I can't bear to spend the money my husband earned. I think it is better to spend my own money. What is wrong with me? Shouldn't I spend my husband's money?

You are reluctant to spend his money, which shows that you love him and care about him. On the contrary, he is willing to give you money to show that he loves you.

You don't want to spend his money, which shows that your strong self-esteem exceeds your love for him.

The above two ideas are intertwined, although the result is that it doesn't cost him money, but the essence is different.

You are willing to spend his money, and you want to spend his money, which shows that you have a strong sense of happiness.

What you feel now is that you feel unhappy.

Solution:

I sympathize with your experience, but things are not as bad as you think.

My son and daughter are still in good health, and so is my husband. There are four people in a family with two children. Isn't this something to be thankful for?

For women, happiness is inversely proportional to giving, giving more happiness and giving less happiness.

Men like to protect the weak. When you are strong enough, you are naturally out of his protection.

Don't expect too much from your husband, he will run away when he can't stand it. Otherwise it will collapse. Do you want him to collapse or run away? Neither is suitable.

The country needs core concepts, such as Theory of Three Represents and harmony. . . Wait a minute. Families also need central ideas, such as: harmony, struggle, training the next generation, adequate food and clothing, not keeping up with the competition, and going on firmly for mutual love. . . . Wait a minute. Or you can communicate with him yourself and set a central idea for your family, and the four of you will go on with this value and outlook on life together!