I'd rather be a city wanderer than go back to my hometown.

What's it like to drift away from your hometown?

that is, I just go home to see my parents, and then I just want to stay at home every day and don't want to go anywhere.

that is, when relatives and friends get together and talk about the trivial things that happen at home, I have nothing to say but "mm", "mm" and "mm", and I can't get into their circle.

That is, when I saw those childhood playmates who became housewives and greeted me, I would just remember who she was, but I couldn't remember, and then I forgot to say anything about the pleasantries.

that is, I'm not used to the slow-paced lazy life there, and spending a lot of time on a meal still doesn't taste like a child.

that is, after two days of going home, I began to count how many days I would stay before I could leave.

Yes, the places we used to know have become strange, and there is no intersection. When we were studying, we always said that we would build our hometown when we grew up, and then we chose to leave as soon as we graduated.

I left my heart and followed it.

When I first came to Shenzhen, classmates who came together often got together.

At that time, people often said that one of their plans was to earn some money in Shenzhen and go back to their hometown for development.

Yes, the prosperity of Shenzhen attracted us, and the prosperity of Shenzhen made us look weak at that time. Being here without work experience is better than all the beautiful things.

After two or three years of persistence, the situation of the students who stayed behind has improved, and gradually they have another half. I am the first one in this group to get married. I don't think much about marrying everyone, but I regard him as a potential classmate Zhang. My eyes are very strange.

Everyone got together to talk about work and life in Shenzhen, but they forgot their plans to go back to their hometown for development.

Yes, everything here is getting familiar and used to, getting used to the rainy season without rainy days, getting used to the warm climate, getting used to the green of the four seasons, getting used to the hard-working life at the speed of Shenzhen, and getting used to the phrase "Shenzhen people come here".

Yes, Shenzhen has tacitly become the second hometown, and the hometown is gradually becoming blurred.

Yes, I want to stay for a long time. Our three views are baptized in this city, and then we can adapt to everything here. Although we often feel tired, we can be full of blood and vitality every day, because this is a city full of vitality and dreams.

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I'm not willing to spend my whole life in a small place like my hometown, unable to change my destiny, unable to do anything I want, without a platform or relationship, but regarded as incompetent, so I chose to come to Shenzhen.

When I was a child, my father was very worried about my future. He thought it would be difficult for me to find a job when I stepped into the society, because I was not good at talking, I didn't know how to be polite, I didn't praise people, and I didn't know anything about the world.

So, when my dad talks about me, he has a headache, saying that I will suffer when I grow up, and there is nothing at home to help me.

So, I feel sorry for myself since I was a child, thinking that I really can't do it, and I make mistakes when I do things. Usually, I am more silent, afraid that others will call me stupid, and I am used to walking with my head down.

when I came to Shenzhen, I found that there are many opportunities, that is, you have to rely on your own ability to fight for it.

yes, you should have the ability to create value, not whether you like to talk or not, whether your mouth is sweet or not.

In a company where I worked, the boss said that an employee can't be judged by whether he is introverted or extroverted. Everyone has his strengths, so we should give full play to everyone's strengths and avoid putting employees in positions that he is not good at and burying talents.

yes, as long as you have the ability, you don't have to worry about not finding a job here at all.

So, people in this city are very hardworking and try their best to make themselves capable.

That's probably why I like tossing. In this city, there are too many people who work harder than me, and too many people who are better than me. I'm afraid of being abandoned by this city.

When I am free, I will feel anxious. When I set goals for myself and try to achieve them, my mind will be at ease.

After working for more than 1 years, several leaders I have talked with have recognized and trusted me. When a job is given to me, I can just do better than others and reassure them.

and my dad's worry about me since he was a child has never been an obstacle to me here.

Now I accept my imperfections, I admit that my emotional intelligence is low, and I no longer feel sorry for myself, but I am humble.

It is the city of Shenzhen that has made me who I am today and made me better.

Every time my dad comes to my place, he always sees me with a book or tapping away at the computer. I can't understand. He said that work means going to and from work on time every day. Why are we still busy after work?

Yes, because this is in Shenzhen.

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The phrase "Shenzhen people come here" can be seen everywhere in Shenzhen, so we outsiders really don't think of ourselves as outsiders.

