When people reach middle age, don't show off, it's easy to lose the "blessing"

In their thirties and forties, they have already entered middle age. Over half of my life, I have experienced ups and downs and accumulated a lot of wealth and interpersonal relationships.

Middle-aged people don't show off their self-confidence, so they want to be praised by others.

But to be a low-key person, too high-profile to show off wealth will only attract the envy of others and even get yourself into trouble.

Showing off wealth will make people jealous, showing off friends will make people disgusted, showing off family members will be considered overreaching, and showing off ability will be considered arrogant.

No matter whether you have experienced poverty or wealth, you should live a more grounded and practical life. After all, only you know how to show off your life, and praise is a flash in the pan.

People should understand the true meaning of life, especially in middle age.

When people reach middle age, they learn to harvest blessings in a low-key way.

0 1 where there is a will, there is a way, not high-profile.

I have heard the saying: concentration can make you rich. Working hard to earn money is to live a happy life, not to show off in circles.

Some people like to show off. In fact, there is a kind of psychology called Murphy's Law.

Often what he lacks most is what he likes to show off. People who are short of money can never live without money.

And those who have strength and assets are the richest and most low-key people.

As San Mao said: "The comedies in the world can be produced without money, but the tragedies in the world can't be separated from the money of Dachuan."

Of course, showing off can also bring trouble to people, and it is easy to attract jealous and evil people.

There was once a woman who liked to wear gold and silver and wanted to take all kinds of gold and silver jewelry with her. It was because of her ostentation and extravagance that she died in vain.

One night in the dead of night, she was walking outside and was stared at by a poor sick man. She grabbed the necklace by bike and dragged it for dozens of meters.

Similar to showing off wealth, there are countless disasters of killing yourself.

The reason is vanity.

So money can improve 99% happiness index, and money can also make 99% people happy.

A gentleman loves money, and a person who loves money too much may become a loser of money because of opportunism.

Shakespeare said, "Some people always compliment you, but they are not all friends in need."

If you don't know how to enjoy the happiness brought by wealth in a low profile, even let others cast envious eyes and enjoy the satisfaction brought by vanity.

It can only show that there is something wrong with your three views, which will make you a slave to money over time.

Keep a low profile and do high-profile things.

Regarding the demand for money, I believe everyone has one thing in common, that is, they just want to have more. Even if people reach middle age, they have accumulated life experience and wealth. After all, it is the result of hard work and there is no need to declare it.

Life is always your own good or bad, sadness and pain, and has nothing to do with others.

You have money and you won't share it with others.

You are bitter, others will not share it with you.

A person's pattern depends on whether he can show off a happy life in his own circle.

When people reach middle age, they can only be happier if they restrain their own light and live more realistically.

No matter how much wealth and high status you have, you are neither arrogant nor impetuous.

Ignorant youth is a thing of the past, and when people reach middle age, they will be more stable in dealing with others.

How do we treat life? Life is how to give back to us.

In fact, there are many powerful and knowledgeable people around. They are low-key, not grandiose and not ostentatious.

When you show off your position and ability too much, you will find that life is full of problems.

It is the true meaning of life to know the height without speaking, and to be high without being proud.

Pride only makes people fail.

We have all heard such a story, that is the proud peacock.

Peacocks have beautiful wings and are complacent all day. He always likes to show off his beautiful feathers like other animals in the forest, spreading his wings from time to time and dancing in front of other animals.

It was his action that caught the fox's attention. The fox not only slandered his wings, but even wanted to eat its delicious meat. As night fell, the fox acted, and this proud peacock became the fox's dinner.

The more capable people are, the more low-key they should be to show a person's accomplishment.

Everything is like this, let alone people.

A down-to-earth and humble life will be wonderful, and people who only know how to show off their pride are like a mirage, fleeting.

Since ancient times, how many people have failed because of pride? In ancient times, there were Yang Di, Qin Shihuang, Xiang Yu and so on. They were headstrong and arrogant, and eventually lost their wives and soldiers.

Feng Jicai once said, "Low-key means living in your own world; High-profile, living in someone else's world. "

It is never too old to learn, and modest people will make more and more progress.

There are people outside, there are days behind, and when people reach middle age, they can gain more knowledge by learning to be low-key and modest.

Misfortune tests the sincerity of friends.

In today's information age, many friends, many roads and even contacts determine your success or failure.

I don't know how many of these contacts can become friends in need.

Collins said: "when we are happy, our friends will know us;" In times of difficulty, we will make friends. "

It is said that, unlike those who have been poor together as we all know, those couples who have survived poverty and poverty are also really difficult couples. Only when relatives and friends are in trouble can a person's sincerity be tested.

As Ge Hong said: "Where there is a will, there is a way, and mountains and seas are not far away;" Those who follow the rules are not close at hand. "

It can be seen that those weak relationships are easily broken.

You just need three or two friends who can really see the truth in adversity.

There is a saying in "Historical Records of the King of Yue Goujian's Family": Birds are exhausted and good bows are hidden; A sly rabbit dies, but a running dog cooks.

A friend in need is a true friend, which can be called a bosom friend and help you in life.

When people reach middle age, please don't show off, it's easy to lose your "blessing"

Guan zhong said: treat others with kindness and kindness, and be close as brothers; Evil spirits welcome people and harm soldiers.

You can judge a person's character and character by his behavior.

People who do good things will bring us good luck, while those who use bad words will only destroy Feng Shui behind the scenes.

Those who settle down will have real revenge, while those who like to show off are like dandelion seeds, floating and uncertain, and no stone can take root and sprout.

A tree catches the wind, the more people who like to show off, the more likely they are to get bored, while people who are low-key and unknown will gain a good reputation.

When people reach middle age, they have accumulated experience and wealth, and also accumulated a lot of experience and contacts.

Knowing how to keep a low profile is the right way of life.

No matter how rich you are, you should be calm.

Life is always your own. When people reach middle age and learn not to show off or be arrogant, they will accumulate more and more blessings.