and will protect you." The child replied, "I know God loves me, but what I need now is a tangible God."

realize

Everyone is eager to be loved. The greatest thing we can do is to let others know that they can love and be loved. In communication, silent actions can sometimes be as important as words, play a role in communication, and better reflect love and appreciation for children.

Story 3 Take responsibility

In a city in France, Robert's child, Little Jack, is playing football in his garden. Excited, he kicked the football into his neighbor's garden and smashed a pot of roses. Little Jack timidly asked his father to pick up the ball, but Robert let little Jack go by himself. First of all, he had to apologize and take a pot of the same flower as compensation.

Little Jack had to walk to his neighbor's house step by step with flowers in his hand. The neighbor is Luke, a 70-year-old man. Luke looked at little Jack's tears. Not only did he not blame the child, but he also left no flowers. He also took out a bag of chocolates from home and gave it to little Jack.

Robert couldn't hide his joy when he saw his son coming home with tears on his face. He also saw that his son had more chocolate in his hand. Robert, who knew the inside story, went straight to old Luke and said to him, "Mr. Luke, my son made a mistake." I want to educate him. Please cooperate. Children who make mistakes should not be rewarded. " Then he asked his son to bring chocolate and flowers to Grandpa Luke.

A day later, Robert took the opportunity to reward his son with chocolate.

realize

Robert seems to have gone too far, but he is right. For children's obvious mistakes, mistakes made knowingly and serious mistakes, we should seriously criticize them and let them take responsibility until they are corrected.

Story 4 Burr's Lies

Burr 17 years old, just learning to drive.

One morning, his father asked Burl to drive him to a city far from home to do business. Burr agreed with great pleasure.

He drove his father to his destination, agreed to pick him up at 4 pm, and then went to the concert. When the last song was finished, it was already 6 pm. At this time, he remembered the agreement with his father!

When Burr drove to the appointed place, he saw his father leaning against the railing and waiting patiently. Burl thought that if his father knew that he had been watching the concert, he would be very angry.

Burl walked over with his head down, first apologizing to his father, and then lying that he wanted to come early, but there was something wrong with the car on the road and it needed to be repaired. It took the maintenance workers two hours to fix it.

The father listened to his son, looked at him and said, "Burr, do you think it is necessary to lie to me?"

"I didn't lie to you! I am telling the truth. " Burr argued.

The father looked at his son again. "You didn't arrive at the appointed time, I will call the pit and ask if there is any problem with the car. They told me you didn't go. So, there is nothing wrong with your car. " Hearing his father's words, Burr blushed with shame. He bowed his head and admitted to his father the fact of watching the concert. Father listened carefully and his face became more ugly. "I am very angry, not angry with you, but angry with myself. I feel like a failure because I raised a lying son. I am going to go back from here now and reflect on the wrong things I have done in these years. "

Burl's apology didn't change his father's mind.

Father began to walk along the dusty road, and Burr quickly jumped into the car and followed his father. Burr repented all the way and told his father how sad and sorry he was, but his father just walked and ignored him.

During the 20-mile journey, Burr followed his father at a speed of 4 miles per hour.

It was the most unforgettable experience of Burl's life to watch his father suffer both physical and emotional torture during the 20-mile journey. But it is also the most successful education in life. From then on, Burr never lied to his father again.

realize

When a child does something wrong, parents should first reflect on themselves and let the child gradually understand the mistake.

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