1 1 year-old daughter refused to study, and her father took her to dig lotus roots for 4 hours in the scorching sun. Do you support this kind of education?

Recently, a single father uploaded a video in which he asked his rebellious daughter who refused to study to dig lotus roots for four hours alone in the scorching sun, saying that she should hold back no matter how distressed she was. What happened? It turns out that this father is from Xianning, Hubei. He and his daughter have lived together for many years, and this life is very difficult. Now 1 1 year-old daughter is in a rebellious period, but she refuses to study hard. Her father was really anxious, so the single father decided to let her experience the hardships of life. Isn't that the scene in the video?

Looking at my daughter who has been exposed to the hot sun for four hours, her face is flushed and peeling. Although my father said he was distressed, he held back. This behavior is full of dad's expectations for his daughter. I hope her daughter will realize her father's difficulties this time. She can study hard in the future and become a talent in the future. In response to this matter. It has caused heated discussion among many netizens. Most netizens believe that what this father does for his children is that life is too comfortable, that is, to let the children know that studying is not bitter, and life will be bitter.

Many netizens also think this is really effective? If the child is not the material for reading, will you put a lot of pressure on the child by pushing him so hard? On the whole, netizens are basically divided into two groups, one group recognizes the father's education method, and the other group thinks that the way out for children should not only be to study. In fact, many parents are using this kind of education. For example, on 202 1, a video of a father taking his son to a construction site in Hangzhou became popular on the Internet. The boy in the video is just twelve or thirteen years old, covered in mud, sitting on the ground panting. The father asked the child if he was tired. The child replied, tired. Then dad asked, is it better to study or work? The child said without thinking, reading is good.

Afterwards, the father responded to the hot discussion of netizens. Yes, what he cares about is not the child's grades, but the child's learning attitude. I hope he can be serious, because attitude determines everything. These days, it seems that parents like to move bricks to educate their children. In fact, this method contains many hidden risks. First of all, children are still in the stage of physical development, and the long-term workload of adults often leads to accidents due to lack of experience.

Second, the act is suspected of violating the safety production regulations. Minors are prohibited from entering construction sites and production workshops. Even adults who enter these places should always pay attention to safety issues, not to mention taking underage children to engage in production work in these places. In these educational videos, most of Xiong Haizi who can't stand the test are very sad and say that they should study hard in the future, which also makes many parents mistakenly think that this method is very effective. In fact, children are not stupid. Of course, there are differences on who is more relaxed, moving bricks or studying. Yes, but how long will this effect last? Have parents reflected? In fact, brick-moving education is just a way for parents to vent their dissatisfaction. Nowadays, parents generally attach great importance to their children's education, not only to study well, but also to develop morally, intellectually, physically and artistically.

I go to school from Monday to Friday, and my spare time and weekends are either interest classes or various remedial classes. Once I do something wrong, I will blame my children. Under heavy pressure, children are very prone to rebellious psychology and are tired of learning. In the face of children's rebellious weariness, parents need to prescribe the right medicine. Let's start with the following points to see if they can get rid of their weariness of learning and turn it into a psychology of loving learning. First of all, parents should create a good learning atmosphere for their children, set an example, play less mobile phones, and learn to accompany their children to study.

Second, make study rules with children. Everyone has their own division of labor and responsibility, so that children can learn to pay for their families. Your own labor. Third, understand children's preferences and needs, analyze problems and reasons with children, and listen to their voices. For example, why don't you want to study today? Why do you think you don't like this course? Find the reason to solve the problem, not impose the wishes of parents on children. Fourth, it is a combination of work and rest. Nowadays, children study hard. For extracurricular interest classes, parents should grasp the scale, try to negotiate rest time with their children, meet their children's wishes appropriately, and participate in outdoor activities more. After all, although learning is important, children's physical and mental health is more important.