After all these years, I can't speak a word of Cantonese. When people talk to me in Cantonese, I will tell them directly that I don't understand Cantonese, mind your language. I'm not embarrassed, and I'm not worried about being discriminated against.

if you don't get stuck in business, you have to find an acquaintance to solve it. If you are unfamiliar with business, there is a special consultation window to answer you in detail.

besides, when working in Shenzhen, the biggest feeling is the speed and good service attitude. If the staff is mad at you, then ta will be miserable.

The complaint telephone numbers are set in conspicuous positions and can also be found on the Internet. Someone must answer the phone call, take notes, and follow up with relevant personnel until it is solved, and you will never have a bad attitude because of your complaint, but you will be very good.

why? Because I called, but the service is not bad.

once, I couldn't find the corresponding business window for handling the company's business, and I called several times for consultation. The business acceptance place given by the customer service was wrong, and it was also because our products were too special, so it was difficult to judge which department accepted them.

Later, I made a complaint phone call with trepidation.

The customer service kindly asked me, "Hello, which department do you want to complain about?" I was stunned at that time. To tell the truth, I complained to the government offices. A foreigner like me who was born in a small place was a little afraid to speak up.

then she asked me again, and I said my demands. The customer service recorded my demands one by one and rechecked them with me to ensure the accuracy of the information, and then told me that the relevant personnel would connect with me until my demands were solved.

if the staff of the receiving department really called me later, they first apologized to me, and then told me where to handle it, the process and the information requirements, and answered me patiently.

I'm really satisfied and moved by this. I didn't expect them to be so responsible.

This is Shenzhen. A hometown person can't believe that there is such a place that sincerely serves the people.

In my hometown, this kind of treatment is impossible. I don't know who to turn to if I want to complain, and even if I did, no one would dare to do it, because everyone knows that working in my hometown depends on relationships. Who will get into trouble for themselves? I think I can't do anything in the future, so I can bear it.

So, if you want to do something in Shenzhen, you are treated fairly.

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Actually, what I am amazed by is the public facilities in Shenzhen.

There are many book lending points, most of which are located in residential areas. It is very convenient to borrow and return books automatically. Library staff regularly arrange and change books every working day. There are plenty of learning resources, and there are also many free public welfare classes in Shenzhen.

every district of the community health center has it. You can go to the community health center at your doorstep for minor problems. If you go to a big hospital, you can make an appointment online and choose your own doctor. Don't worry that the doctor can't diagnose your illness. The medical resources here are far ahead in the country.

There are even more parks. There are four districts where I live. I can see men, women and children exercising in the morning and at night. It is also cool for the family to come here to bask in the sun on weekends. As everyone in Shenzhen knows, it is really enjoyable to have an outdoor exercise in sunny weather. I often go cycling and turn around on weekends, which makes me feel relaxed and happy.

The greening in Shenzhen is highly praised. There are trees all year round. A netizen on Zhihu said, "In Shenzhen, you see buildings among trees."

During the Spring Festival, I went to several cities. What made me unaccustomed most was that there was too little greening, the leaves were all yellow and the sky was gray. Before that, I thought about going to a second-tier city for two years. Seeing this, I gave up this idea decisively, and I still like Shenzhen Green and Shenzhen Blue best.

speaking of transportation, the rail transit in Shenzhen has been built very fast and developed in recent years, so you can basically choose the subway when you go out. In the morning, you will get a free "Shenzhen Metropolis Daily" by subway, and even if you are far from the subway entrance, you can enjoy cycling. If it doesn't work, Shenzhen has a fixed-point shuttle bus to and from work. If you can't get a taxi, you can call an express train or a special car. There is always something for you to go out for a trip.

I only signed up for the driving school two years ago, but I haven't taken any action until now. It's because the traffic in Shenzhen is so convenient that I don't feel that I won't bring any inconvenience to my life by driving. What I want now is not to take the exam quickly, but whether I can get a refund. I don't even want to take the exam.

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If you stay in Shenzhen for a long time, you will pay attention to education.

In the past two years, the pace of school construction in Shenzhen has also been much faster. There are two schools under construction near where I live.

It is said that there are not only public schools but also private schools, including children of migrant workers who can't attend public schools, and some advanced private schools.

Is the school here really good? For me, I don't know if it is good enough, but I am satisfied with the school here.

My family is already in primary school. Reading is really free, and there is no need to pay textbook fees. This seems to be important in other cities.

