Is the house important to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been the most complicated and difficult to deal with in the world.

The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been the most intractable problem in the world.

Generally speaking, many daughters-in-law are reluctant to live with their mother-in-law in order to reduce family disputes and avoid unnecessary troubles.

But there are exceptions, and this exception seems to be decided by the house.

Why do you say that?

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I saw a Wukong question before, and the subject probably meant that my mother-in-law wanted to buy a villa and asked the subject to move in with her husband and children, but the subject hesitated to move in.

I read the following answers and suggestions and found them ridiculous.

99% suggested that the subject move in.

One of them said, "First of all, congratulations on entering the giants and becoming a phoenix. Of course, you have to move there ... "

Someone said, "I think you are really stupid. Do you still need to ask such a good thing? " ? Of course I have to move there ... "

Others said: "Children, villas, many people may struggle all their lives and can't afford them. Since your mother-in-law has bought it, of course, if you have something ready-made, you have to move there ... "

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Only one person said, "If you have your own house, you'd better not move there."

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I also saw another problem of Wukong. The main idea is that she is getting married, and her mother-in-law wants the family to live together, but she is hesitant to live together.

The questioner didn't mention the villa. Naturally, everyone didn't think whether the house was a villa or a mansion, but only considered the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The following answers and suggestions are completely different from the previous question.

Almost 100% advised the subject not to live with in-laws, after all, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not easy to handle.

After reading the answers and suggestions below these two questions and answers, I feel ridiculous. When did you decide whether your daughter-in-law wanted to live with her mother-in-law? It's not the feelings in front of people, it's the cold house.

Will the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who live together in the villa live in peace without any disputes? Living together in a house that is not a villa will cause smoke everywhere?

As far as I know, not necessarily.

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Xiaoyun is the daughter of an ordinary family, married to a rich second generation and has a mansion in the provincial capital.

Because my in-laws only have one son, I think he will still live together after marriage.

Xiaoyun naturally lived in a mansion with her in-laws when she got married.

She lived in the past and learned that a big family has many rules. Everything is decided by her mother-in-law, and no one is allowed to do so.

Although the house is big, it seems that I can't stretch my hands and feet. Sometimes I feel that my breathing is not so smooth and I am suffocating.

What makes her even more angry is the way her mother-in-law looks at her parents, just like looking at homeless people outside, full of disgust and contempt, and she can't wait to drive them away at once.

Xiaoyun saw it, and tears swirled in her eyes, but she couldn't flow down yet, for fear that her parents would worry.

She really wants to move out, but her mother-in-law doesn't agree. She said you can go out, but you can only take your clothes and nothing else.

Xiaoyun is reluctant to leave her husband and children, but she still wants to stay, often with tears.

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My best friend's poems are different.

Although I did not meet a mansion, I met a good mother-in-law.

When she got married, her mother-in-law was afraid that she didn't like living with them. Their home is still a 60-square-meter house with two bedrooms and one living room, so they bought Xiaoshi a 90-square-meter new house with two bedrooms and one living room in the city center.

After the marriage, Xiaoshi went to work, and her mother-in-law took the bus early every day to cook, wash clothes and take care of the children, and then took the bus home very late.

Xiaoshi saw her mother-in-law running back and forth hard, so she let her mother-in-law rent out the old house and move in with her.

My mother-in-law has been hesitating, and Xiaoshi has been persuading. Finally, one day, her mother-in-law agreed and moved in together. it runs in the family laughed and laughed. Xiaoshi was glad to persuade her mother-in-law to move in together.

It can be seen that it is not the house that determines the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, nor the house that determines whether the daughter-in-law can live in peace with her mother-in-law. What determines the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is people's emotions.

If two kind and grateful mother-in-law live together, their relationship will not be worse than that of mother and daughter, and even better and more harmonious.