Why does mother-in-law look down on her in-laws?

Daughter-in-law is an only child with superior family conditions. When my son married her, my mother disagreed. She feels that the conditions of our two families are very different, and we feel that we have wronged her daughter. But the daughter-in-law loves her son very much, and the two young people are still together. We can only say that we try our best to satisfy the best for her.

After we got married, my daughter-in-law lived with us. Knowing that she has been spoiled since childhood, her living conditions must be improved. My son asked me to raise the monthly food expenses from 1 0,000 to 2,500. For a family of five, the monthly food cost is 2500 yuan, not counting other expenses. It is average in the city, and there is no shortage of meat for every meal. However, my mother is always afraid that her daughter will eat the same nutritious food in my family. She will send something to our house in a few days. Today is all kinds of seafood. Tomorrow may be the fruit I can't name, followed by dry goods and imported rice.

I have a good relationship with my daughter-in-law, so I asked her to tell her mother not to send so many things home. My daughter-in-law said that they were all her favorite foods, so I didn't need to buy them. My mother just bought it by the way

Daughter-in-law usually earns only a little, but look at her clothes, shoes and bags, all of which are full of wardrobes. Cosmetics are even more. I wonder how many bottles are colorful. I told my son that she couldn't spend money like this. She didn't earn enough money. The son said that most of them were bought by her mother, who gave her thousands of pocket money every month.

This makes me feel uncomfortable and I feel that I look down on people. Now that they are married to our family, they should have a good life in our family. If I give fruits and vegetables as gifts occasionally, I will give so much pocket money every month. Isn't this a disguised saying that my son can't afford this family? How can this make the couple face life through thick and thin, and find their mother and in-laws when they encounter difficulties? Do you love your daughter or hurt her?

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