Does the husband mind if he is in poor shape after marriage, and does the husband mind his own body?

It is a woman's nature to love beauty. No woman doesn't love beauty before or after marriage, and no woman doesn't want her other half to focus all her eyes on herself. When she was young, she had time and energy to dress herself up. When she entered the marriage hall, many women often ignored her makeup and figure. With such selfless efforts, she is old and out of shape.

Especially for couples who have been married for many years and are about to enter middle age, women at this stage are most concerned about.

Share the attitudes of male colleagues in several companies towards their wives. Let's have a look.

Two days ago, when I was resting after work, a group of people chatted: A couple who have been married for many years, does the husband mind the change of his wife's figure?

Brother Liu said: I am 36 years old and have been married 1 1 year. Before marriage, my wife was very beautiful, and her figure was also the legendary A4 waist. After so many years, she is not as good as before, and she is getting a little old at different ages.

After the birth of the child, she put all her thoughts on the child and had no energy and motivation to dress herself, let alone pay attention to her figure. To tell the truth, it hurts me to see her becoming more and more mellow, but I really don't have much interest. She has nothing to complain about.

Sometimes, I also tell her to pay attention to her figure, but after so many years of marriage, she turns a deaf ear to my words. What does she often talk about? What happened? You don't like me being fat. It's no use abandoning me, and I can't go back. ?

Well, actually, I really don't dislike her. I don't like her figure. I can't even hold her. God, it's so hard. This man eats more when he is fat. Although it doesn't matter how much you eat and drink, the fatter you get, the more diseases will follow, and I don't want to wait until something really goes wrong before she regrets it.

Therefore, because of my wife's figure, we often argue a few words, but we can't help but listen to me. Although we still love her, I really don't want to hold this 150 Jin of fat every day. I have a headache.

If my wife can really slim down and have a healthy body, wouldn't the happy days after that be longer and longer? I don't want to have problems because of obesity, and I don't want to live alone in 30 or 40 years.

The wife who only ate a spoonful of egg rice before marriage now has two bowls of rice, weighing 90 kg before marriage, and the wife who married 150 kg especially likes to eat fat. After eating, she is either sitting or lying down.

To be honest, I really can't stand it. I usually like sports. Although I am 36 years old, I look almost in my early 30 s. I am a very introverted person, but I can't call her.

Actually, I also want my wife to move. I prefer her slim figure to her fat figure, which is not only beautiful, but more importantly healthy.

Many people always say that once a woman is old, men will dislike her, but this is really not the case.

I don't dislike my wife at all. What I don't like is that she has no demands on herself. What I don't like is that she is irresponsible for her own health, which is also irresponsible for our feelings.

Looking at 150 Jin's wife, I am speechless. Although I am a little disgusted, I dare not express it at all. You know, women are fierce, men are only bitter.

So, I don't want to go back except work now. I dare not say about my wife's weight loss. She will argue with me for a long time, and finally I will fail. This feeling is very depressing. I don't know when she will wake up Being too fat is really bad for her health. Let's be slim, shall we?

This is what Liu Ge said about caring about his wife's figure. In fact, the most important thing is to worry about his wife's health. I think his mind is actually understandable.

Yes, although we have been married for many years and have deep feelings, why not control it for the sake of the other half? I hope brother Liu's wife can wake up.

Zhang Ge said: I am 40 years old this year, and I don't mind my wife's out of shape.

Before marriage, my wife paid special attention to her personal image and dressed in fashion. I also like her to dress up beautifully, so that she can go out to satisfy my vanity in front of outsiders and proudly tell others that this is my wife.

Since my wife married me and gave birth to a child, it is normal for pregnant women to get fat. In order to give birth to our children, my wife suffered too much, often unable to eat or sleep well. It's either uncomfortable or a little painful here, especially at night. A good sleep is happiness.

After giving birth to a daughter, my wife came out from confinement and was very worried about her body. I feel sorry for her, too. I feel pain for our children, but I can't bear it for her.

The boss went to kindergarten, and his wife, who had just recovered, repeated the process of getting fat in order to have a second child. The second child was two years old and the old woman's figure never recovered. I often skip meals for her figure. I don't know how many times I've told you, come on, it's okay, but my wife just won't listen. She said she was afraid I wouldn't like it.

The moment my wife said she was afraid of my disgust, I felt so uncomfortable. I hugged her tenderly and said to her: Wife, I care more about your health, your mood and your suffering for our children than your figure. Don't think so much. I love you no matter what you look like. ?

How lucky you are to have a woman give birth to your child in your life!

In the past, I only wanted one child, and only one was enough. I don't want her to suffer again, but my wife wants to give me a son and suffer again. How can I be out of shape and disgusted with my wife's treatment of me?

In this life, I will love her, care for her and love her. I don't want my wife to feel a little rejected by her husband because she is out of shape. What is the significance of two people getting married, that is, you have me and I have you?

Brother Zhang's words touched all of us. It is a great kindness for a woman to give birth to a child for you. This effort is not just lip service, but action. In order to have children, what qualifications does the husband have to abandon? How can you stand it?

Uncle Wang said: I care very much. Who doesn't want his wife to be slim, beautiful and lovely?

But my wife is not as good as I want. When I got married, I was slim and lovely, and I had a good relationship. She often goes to the movies, shopping and eating together. That was when she was young, and now she is 45 years old. Maybe she has been married for too long, and neither of them has any novelty.

My wife and I are basically sleeping in separate rooms now, because she is too fat, and I have thought about it, but seeing her pampered, a bed can occupy more than half of her sleeping position, I really mind!

The longer you get married, the purer your relationship will be. Maybe it's because of your relatives Although I care a little, I can barely get along. Alas, this woman who doesn't pay attention to her figure is very uncomfortable!

When I hear colleagues around me say that some people dislike others, I also hope that I will not be disliked, and I hope that I can take good care of my body and not let the other half have the opportunity to dislike.

I am also thinking that if a woman who has been married for many years may be too long, she doesn't care about these things, but I always think it is necessary for a woman to keep fit, no matter how long she has been married, she should consciously keep it. Although she will be a little fatter after marriage, she should not be too fat, otherwise it will affect her health, and the dislike of the other half is enough to drink a pot.

Therefore, whether a woman or a man, no matter how long they have been married, it is still meaningful to maintain their external image, which will be beneficial to their families and marital feelings.

Of course, the figure is our own, and we can do whatever we want. We don't have to please others, and we don't have to seize marriage, but we must keep fit and pay attention to our health for ourselves.

Women in marriage are actually quite pitiful. When they have children and take care of them, it is inevitable that they will not have much energy to pay attention to them. When a woman is busy taking care of her children, living in her family and doing chores, she really doesn't have much time to manage herself. There is no time!

At this time, if men can be more tolerant and understanding, take on more housework, give women some time and give them some time to tidy themselves up, I think they will make themselves better.

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After listening to my colleagues' small talk, what moved me most was Zhang Ge's words. He can understand the difficulty of women, and he doesn't care about his wife's figure. This may be a good husband. With such a husband, I think sister-in-law Zhang will definitely be happy.

In fact, sometimes I have been married for too long, and some women will think that I am like this and feel that this marriage is very strong. But in reality, there are many divorces and infidelities. Is it really because men like this? Although I don't deny this, the wife at home can pay a little attention to her appearance. I think such stories will be much less.

The length and depth of marriage is also worth our management, not only the appearance, but also the inner things. Sometimes, you will have a crisis inadvertently. Don't let appearance be an excuse for crisis. This is also a question worthy of consideration for women in marriage.

As a husband, do you mind if a woman is out of shape after marriage?