What do you mean by ugly eating (eating too ugly can easily lead to embarrassment)

"Eat and sit." The education given by these parents since childhood is one of the contents of the "Eat Civilized" initiative. Civilized dining and healthy living are taking shape, but in life, embarrassing stories such as "Two sisters were kicked out of the restaurant because of bad food" and "Couples broke up because of bad food" are still being staged.

According to Lin Wenyu, the author of Chongqing Taste and director of the Institute of Food Culture of Bayu Culture Research Institute, the solution to these problems is to respond to the initiative of civilized dining and eat legally, reasonably, hygienically, politely and cleanly.

To this end, Lin Wenyu gave some suggestions from his point of view.

There is an urgent need for active response and polite dining.

"This is very necessary and very timely."

Lin Wenyu said that civilized diet is a part of Chinese civilization, but later many people abandoned the precepts of their ancestors, leading to illness from the mouth.

Lin Wenyu said that a sudden virus epidemic caused by "eating" sounded the alarm of caring for life: it is urgent to improve eating habits, and the action measure is to respond to the initiative, starting from everyone, starting from every meal, and truly being polite to others.

A person's "eating" is his behavior.

China is a country of etiquette, and the origin of Chinese etiquette comes from "eating", as the Book of Rites says: "The beginning of a husband's ceremony begins with eating". More than two thousand years ago, Confucius wrote in The Analects of Confucius? Hard-working towns and villages put forward that "rice does not talk, sleep does not talk." Please eat without talking, which is a gentleman's self-respect behavior.

As the saying goes, "you should have an attitude when you eat, and you should also have an attitude when you stand", that is, you should know the rules of eating when you eat, so as not to be "disqualified" in front of everyone and be laughed at for not having a tutor and literacy.

He said that in Bayu and Chongqing, there are many established views and requirements about eating.

For example, you can't throw rice grains before, and you can't leave rice grains in a bowl when you eat. Taboo words, there is a folk proverb: "being struck by lightning or pockmarked on the face"; You can't put chopsticks on an empty bowl, which means that you are not full and you are "hungry"; You can't lick chopsticks with your tongue; Don't let chopsticks stick to rice grains to pick vegetables; You can't use chopsticks as toothpicks to pick your teeth and so on. Because these "eats" are not only ugly, but also uncivilized and unsanitary.

Lin Wenyu said that if that person picks up the bowl of food with chopsticks and turns it over while eating, it is a lack of family education and "grabs food", and many people are unwilling to eat at the same table with such people again.

Ugly eating leads to all kinds of embarrassing scenes.

Ugly eating is now the first popular online word, which literally means that a person has no manners when eating or eating, or has bad manners when eating.

Japanese psychologists have found that a person's casual performance in this instinctive behavior of eating can profoundly reflect a person's psychology.

Lin Wenyu said that although it is a new era, eating is still a literacy that many people care about. There are countless embarrassments caused by ugly eating.

He told a true story that happened around him.

Two young people who are in love are on their way to travel in western Sichuan. At noon, when they ate collectively, the boys completely ignored the image and took a bite of oil. The longest oil stain even flows down the corners of the mouth to the chin. A table of tourists looked at the boy who didn't know how to bury his head in food. The girl was so embarrassed that when the trip was over, they parted ways.

Lin Wenyu said that if you meet something delicious, you should also eat it. In addition, it is very impolite to be picky when eating.

He said that paying attention to the etiquette of eating is a kind of civilization, a kind of accomplishment and a lifestyle that is very worth promoting.

Upstream News chongqing morning post reporter Xu Ju