Don't drink when you are advised to drink. How to break the game?

China people have the custom of making friends at cocktail parties and a set of fixed wine table culture, so it is inevitable to persuade people to drink. No matter with friends, relatives or colleagues, we all need wine as a blending agent, but on the wine table, we often encounter the situation that we can't persuade wine. How to deal with this situation?

The first type: rhetorical type

Prepare a set of statements before going to the meeting. For "deep feelings, sulking, shallow licking", you can use "deep feelings, just drink well" to refuse, and you can prepare more jingles or jokes to excuse yourself, so as to politely refuse without losing humor and maintain a good atmosphere on the wine table.

The second type: excuse type

Nowadays, the popularity of cars makes him one of the excuses on the wine table. If you meet a drinking buddy, you can say that you will drive in the future and use tea instead of wine. He certainly won't try to persuade wine. Also, you can say that you were bitten by a dog and recently got rabies vaccine. You can't drink. After this time, I will be with you. And that is to say, if you are sick, you are taking cephalosporin, you can't drink, and you can refuse the person who advised you to drink.

The third type: pretend type

There is a kind of person who won't stop until he is advised to pour wine. In this case, he can show that he doesn't drink at ordinary times, but today you kindly refuse, so I will drink a little, and I must act very painful when drinking. This will give face to the person who advised the wine, and he won't embarrass you, so I gave up.

In fact, people who persuade wine are also trying to get a good atmosphere on the wine table. We can choose coping strategies that don't destroy this atmosphere. In fact, persuading wine is just like playing Tai Chi. To repel each other with weak tactics, don't refuse others hard, which will spoil others' fun and make you unhappy.