I will never see you again in my next life.

"There is only one fate for relatives. No matter how long I will get along with you in this life, please cherish the time together. In the next life, whether you love it or not, you will never see each other again. "

This is a message from Liang Jizhang, a famous host of Radio Television Hong Kong, to his son. Compared with a hard heart, it will become soft after touching this sentence. No matter how indifferent people are, their hearts will be lost because of a spasm between cold and warm. No matter what kind of person I am, "remorse" is my initial reaction to this sentence. I blame myself for avoiding my parents' attention again and again, just because I don't want to accept the "control" that makes me "tired"; I blame myself for refusing my parents' "nagging" on the grounds of growing up. ......

There was once a netizen who calculated the time to spend with his parents in this life. "After graduation, I stayed in Chongqing to work and went home once a year during the Spring Festival. Really stay at home for no more than 5 days. In five days, there will be about three days to go out and meet friends and socialize. Besides eating, sleeping and shopping, I can really spend only 20 hours with my mother. My mother is 50 years old this year. If God cares that her mother can live to be 85 years old, in her most lonely 30 years, I can accompany her for no more than 600 hours, that is, 25 days, less than a month. "

How many times can we see our parents when they are old? This question is like a needle inserted into our emotional chest and touches our numb nerves. Everyone will feel heavy and blame themselves. When we use the word' how much' to mark the number of times we meet our parents, we find that this feeling is so precious, but it is ruthlessly squandered. Not how much more, but how much less. We spend much less time with our parents than expected. If you want to repent for the lost opportunity, it is really too late to read this sentence. So, when you want to escape from your parents' nagging, please consider how much love you can return in this nagging. When you want to stay away from your parents' "control", please calculate how much time your parents have left for you.

Previously, I was highly concerned about the revision of the Law on the Elderly, and I strongly supported raising "going home often to see" to the legal level. However, when all the dust settled and the terms really began to play a legal role, my enthusiasm was gone. Another problem has surfaced. Is the "often going home to see" bound by legal provisions still smelling of family affection? The answer is definitely no, how can a child get inner peace? Maybe it's hard for us to earn enough money to repay our kindness happily all our lives, but it doesn't affect us to repay our parents. Maybe we can go home often; Maybe we can do what we can and spend a little money to let them take a short trip; probably ...

Maybe we are still young and our parents are not old enough, but please remember that life has an end; Perhaps we can always leave unfinished business and unfinished feelings to tomorrow without hesitation, but please remember that the next tomorrow will always end. Cherish the present and cherish every inch of time you can spend with your parents, because in the next life, whether you love it or not, you will never see each other again.