When children go to school, should our parents have a good relationship with teachers and let them take care of their children?

oh, No, as we all know, I am the last person who can't kiss up and disdain to do it.

Even when I was in primary school, my mother always blew in my ear that it was not good for me to sit in the last row, and asked me to give a gift to my teacher, saying that I didn't know the way of the world and that Zhuang Zhuang was left out by my teacher.

however, I don't listen to my mother at all.

as it turns out, I am right.

As long as my homework is not finished and my study status is not good, the teacher will tell me at the first time and advise me how to adjust my children. The teacher will not forget to tell me when the children behave well.

In addition, the teacher will also analyze the children's learning in all aspects and then give me feedback, so that our parents can know and strengthen the children's weaknesses in time.

In short, teachers will actively keep in touch with parents.

Then why is his seat at the back? Zhuang Zhuang told me that the teacher came according to his height. He was the tallest in his class, so he sat in the last row. He didn't think it was bad to sit in the last row. Besides, Shenzhen schools strictly control that each class should have no more than 5 students, and the last row is just the sixth row.

My niece's school is very famous in my hometown. There are more than 8 students in a class, and the seats are changed. Sometimes students forget their seats, and there are too many related households.

I also want to talk about re-education.

People who work hard in such a first-tier city will feel the same way. There are many people who are better than themselves. There are always some aspects of themselves that need further study. One of my colleagues just resigned and is going to study abroad.

In Shenzhen, there are so many adult learning institutions that you can choose according to your own tolerance and actual situation.

in a small city, this area is probably blank. A few days ago, I found an English training institution for Zhang. Many well-known institutions have no coverage in some second-tier cities, and most of them provide online education. In a small city, if you want to learn, resources are still very limited.

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I may be scolded for writing here.

If you don't have a house in Shenzhen, no matter how good it is, you won't have to go back to your hometown in the end. You don't like the place where you grew up, but you can have a home, buy a house and live there after all.

Yes, in big cities, it is the high housing prices that make people who drift here struggle, and those who want to settle here but can't afford to buy a house are the most painful problems.

When we went home this Spring Festival, we went to see the house in our hometown. A three-bedroom and two-bedroom apartment costs 9, yuan.

9,. I remember that in 29, I could buy a small three-bedroom elevator in Shenzhen. At that time, the three-bedroom elevator in my hometown was only 15,.

so what is the 9, house in my hometown now?

the house is connected from north to south, which is very good.

Then the houses were too dense, without greening and basic facilities.

There are no kindergartens, schools and developers at all, and there is no need to consider them.

If children go to school in their hometown, they can go to a good school. It doesn't matter which school they go to.

the living facilities around the house are even more backward, and the slow-paced life in my hometown does not pay much attention to this.

what will the property in the community be like? Can you manage it as well as Shenzhen?

In my hometown, many of my relatives live in residential quarters, and the walls of residential quarters are filthy. What is greening? Greening is piles of grass that grows taller than people and nobody mows it.

I have lived in Shenzhen for a long time, and such an environment is totally unacceptable to me.

the phrase "escape from the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen" once expressed the feelings of many people. Will it really be better to go back to your hometown than to live in the front line?

A netizen told about the dilemma of selling his house in Shenzhen and living in Wuhan. It was not as beautiful as they thought, and there were too few job opportunities. It was too difficult to find what he liked, and his income couldn't go up, and life was even more difficult. Later, he wanted to go back to Shenzhen and found that the house in Shenzhen was completely beyond his ability to afford.

There is also a colleague of mine. She once owned two suites in Shenzhen, and then sold them all back to her hometown to open a badminton court. The business is not bad, but the money can't be recovered, and there are too many credits, which has always been a loss on the books.

in 13 years, their family decided to go back to Shenzhen, and all their savings together could not afford to buy a house in Shenzhen, but they still decided to go back to Shenzhen for development because they knew there was no way out in their hometown.

Let's talk about a friend of mine. He thought it safe. He continued to earn money in Shenzhen and let his wife go back to open a shop to do business. Now the development of his hometown is getting better and better. He confidently borrowed 5, yuan to set up a store, and he will go back when business improves.

Now that the store is closed, my wife has returned to work in Shenzhen.

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When you come to Shenzhen, you may often think about leaving.